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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to spend time with me? What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance one year now and we only see each other twice a week. The two days out of the 7 he would rather spend at home or with my family. I get all dressed up trying to look cute and you would think since we only have those two days he would want to be alone ... (87 words)

His parents don't like him seeing me so he "sneaks around" to see me and I hate it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help i dont know what to do well okay here goes. me and my bf have been going out 4 about half a year now and we love each other to bits. his parents were fine about it till earlier on in may and that made them dislike me. Now they still havent got over it and wouldnt let ... (161 words)

I told myself that I would never mention marriage to him again, but at the same time, I don't really want to help pay for a house that is only in his name... what do I do here for the best?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living w/ my boyfriend for 2 yrs. We have been renting. He is now working on getting a loan for a house (to buy) and we have started house hunting. He has been talking about putting the house in his name only. I don't really care for the house to be in my name as ... (276 words)

I am very lonely, no one seems interested in having new friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have previously posted about 7 months ago saying......"been feeling quiet lonley now i have graduated from uni recently and all my friends have moved away and the ones that stayed are more friendly with my ex. me and ex dated all through uni but broke up by then end of it and ... (265 words)

Is it ok to try new things without discussing it or am I right to be upset?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sexually active with my bf of 9 months. Last night we had sex and he pulled out and jizzed all over me. He's never done that before. We use birth control and he didn't need to do that. I got mad because he didn't ask first. He says he shouldn't have to ask before doing ... (102 words)

My ex best friend just so happens to be my boyfriend's best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 mths now. His best friend just so happens to be the girl i grew up with, an used to be best friends with. we are no longer friends because she slept with alot of my boyfriends in the past an have not spoke to eachother in ... (213 words)

Does multiple partners (60 plus) "tear up" a womans vagina?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Does multiple partners (60+) "tear up" a womans vagina?... (9 words)

I had my first gf couple months ago and am hesitant to have sex as of now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok guys, I've been battling this problem for months now. I sincerely need your help and advice from this. I am 27/m/virgin/no drugs or alcohol/exercise regularly. I had my first gf couple months ago and am hesitant to have sex as of now. Here's why. I had couple of mess'n... (333 words)

How can I be a better sister if he hates me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Sorry it’s so long. I'm 16 years old. I’ve written on this subject before, but now things are much worse. My brother has aspergers syndrome, which is on the autism spectrum. It means, among other things, that he is very narrow minded, quick to anger, has very few communi... (417 words)

Do you think guys can grow on you or that if there's no instant attraction there never will be????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been on a few dates with a guy. He seems sweet but I've not felt any real attraction. He's quite good looking and ticks a lot of the boxes - he's intelligent, got a good job, sporty etc but for some reason I've not felt a real spark. He's really polite and texts all the ... (132 words)

Wow! Have I blown it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about seven months ago in a karaoke bar. We started talking and afetr a few weeks we exchanged phone numbers. We ended up sleeping together several times and I really liked him. In the summer I had to go away for work purposes and he was really upset about it. We ... (490 words)

Is it possible to have a period after the date you could have gotten pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 15 years old and I know the consequences but I was curious. Is it possible to have a period after the date you could have gotten pregnant because I am having many symptoms of pregnancy but I have had a period after the possiby date of getting pregnant but it wasn't a ... (88 words)

I feel like it's all my fault. I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in early March and he gave me his number. We started going out for drinks together and getting to know each other. We soon got involved in a sexual relationship and he told me that he wanted more than sex one day but wasnt ready for a committed relationship. I ... (478 words)

How can I find out for sure if he has a girlfriend...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, This is several questions in one post: Background stuff: I really like this guy at sixth form, but sadly he is in only one of my classes. I think he likes me (going on the basis of how he flirts so heavily in class). I do not know much about him since our year started... (158 words)

How do I go down on my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend taught me a technique that produced her first blended orgasm where I would gently suck around her clitoris and hum while my lips were pursed and shake my head left and right to gently pull the surrounding skin area while stimulating her g-spot with my fingers. ... (83 words)

What's the best way to use a vibrator on my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have talked about using some sex toys but neither one of us has any experience with them and she's a bit quiet in the bedroom and usually likes it better when I take charge. Any tips on the best way to use a vibrator or the techniques you use? My imp... (102 words)

