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*oman23
writes:My husband and I went to dinner at somebody's house where there was wine. We met a new person (older man) who we had to walk with on the way. My husband didn’t like his company and I didn’t mind his company. After he left on his way and we on ours he told me that the man was annoying, and I laughed and said "I thought he was nice, No?" then he said "he seems like a trouble maker and you like that type of people?" I ignored his comment and kept walking, then he said “walk faster I want to get to the house already” and I said why do we have to walk fast, I can't, and he then said "are you walking slow because you drank cup after cup after cup? So then I was angry because I thought he insinuated that I’m a drunk who likes trouble makers. When we arrived to the house he said that I’m messed up because the sentence "to drink cup after cup after cup" didn’t mean that I was drunk, it meant that I drank a lot which to me means that he said I was drunk. So my question is "How would you interpret that comment in your point of view?
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reader, woman23 +, writes (21 October 2008):
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well he doesnt see this man as a threat, he just thinks that i dont make sense and i'm wrong by thinking that he ment i was drunk, that any normal thinking person would know this didnt insinuate me as a drunk. so then he asked "what are you ashamed of your actions?" and i said no, i did drink but not to a point of being drunk the little cups where incredibly small, so that is why it was cup after cup. If i ask him, he would say i'm entitled to my different point of view. and he does question my reasoning when we get into arguments, so much i get confused and laugh. I hardly drink, nly if i feel like it at dinners sometimes. He did give me a reason that he was in a disagreeble mood, he said he was very tired. our history is good for the most part, but we have had our downs. He acts this way often when we argue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): you fancied the trouble maker and you listened to all his crap!
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