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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm attracted to his mind but not his body. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I need some help. My problem is long so bare with me. I have been talking to this man via text message for quite some time now. I have never met him in person but i met him on the internet quite a while ago. It started out talking on the internet then got to ... (351 words)

If he was serious I would - but is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ive been speaking to my ex bf for most of the day today trying to help sort out his problms with things anyway one of the last conversations we had i asked him if he felt any better he replyed yes as ive talked to you, i asked him again and he said having someone to talk ... (176 words)

He has a gf but is he after me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he had a GF so we took the friend road. He's military so we never lost touch out of what things were happening. He said b... (228 words)

I want to save my marriage so how can I make him understand that I love only him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Around a year ago I finally married my first love of six years. We have started dating very young, well at least I was (I was 14) and he was a few years older then me. Through out these years, I’ve went through so much drama its crazy. I am a Christian, therefore having... (370 words)

My girlfriend thinks I take her for granted !!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What do i do when my girlfriend thinks i take her for granted. I feel like breaking up first. who has got a better plan ?? (I want to marry this girl when im old) for the whole story scroll down Hi my girlfriend and I are together for 1 year now. We have had our u... (721 words)

In a mess with a married man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I want to know if married guys who don't have children with their wives ever leave them? The guy I am seeing hasn't had sex with his wife in 5yrs. After they got married she told him she was going through menopause and didn't care for a man anymore. I've been seeing him since ... (202 words)

He would rather give it to himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years, and the sex has never really been frequent enough for my sex drive. I comprimiesd and settled for once a week, but then I got greedy and didn't want to expirment too much because I wanted to make sure I orgasimed. I ... (286 words)

Pointy boobs...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my breasts are very pointy. I'm worried that I may have tubular breasts/hypomastia. There isn't much fatty/breast tissue under my nipple, nor do i have cleavage (and even with my favorite super push-up bra, i only get mind cleavage compared to most girls). My nipples ... (193 words)

I am insanely in love with her but am terrified to say in case it ruins what we have as friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I've got this friend. I'm 21, and she's in her early 30's. We're quite close but not in a 'talk to her every day capacity'. But, I know I can trust her to go talk to her if I'm trying to deal with something. I met her about 5 years ago, and we instantly hit it off, but we b... (357 words)

I have a problem with my foreskin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I got a problem with my foreskin, since young i have had problems with it being to tight, when its un-erect it's easy to pull back ( and this is when i clean it) however when erect it can only go back a certain amount, for obvious reasons this used to bother me a... (204 words)

Did I do something wrong? HELP Please advise!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I´ve being having a long distance friendship with this guy I met in person quite some time ago. It happens that I was the one emailing and he replying every time. There I was battling to know if he was just polite or what. Until he said he did it b/c he enjoys our fri... (163 words)

My brother has so much porn on his PC I was shocked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, so I've just had the shock of my life, this is how it starts I'm 14 and my computer for some reason today started playing up saying stuff about antivirus and doing weird stuff, so i knew it needed to be fixed, i'm really good with computers and many times before fixed... (381 words)

Are we just great friends with the passion gone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years, although we only live together part time due to his work at the moment. I always knew he liked porn and we were very active in the bedroom initially, although this was short lived after the first 6 month it rapidly went ... (1604 words)

Just out of an abusive relationship, but still love my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, my partner and I have been together for 3 years and living together for 2. We have a 10 month old baby son and things have been tough over the past few months due to money problems etc. He has recently come home after training in London for 12 weeks for a new job and ... (261 words)

Is she just being really flirty with no intent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I've known a girl for a few years but we've only started speaking to each other properly in the past few months. It started off with flirting on Facebook and then we swapped numbers. We get on really well and joke around with each other a lot. She's often telling me how f... (506 words)

Open relationship... what does this really mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age - I have become very good friends with a man I met on the internet. We have the same likes and dislikes. We talk every day on the phone and sometimes twice. We have seen each other twice. He is a long haul trucker. But we live only 30 minutes away. We both don't want a ... (261 words)