I never kissed anyone and now I might like a boy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy really likes me and he keeps asking me out. I think I like him too but I'm really not sure. I'm really worried about kissing him as I've never kissed anyone before. Please help :(... (38 words)

How do I know if I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - The thing is I do fancy boys but I do fancy some girls as well. When my friend messes around I feel very uneasy. How do I know if I'm straight, bi, or gay?... (34 words)

Should I ingore her or should I just be her friend like she wants even though that's gonna kill me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok everyone I'm SO confused and need major help and advice THANKS! I met this girl at my bowling alley (we bowl in the same league and have been for years). I told her how I felt about her, and she liked me too. she was dating this kid and they broke up on monday well I've... (438 words)

How hard is it to have a relationship with someone who is bi-polar?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age - I have been involved with a lovely man for about five months now. We had known each other for about six months before that but just as part of a group of friends. Things have become quite serious between us and we have begun to talk about having a long term future together. ... (145 words)

How do you gain a thicker skin in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - For most of my life I have tried so hard to get people to like me. I'm quite a sensitive person and I was always the "nice girl." While this had it's rewards, I didn't feel I could really express myself. In recent years, I've begun stating my mind more and more, and it has made ... (105 words)

I made a commet to my boyfriend and I don't know if I hurt his feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody, and thanks for read my post, I think I said something to my boyfriend that wasn't good, we had a discution 2 days ago, he is a very quiet guy, he doesn't raise his voice, but I am very volatil, and sometimes I say things that I later regret, this time I told ... (200 words)

Even although she's my ex, she calls me "because she's lonely". How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex just recently ended her relationship with a married co-worker. She is now calling me up and wanting me to hang out with her because she is lonely. One time when I left to go home she called me 5 minutes later and said she didn't want to be left alone. She said that she ... (276 words)

Why can't we call this a break instead of breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 years had many problems lately, mainly because of my anger issue,we went 2 days without speaking then he finally decided that we needed to talk, he then told me that it was over for us,that he just couldn't do it anymore, i told him that i was ... (248 words)

I get nervous talking to girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is my first time asking someone what should i do in my relations with a woman. I lived in Sweden originally. I am from Iraq and have been here in Sweden for 9 months now. I am 17 years old. My problem is that I have this fear of talking to girls just getting so nervous.... (98 words)

My LDR needs too much attention and he becomes tempermental!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Please help I need your advice. My relationship with my long distance Bf for 2 yrs is getting to be in the rock bottom. Our plans to meet each other has been push through due to some personal problems. Lately he has some major problems with his business and h... (713 words)

Has he changed his mind? He told me all he wants is a bit of fun.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have fallen head over heels with a guy I work with. I thought he felt the same but he says he just wants a bit of fun which I am taking he just wants sexually favours which he knows that I wont do as he calls me sheltered. He goy annoyed when I went for lunch with an older ... (70 words)

How can I pretend to be a virgin when I marry?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have done sex before marrige with my boyfriend and now i am getting married to some one else and scared of that he will come to know that i am not a virgin so how can i make him belive that i never had sex before can my vagina b as tight before?... (54 words)

I might be having sex on Saturday, I need to be prepared...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I might be havein sex on saturday with my best friend. We are both 15 im a male virgin and she has slept wiht bout 7 guys. Can someone please give me some advice on sex as a whole? Thanks for your reply James =]... (51 words)

I have lost two friends over us dating! How can I restore my friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been feeling really sorry for myself recently and it's a bit of a long story so here goes... I'm currently learning Spanish at university and last year I met a really great friend who came from Spain and was studying at my University in England - we met up every wee... (552 words)

STD from a dog?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I came home from work early and saw my girlfriend at the time uploading videos to the web. When i logged onto the PC i went to check out what she recorded. It seems my ex-girlfriend engaged is sexual acts with my German Sheppard. She literally had vaginal intercourse with him, ... (122 words)

How can I tell if this guy falling in live with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have a garment business and i got attracted with my landlord who happens to be married just like me. He often visits me in my store. when im around he touches my shoulder and my hands until i started to fall for him. He recently gave me a big discount on ... (133 words)

How do I help him through this? He's married and I love him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I fell in love with a married man, we are perfect for each other and we have been together for 6 months, he says he is in love with me too. He has not been happy with his wife of 9 years for a very, very long time and planned on leaving her even before we got together. Well ... (199 words)

