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Take a chance & ask her out?

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Question - (21 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *izzle writes:

I've known my friend for about a year now. We've grown really close in this time and love each other's company.

I've liked her since the time we started talking and I know that she liked me as well.

We've both have had hard times and this has brought us closer together, since we were there for each other.

Should I tell her how I feel and ask her out?

I know how I feel is genuine, but my biggest fear is that she doesn't feel the same way any more and this drives her away.

Should I take the chance?

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A female reader, woman23 United States +, writes (21 October 2008):

woman23 agony auntYes definately take the chance because you will suffer more if you dont. imagine you never tell her? then you dont go any where. imagine you never tell her and she meets someone and now you have to suffer seeing them together thinking to your self "Why i didnt ask her out"?

Also, girls love it when a guy shares their feelings with them. It might happen that she doesnt feel the same way, but dont give up anyway, dont feel humiliated and keep trying, steal a kiss, send flowers, call her, eventually you'll win her over. It happened to me many times that i didnt like a guy at first and later i did, because of his surprising devotion. it also happened to many of my friends, and if you ask around, to most women. :)

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