I think my wife has cheated with someone else and had sex but she insists it was only a kiss!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice please. I am a stay at home dad.we have 2 kids that are 1 and 2 years old. I started noticing my wife acting different about 4 months ago. She had this glow about her. She was also buying new braws ans panties all the time.she never wanted sex with me. I ... (442 words)

How can I breach the sexual subject with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I breach the sexual subject with him? My boyfriend and I are both pretty inexperienced in relationships, but him a lot more than I. He's never kissed a girl and so were going slow and haven't kissed yet, but we've had some pretty intimate cuddling. This last time we ... (184 words)

I told my girl cousin that I am in love with her...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my girl cousin that i am in love with her...and now i regret it. Let me tell a few things about myself: I am an 18 year old boy and i am love with my 19 year old cousin. This might be a long and confusing story, so i will appreciate if anyone will read it. My cousin... (1053 words)

I'm being bullied into losing my virginity.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK. So, I'm 14, yes fourteen. I've recently got a boyfriend who I've been going out for for 5 months, and that's pretty good I must admit. A lot of girls who have always had it out for me have been coming up to me and been going, "Hey virgin, you still to chicken to lose your ... (221 words)

Issues with being with my best friend's ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - For the last few months, me and this girl have started getting really close and we've just come out and said that we like eachother and we've started getting yet even more closer. I'm so willing to take the next step but the only problem is.. She's an ex of one of my best f... (138 words)

I'm turning ino a stalker over this guy.....I need help fast!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

- I need advice Im goin out of my mind. Ok, theres this guy who I was seeing who at the time I didnt really like. I mean I fancied him loads and even wondered if I was falling in love with him. But in the back of my mind, I knew we werent right. He was a bit younger than me, and ... (200 words)

Scared about my first kiss!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm really freaking out. Tommorow I'm meeting this guy who i like and i think he's going to kiss me but I'm sooooo nervous and worried that when he leans in I'll turn my head away as i have a habit of really freaking out about these things! What should i do? I've never be... (214 words)

I found out my fiance was unfaithful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I found out my fiance was unfaithful. We haven't spoken since. I feel that I need to be told if the whole 8 years we were together was a lie, that when he told me he loved me it was true. I sent him a text explaining that if he ever cared for me he'd tell me the truth about ... (93 words)

I really need some help with the age gap!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right I need help quick! I have just turned 18 and I started to talk to this girl on msn and on the phone she lives 10 minutes away from me and I started to really like her but I forgot to ask her age and I just asked her and found out..... she is 14 :( She has asked t... (95 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'll break up with him after my plastic surgery!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months.. I am currently a cup size A, and hardly fill it in. A couple of weeks ago my father and I were talking and he offered to pay for plastic surgery, I agreed. My Boyfriend was thrilled when I told him the news.. Wel... (170 words)

My mum just confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping together!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice on my very complicated situation! On September 8, my mother who is my best friend also, confessed to me that she and my husband have been sleeping with each other, from the time we started dating up until i got pregnant with our first child, she said ... (622 words)

How long is too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to know how long is too long before you move in together. Me and my partner have not moved in and it has been 5 years now and to be honest it doesn't look like we are moving in anytime soon, but a relationhip should progress to lving together getting married ... (87 words)

Is it possible for someone to fall out of love, basically overnight after 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, well, about 3 months ago, My bf and I broke up. So, that makes him My ex. He just decided 1 day that he didn't want to date anymore, and we have been together 3 years and never had this problem. I'm not too crazy about the friends he hangs with, cause IV had bad past ... (152 words)

Is this just a normal shift on our schedules or is he pulling away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for nearly 10 years. My husband always seemed distant and I began to find outside interests, hobbies and friends so I could avoid spending time with my spouse. After the divorce, I met an interesting man. At the beginning of our relationship, we spent a lot of ... (307 words)

Just how important am I to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I wanna ask how can i tell if my gf wants to be with me and only me, or is she with me just when she has noone else to turn to.... she rings me during Lunch when she is at work, she rings me sometimes during the evening, when I am at work during the weekend i will ring her an... (116 words)