Why does my teacher never send me anything? His silence is killing me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I began to fall in love with my teacher when i was in 12 th grade.( now I’m in college). He's not handsome but really nice. I’m attracted by his personality. He's a caring person. I remember one time he cried because one student died for a car accident. ... (549 words)

What should I do to smell better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i am a little embarrassed. My boyfriend says that when I am on my period I smell a bit. What should I do to smell better. I have seen the wipes in the supermarket, should i use them or baby wipes?... (43 words)

I think I am obsessed with a guy I work with, any useful tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I am obsessed with a guy I work with, I can't get him out of my head and I feel that if I don't see him, my day is somehow incomplete. I have tried staying in my own office and blanking him, but it's not working. Has anyone got any useful tips for me?... (58 words)

Where am I going wrong, please tell me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a bit of a fool of myself with this guy I thought liked me, I asked him out which took me ages to build the courage to do, and he said yes, then he didn't turn up, I see him nearly every day and we just talk like nothing has happened, and I suppose that is for the best... (153 words)

Which one of us is more likely to be the father??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I had sex with my ex on 6th of september, 3 days after her period, she then had sex with another guy on the 14th of september. she is now pregnant, who is more likely to be responsible for the baby, me or the other guy?... (47 words)

Does anyone find it strange that we are 5 years apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and my girlfriend is 17. We have been dating for 2 years. Her parents really like me and my parents really like her. Both of our families have dinner every once in a blue moon and they've been over for a couple holidays. Does anyone find it strange that we are 5 year... (71 words)

Got any tips on how I can satisfy her and make her moan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have a very natural problem., i want to make my GF moan and i try to do that by rubbing my finger on her... relaxation-part, and it works sure but... Its not enough... Got any tips? Id love to satisfy her the best way i can... But how? thanks for any answers!... (58 words)

I have a clearish white discharge...is something wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean if you have a clearish white discharge coming out of your virgina??? its coming out alot....in like globs and real slowly....when i go to the bathroom its dripping in globs real slow....im only 14 yrs old and still a virgin...i've masterbated before ... (47 words)

Could the past sexual abuse from my ex, be the cause of this pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

- I'm really scared right now. I think something is really wrong with me. Earlier this year I was in an abusive relationship. In particular my bf was sexually abusive towards me. Ever since then, my clitoris has been really painful to the slightest touch. This pain comes and g... (267 words)

Has any women told there bf's that they loved them first? Or should they wait until he says it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. And I already know that I am in love with him, but I am afraid to tell him.. I've always thought that the man should tell his girlfriend first. But I really do think he loves me back, you know just the way he looks... (192 words)

Should I pluck up the courage to give him a call or just wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - A couple of months ago I started seeing this guy. We had known each other for 18 years and during this time there has always been this tremendous chemistry between us. We never got it together though because I was always in a relationship with someone else, however, often we ... (688 words)

She says she loves me, but can she...if she wants to try with her mate to see if she loves him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf dumped me sunday cos she said she was confused about things, and assured me there was no-one else, then wednesday she told me her heart loves two guys, her mate and myself. she wants to try things with the other guy and see what happens. she has told me i was distant and ... (158 words)

What do I do to keep her from pushing me away?

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3 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend was molested by her older brother when she was 7 and again when she was 12. She is also bi-polar and the combnation of this things gives her nightmares. She is beging to push me away even though she tells me that that I am the only one who can balance her out. ... (68 words)

How do I accept that marriage will never happen for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36 years old and never married. I have been living with my boyfriend of 5 years for the last 3 years. I have a 13 year old daughter.(not his) Anyway, He convinced me to quit my job and help him build his buisness. Which I did, with no pay. Thinking if he wanted to build ... (228 words)

How erect does a guy have to be to give him a blow job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im curious. A guy's penis, does it have to be erect before you can start to play with him or give him a blowjob? All answers welcomed and appreciated. Thanks!... (33 words)

Does sex have to feel so mechanical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Another one of the thousands of sex questions on this site, but I really have no one else to talk to about this sensitive subject. I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 8 years... but we're really just best friends now. About 4 years ago, the sexual stuff died out, ... (782 words)

