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writes:Hey everyone.. i know that this sounds like something from a tv show, but hear me out please:I've been seeing this great guy for about 5 months, hes 24 and im 22, and we get along really well. Everything is great, like im thinking id want to marry this guy... Anyway, my dad left a couple of years ago and my mum has being seeing this guy for a while..... well, to cut a long story short, i never really liked him so ive avoided meeting his family and the likes over the passed couple of months. Well, last night, he proposed to my mum at our house and I was there aswell, and he sugggested that we all go back to his place for a drink... i figured this was going to have to be okay since hes my new stepdad or whatever... anyway, I get there, and what do you know, my gorgeous boyfriend is sitting there in the living room!!!!! I was like what the hell is this??? I need advice, how do i tell my mum?? She is very against this kind of thing, because she doesnt believe that its morally right or something (relationships between family).... i really dont know what to do... any advice please?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Hey its the poster of the question... trust me my mum will absolutley flip.... she doesnt think that things like this is incest.... but she thinks its wrong... Tellulah (one of my lovely advisers :P ) yes, it will totally ruin the relationship... because he'll have my mum turning up her nose at his every move... shed just about have a cardiac arrest if she sees me holding his hand!! what to do??
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reader, Midge  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 I agree 100% with Tellulah! Tell your mom, she deserves to know what is happening. It will probably be as much of a shock to her as it is to you.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (21 October 2008):
 The only thing that you can do, is to tell her.
It must have come as a complete shock to you, not knowing who he was actually related to. Even so, she deserves to know, and have the chance to make up her own mind. Or are you scared it will effect your relationship???
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