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anonymous
writes:im very upset at the moment over some guy..we were kind of together for about a month..we just hadnt made it official yet. he even said he loved me and how much he liked me..but then things changed and i was basically just his booty call for about 4 months, as he said he didnt want a girlfriend.the other night he text me after a night out saying he now had a girlfriend. the feeling of rejection is immense as i feel like he did want someone all along..i just wasnt good enough for him. plus..he said he had only met this girl 4 days ago!! im so hurt i feel like i cannot get over this anytime soon. i still really like him and have done all along..hence the fact i continued to see him even though he was just obviously using me.i want to get over him so badly but dont know how!! i want to get back at him..but he has no interest in my life at all so seeing me happy wont make a difference to him..all hes done is string me along for 4 months and ive had nothin good out of it (although i am partly to blame). pleaseee could people give me good advice on how to move on and just be happy for the first time in ages!! please!! x
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reader, woman23  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 I suggest to date somebody else.
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reader, English chick!  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 When i broke up with my first real bf, it took me a while to figure out what i should do.
I tried distracting myself, like reading my most fave books and going out with mates to the movies.
It was hard but i'm now looking for someone better than him, look for the things you like most in a guy and do some research on some other guys you know, it worked for me!
Hope you'll like my answer!
Good luck!
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