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writes: This is a really stupid question sorry :(But I have joined a kickboxing class and I really don't like it. You have to do 40 press ups not stop, and 100 situps and countless other things. This is hard with d cup boobs ! But my dad really likes the fact that I go and he doesn't know I hate it. One time I was sick, and he got mad at me for not going, can you imagine how he would feel if I told him I wanted to quit? He would be devastated. What should I do? Telling him I am quitting is Not an option!Thanks guys x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): He properly wants you to learn so you can protect yourself, not such a bad ideal. But tell him how you feel or talk about doing another sport, karate?
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (21 October 2008):
Most of the time, parents have a good reason that you may not have considered or don't know about, so sitting down with your Dad and talking about it would be a good first step. For instance, have you told him how hard it is too do these activities with DD boobs? Some of the things that he may bring up are: Whose idea was the kickboxing? How much money did it cost the family? Will you lose money if you quit? Have you changed your mind about an activity before, and if so, how often? Sometimes, parents can get concerned when you give up an activity the minute that it gets difficult, or that they seemed to have no willpower about carrying through with an activity that they had picked out for themselves. If you sit down with a reasonable explanation and come up with a way to carry a bit of the expense, say, reselling your equipment on EBay, then he might be willing for you to change out into a new activity. He may simply want you to be involved with something physical, so be prepared with something that you DO want to do. Good Luck!
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