Is there more going on with my boyfriend and his female best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a best friend that is female. Which is fine with me, my best friend is male. Heres the thing.They dated about 8 years ago and now are best friends. When me and him first met(not knowing we would be together) he sad if there was anyone that he could have a ... (262 words)

I feel as if I'm being used and want to end this AGAIN. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age - I'm engaged to a woman from Eastern Europe who is over 20 years younger than me. (That's a bad sign, I know). I live in North America, so our relationship is pretty unusual and we hardly ever see each other. I have known her for almost three years. In total, I may have spent ... (251 words)

Sex advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody, I've been going out with my girlfriend for over 2 years and I need some advice. After the honeymoon period was over (say 6 months) I started noticing that when she became more secure in the relationship that sex became less frequent. I've mentioned it to ... (606 words)

I haven't "came on" this month, could it be because of the morning after pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex and came on my period a couple of days later (on time) but I wanted to take the morning after pill just to be safe so I did so. I then came on my period the next month on time again but quite heavily. But this month I haven't came on? :S do you think it's ... (113 words)

I am really small and people take the piss out of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am REALLY small. I am 16 and only 4ft10/11. People often take the piss and I mostly knock it on the head but sometimes it gets to me. I would like some cool quotes that I can say back to these people so I can put them in their place :). thankyou... (56 words)

Feeling nervous about fellatio to a man with an uncircumcised penis!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, i am after some advice (sexually). I was with a bloke last week who was uncircumsized and this was like the first time for me. He wants to see me and has asked me to give him a good sucking but the thing is i'm quite nervous and scared of what to do coz all the othe... (76 words)

Please help, I want him to think I'm the hottest!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of a year, share a best friend. He was friends with him at the same time as i was. We have no problem with us both being best friends. So...When my boyfriend goes round to Josh's, josh, will tell me a lot of what Kyle has said to him as me and Josh are ... (228 words)

How much sex is normal / usual for a couple after 10 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know how much sex is normal for a couple after being married for 10 years.Give me realisitic figures please.Thank you.... (23 words)

Should I continue to work at this job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I'm really embarassed.I work in a shop which is very difficult,i have to run up and down a long flight of steps,and carry heavy boxes sometimes, so i am bound to get warm.Today,the person in charge pulled me to one side and told me that some customers had been saying i had a ... (415 words)

I suspect my husband is having an affair with his old girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (?) age - hi think my husband is having an affair with his old girl friend who he has a son with hes 21yrs,I did ask him and he said no way she phoned him to ask about advise on buying a house and he only phoned her 5or 6 times so he said, i found his phone bill and he has phoned her ... (103 words)

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age - I need advice on my current relationship. He is a great guy I think I am in love with him. I am not sure if it is for the right reasons. My husband committed suicide in front of me 1 year ago. I am sure sure if I will ever really get through this but I refuse to beat myself u... (508 words)

Is 'seeing each other' and 'being with someone' the same thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys this is a question for the guys... whats the difference when you say we are seeing each other and actually being with someone... is there a difference between the two phrases... why would you say we are seeing each other if you are boyfriend/ girlfriend?? ... (59 words)

I'm so worried, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am on birthcontrol but it's not the regular one it's called the mini pill, i'm very good with it, i also have kind of irregular periods. Me and my fiance have sex often and without condoms but he never "goes" inside me but i'm not sure if he still pre-cums inside me....i've ... (120 words)

Are some men turned off by a womans career path?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Are some men turned off by a woman's career path? Im in my early 30's and finishing up a cardiothoracic surgery fellowship and hoping to start my own independant pracitce next year. I have dated many guys in the past but none of them have reached the relationship level. I have ... (247 words)

He likes me but he has had an on / off relationship with his ex who is also my friend! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend who is a guy says he has feelings for me. weve been friends for 8 months and we talk and txt all the time. we enjoy each other's company. when he said that he has feelings for me, i thort it would ruin our friendship because his ex is my good friend. (their ... (393 words)

How to give a hand job?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so not the easiest of questions. I am in my 20's and want to know how to give a hand job as i don't know how and have just recently started dating someone and want to try it out but i am too embarrassed to tell this guy that i don't know how to do it. Please help ... (59 words)

