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writes: hi. um, my problem is that i really like this guy who lives next door to me. well that part's not the problem. the problem is that i am only turning fifteen this saturday and that he is turning eighteen in three months. i have no idea what to do, because couldn't he get in trouble for dating me if he says yes if i go ahead and ask him out? i really don't want him to get in trouble? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionan update on my situation: me and my neighbor have worked it out. we agreed that we could only go out until he turned eighteen. well, that was his idea. but i don't think it was a good idea. one of us could end up falling hard and then end up getting hurt. NOW what should i do. i'm so so SO confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): My sister dated an 18 year old when she was 14.
It didn't do her any real harm at all. And he was a good bloke.
There is no reason in the world that you can't date this guy right now. You are not a little baby girl. You are a young adult, a teenager.
How do people expect any teen to get the experience of an adult if they don't go out and be a teenager?
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reader, shenita32  +, writes (21 October 2008):
Yes baby he will get in trouble. And I called you baby because that is what you are. You are at the age where yes you may feel this things because your getting older and maturing mentally and physically. BUT..you are unfortunately not old enough to pursue this man. Has he shown any type of attraction to you? If not you may get your feelings hurt, just because of the age difference and he may even tell your parent or guardian just to protect his self from future problems. You don't want to have this on your shoulders right now.
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