I can't tell him what I want because I'm too shy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Monk and I got married recently. He's in the military, navy, but he has a pretty decent schedule right now. Before, he used to be so romantic and pationate (oh, we sorta did an online dating while he was in A-school, we knew each other from high school and met up again this ... (201 words)

Will it work out if I cheated on my husband? I told him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Almost a year ago, I had a break up with my now husband. I had a rebound after him for about a month. After deciding to be together again, I break it off with the other guy. I was scared that it wouldn't work out between us, and made a bad mistake and slept with the other guy. ... (89 words)

My boyfriend has cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has cheated on me....he was already engaged but still he wants to keep the relation with me.....one of his friend told me about his engagement and all about his past......but still he is not ready to accept his mistakes....I really don't know what to do.....plzzz ... (50 words)

I'm just not interested in ANYONE, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never done this before, but here goes... I'm a 20 year old student, majoring in economics pre-law. I'll be graduating in the next few months, and will be one of the youngest students attending law school, so I'd like to think I have a decent head on my shoulders. I'm w... (145 words)

He does'nt want to marry me,I don't know why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5924 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I don't know what to do. I was engage with this man for over 15 years, but he does'nt want to marry me. I dont know why. A year back everything changed. Well, about 5 months ago I broke the engagement, and He never tells me how I look, or that he loves me. So in these 5 ... (122 words)

I should have known when we met in the psychiatric hospital!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know where to begin, i met him in a phych ward, i was withdrawling from alcohol and him cocaine. we confided in eachother alot and stayed in touch, he was 28 i was 23, he was living with his grandma and i was living with friends, about 2 month later we met up. we ended ... (1598 words)

Who was wrong????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

3 October 2008 (M) - Okay at work and this manager from another company not my own comes up out of no where and started yelling, cursing, and at one point stuck his shoulder in my chest when we were face to face. Not only did this manger harass me to do a job that wasn't mine to do for a company ... (153 words)

I don't enjoy sex with my BF

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I`m 24 yrs old and my boyfriend is 26 yrs we`ve been seeing each other for 8 years now,but my problem is I dont enjoy having sex with him,the thing is everytime when he enters me I dont feel anything i dont reach an orgasm or penetrates but when I`m on top of him and with our ... (140 words)

Ex-gf sleeps with friend 2wks after breakup, now wants to get back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Gf and I dated 2.5 years, towards the end, we start taking each other for granted (I definitely take my share of the blame), less talking, more fights, etc... We planned on going to the Olympics together this summer. 2 weeks before the trip, she calls me out of the blue and ... (542 words)

I need some neutral insight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was reluctantly planning on moving to florida to go to school at a community college full time august 1st. july 26th i invited my friend jamie to my friend davids birthday party, because she was nice and i thought she was cute. she brought along her ex boyfriend ryan ... (946 words)

Do some women prefer to deal with men at arms length?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Good morning. I appreciate that all men are different and that all women are different. Could someone explain to me (in a work related context) why a woman would turn down one guy's approach face-to-face by saying 'let's just be friends' whereas she might not be able to turn ... (95 words)

I don't know what to think about these suspicious emails...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem and would like other peoples views, A bit of background, we went to my wifes sisters 18th birthday party, at around 11.30 on saturday night the party finished, I said to my wife I wasn’t going into town and for her to go and enjoy herself. I went back to her s... (544 words)

How can I stop my internet addiction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major procastinating/internet/facebook addiction, which includes surfing the web for long inhumane periods of time and looking at other people's lifes and photo albums, when I should be studying... It's becoming a problem, what can I do?... (40 words)

Why does he feel the need to lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5924 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. Our relationship is really great. For about the last two weeks things have been a little strained. He went on a trip with some of his friends to vegas about a month ago. I saw some pictures on the internet of him w... (207 words)

How do I stop being shy and become more outspoken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im a very shy person when it comes to being around boys and im usually clueless on conversation to keep them intrested . what could i do to help overcome my shyness and become outspoken ?... (36 words)

Is she just being nice to me or does she like me more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, i asked this girl i've known and kind of liked for a while if she wanted to meet up with me outside our usual circle of friend hangouts (because i hardly get to talk to her there) and she suggested we meet up with a few of her friends. Of course i said i couldnt and made ... (117 words)