I think she doesn't love him but is after his money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya today ive had my ex bf on the phone crying his eyes out basically the woman he left me for is treating him like crap,she says she doesnt trust him and that she loves him but not sure if its in a friendship way or a gf/bf way, i really feel for him as he gets really ... (146 words)

I think the only reason we havent hooked up is fear of rejection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age - I have a boyfriend as of few weeks ago, but I like this guy who has a girlfriend of a few months, and I think he likes me too. I think the only reason he and I didn't hook up yet is because we're both afraid of rejection by the other, and we're both shy with each other. But ... (90 words)

My girlfriend is starting to ask my help in paying her bills

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age - I have a girlfriend who i love very much and she says she loves me, she works nights in people care and exhausts herself doing it to pay her mortgage and bills and the money is not going far enough so shes started asking me for money to make up the shortfall etc its starting ... (89 words)

My boyfriend says he cant get any sleep when I am in the bed with him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, So I started dating this guy a month ago and I have slept over. It seems he can't get any sleep when I'm in the bed with him. I don't move much nor snore, and I'm able to sleep well. He hasn't had someone in his bed for the past three years until now. To make matters ... (86 words)

What is the differance between a man admiring beauty and lusting after a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like to ask everyone's opinion. What is the difference between a man looking at a woman and admiring her beauty, vs a man looking at a woman and lusting? ... (32 words)

The lap dance he was offered made me feel jealous. Should I consider being present at a second show?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a soon-to-be bride and my fiancé' and I have been together for a long time. I was never a jealous girl; however, once I got that ring the jealousy hit me. It didn't occur to me until my beau received a lap dance....it was a "celebration" lap dance….a gift from a friend. ... (782 words)

How can I help and support my friend in an abusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my friend is making the biggest mistake of her life. She has been seeing this guy she knew from work for just over a year now, and when they were together for 2 and a half months, she moved in with him in his MUMS house. We had a long conversation before she did this ... (897 words)

Sex questions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi im 35years old and started a new relationship but im not very experinced when it comes to sex and my partner wants me to go on top but have never done that b4 as im queit large built and im to embarrased if i do it wrong and he wants me to go down on him but have never done ... (76 words)

How to handle crushes on guys 'out of your league'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do when you have crushes on men that are far above your head and wouldn't like you anyways?... (20 words)

Unhappy in my marriage: I feel I shouldn't give in to sex if he disrespectful, even abusive in return. Any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 3 years, before that we dated for 4. I was raised in a good CHristian home and in a good church and I was always taught about the importance of abstinence and saving yourself for marriage. About 2 or 3 years into the relationship I caved ... (962 words)

He wont contribute finacially and I am drowing in bills!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a problem with my relationship, me and my boyfriend argue all the time. He got sacked from his job 4 months ago. We have been together for nearly a year but he used to work abroad so I only seen him for weeks at a time. Anyhows after he was sacked he come to live ... (456 words)

Without full penetration can she still get pregnant or STDs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So yeah. My best friend just had sex for the first time. Her and her boyfriend have been dating(on and off) for just over 2 years. He's had sex plenty of times(they're polygamous and he's a whore) These 2 kids are both teenagers and 2 of my best friends. He didn't have a condom ... (159 words)

Having trouble ejaculating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - ppl help pls i have a problem ejeculating when having sex takes me very long. what can i do? tried medicine, uroligist, all stuff. help! ... (25 words)

Through facebook, can I somehow see if this guy is still interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it sounds like a lame question, but i really would appreciate help! I need to know if this guy i have liked for so long, is still interested in me, as he used to admit it so often that he was crazy about me, but recently it's died down. I, however, don't believe so... (180 words)

My husband beats me every time I nag him about watching porn.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband beats me every time I nag him about watching porn, his mother has treated me very badly in the past. We are living separately now. When I yelled at him today for his mother treating me badly he said am eating his head. He watches porn before the kids.I nagged him ... (129 words)

I'm afraid other people will believe what they are saying. What to do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, a group of girls in my college are making my life hell, i was going out with a guy who was in their "circle" and they cant stand me, i dont mean to be cocky but theyr not pretty or anything and i am a part time model and people say that they are just jealous of me, i hate ... (159 words)

