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writes:HI, I'm in a relationship and I use to look at a lot of porn.Now that I'm with her I don't, I told her I use to look at porn all the time she didn't. A little bit maybe 2-3 days into the relationship I did look at porn but it did not seem so good any more.We don't have sex, we can't cause it's a long distance thing.I'm a virgin she's not. It's been over 2 months now and all I can think about is just her nothing else not just in a sexaul way mind you. I admit we do some things on cam.... but only once every two weeks or so just for alittle fun. I don't pressure her or anything she asks or I ask just once and no more I'm very respectful. I can't look at porn any more I refuse to look at any other woman except her even for masturbation (sorry if that was too much) but I only do this to her or her with her. This is ok right? cause for some reason I'm cofusedSecondly I said I was a virgin and she wasn't, in about two months we are going to meet up and I say I want to have sex and so does she but I'm scared. I do ask her questions about stuff on what she likes but I don't really know if I'm ready and she hasn't had sex in about 4 years and I don't want to hurt her or something saying I'm not ready and stuff.What do I do please help. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both ^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): If you don't think you're ready, don't do it. She'll understand. Besides, there are way to many risks. Don't let condoms fool you. There is a certain way to put them on.
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reader, Trauma +, writes (21 October 2008):
 If you're not ready, you're not ready. If she cares about you, she'll understand. You shouldn't feel rushed just because she's not a virgin. Just wait until you both feel 100% ready, & the moment feels right. Besides, if you're going to be meeting in person for the first time, you should really take that time to get to know each other a little bit better, instead of just jumping into sex.
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