I need help with 'squirting' - how can I get there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello..I have been sexually active for a very long time and my boyfriend of about 8 months..we have the greatest sex I've ever had or can imagine .... I am very confused, I find myself searching up how to have an orgasm all the time. Yes, I have had a clitoral orgasm hundre... (315 words)

We just had our first child - but now his ex might be pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do? It all started when my boyfriend rented a room in a house were his exgirlfriend lived. He said he was going to find another place as soon as he could since he did not know she was living there already (this was 6 months ago). His exgirlfriend was my frie... (182 words)

I feel like I'm nothing to him anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i have posted before but i am desperate now. i have been with my bf for 15months.. i was everything to him now i feel like a nothing to him. He says daily he loves me and im wondering if it is just habit.. or friendship love or what 1. never texts me at all anymor... (241 words)

Am I gay, or is this just my hormones at the age of 17?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

3 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I am 17. I dont have anything against being gay but i definitely dont want to be gay. I can masturbate to both gay porn and straight porn. It is easier for me to orgasm with gay, but i still get erections looking at straight porn videos. Am i gay or is this just my hormo... (78 words)

How do I get over him? I was his mistress.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering how to get over a guy that i was his mistress. Everything was going great, then something unexpected happens that we break it off, but now we're left with the questions and the feelings....... So what do i do?????... (45 words)

Am I being insecure or are my fears right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend does not tell anyone about me. No one knows about us. I work for him and when I have tried to quit once bcoz of my feelings for him (He was looking for girls for marriage at that time). Prior to this, we were dating but he said he will marryte girl of ... (428 words)

My boyfriend is so shallow about my hair...To weave, or not to weave!

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so my problem is that my boyfriend is reeeally shallow and this is why. He's creole(blk and french) he's only dated mixed females, he's told me in the past that his preference are females that have "good hair" little breast,big butt and that are light skinned OH and his ... (310 words)

How can I get closer to him without making it seem really weird?

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! I'm in need of some help with this crush problem. I like a sophomore who is pretty much amazing (to me at least, some other people say he's a bit annoying really) and every single time I see him I cannot think strait. The people I've told I like him can certainly see it... (226 words)

Discovered he's on dating sites..looking for "adult" relations. Help!

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 years (as of New Years Eve) and am very confused right now about what to do about a situation that has come up. I recently discovered that he has profiles on dating sites for, um how do I put this delicately, meeting people for ... (121 words)

Is it possible that my penis may be too big?

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3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for two years now and love each together very much. I am 21 and she is 20, we are both graduating college soon and want to start a life together, but here the problem. She is very petite, at a little under 5 foot and I am about 6 foot ... (255 words)

Will my friend ever want to be my boy friend

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello iv just turned 19 and iv got back in touch with an old friend, he has always been a gud friend, but recently i have been having more feelings about him and i dont know what to do i think i love him, but i havnt got a clue as to wether he likes me back. Im really shy when ... (114 words)

How do I get him to stop smoking weed?

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 6 1/2 years and when we first met we both spoked weed. I stopped 4 years ago and we've since had a daughter who's 3. The problem is my hubbie is still smoking. He is so moody, bad tempered if he doesn't smoke. He usually waits till our daughter goes to bed ... (205 words)

My boyfriend hurt his back muscle slightly 2 months ago and ever since then he has not been able to orgasm during sex.

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend hurt his back muscle slightly 2 months ago and ever since then he has not been able to orgasm during sex. I am very confused by this because usually his back only starts to hurt after more than 20 minutes of sex but there have been times before the accident when he ... (189 words)

He says he loves me but he can't stop pushing me away

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have been friends with this guy for a couple of year, he was in 3rd year at uni when I started. I've always had feeling for him and just adore him. He left uni and moved back home last year, but this summer agreed to home back to have a relationship with me. I was s... (199 words)

Do you think the fact we've been out so many times and I haven't made a proper move has ruined things and she just thinks we're friends?

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3 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, i've posted on here about this situation before- long story short: i've been talking to this girl every day for 2 months now and we have been out numerous times just the 2 of us but me being me never knew if it was a date or not even though seemingly the situation would ... (380 words)

How to move on?

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3 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really need some help im so confused right now i have been like this for awile..... ok so i broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago because he really hurt me. but i cant seem to forget about him. i DONT like him anymore but he always comes in my mind. He moved but he ... (189 words)