What is up with his touching other women yet not touching me in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for 22 years. Recently, in the last two years, he has been being a little too friendly to women when we are out in public. He is not a touchy kind of guy and we do have sex on a regular basis. We are both 58. It began when he went to see m... (497 words)

How can I get him to give us another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend and I broke up last week. We were supposed to move in together, but at the last minute realized it probably wasn't a good idea because we have been fighting a lot lately. While he is not perfect, a good amount of the fighting has been me being quick to j... (381 words)

I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal for a long time. It really upset me because the things he was saying to her were too deep for me. I confronted him and he says everyone does it and he is not cheating... (78 words)

Could this be emotional abuse?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I think I have been in an abusive relationship. Started dating in February, he was loving and things were good. but slowly over time he showed he had a short fuse, ranted to me on the phone about spending time with family, said our time precious, rang me up about 20 times... (1411 words)

Why would he sleep over if they didn't sleep together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi this is based on my mate I'm really worried about her. She's recently been linked back to her old ex the father of her daughter I'll call marc they had been split for 10 months, anyway there not actually going out together but are seeing how they get on when they are toge... (232 words)

We are together 1 year 6 months, but he keeps "wandering". How can I make him fall in love with me again and forget about the other girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 1year and 6months everything was going great, untill he met some girl in another country. we have broken up atleast 5 times and we kept trying because i believe in this relationship, but he is very distant from me this past month...how can ... (73 words)

I've recently split with my boyfriend who I loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me.He still had feelings for on of his past ex's. Now he calls me for long chats. What am I to make of this ?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, im really confused hear I've recently split with my boyfriend who i loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me and he still had feelings for on of his past ex anyway, are split was his choice but we still talk often,anyway i usually speak to him in the day time, but last ... (240 words)

How do I show her it's friendly with body language?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with 'Rick' and my friends, 'tish' and 'john' are in a relationship. things are a little rocky with me and Rick and i like John and he is always flirting with me and compliments me quite a lot. A different girl and I fell out because apparently I was flir... (117 words)

After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after and gave me plenty of ... (243 words)

How do I introduce her to him and get things rolling for her?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I have this female friend of mine who would really like to meet a guy, problem is she's a bit shy. Her and I have been friends for 6 years so I know her quite well, I feel I have a good idea on how to help her but I would like anyone's input on this. This Th... (162 words)

I am a "Walking Disaster"

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - In advance, thanks for anyone who replies to my question; it means a lot to me :). At the moment I am a "Walking Disaster" I broke up from my girlfriend a few months back and I'm still trying to get over it. To me, their was serious relationship fallout when we bro... (270 words)

I don't want to leave my job but if it comes to it I'll have to...

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, i asked for advice about 12 days ago, concerning a meeting with my boss and how my work was affecting my health. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-work-is-damaging-my-health.html Intially I was really pleased about my meeting. He really listened to what I had to sa... (645 words)

Sticky water comes from my penis.

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - When I get erect, sticky water comes from my penis, is this sperm? I am so much upset with that. Please Help ... (24 words)

How can I tell him I KNOW???

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice recently I went threw my boyfriend's fone (I know I shouldn't have) and found that when he had gone out he had met a girl and now hes been texting her asking her to send pictures of herself and things like that. It's killing me knowing that he is do... (112 words)

My wife and I don't have sex at all after marriage.

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 32 and my wife is 34. We got married 8 years ago. We knew each other only for 1 year before we got married. Our sex life is nonexistent and stopped soon after we got married. The Story: Our relationship started as many others - we met at a party at one of our com... (479 words)

Boyfriend wouldn't support abortion if I was pregnant.

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf were talking about what would happen if i got pregnant. I am 18 and only just started studying and am no way ready to have a baby. So i told him, im not ready for a child, as much as it would hurt i would have to get an abortion. He has a one year old daughter... (370 words)

My boyfriend and I are so different and it's causing problems.

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend just wants to see me as and when it suits him and if there is nothing else better to do. We dont share many similar interests except watching tv. He drinks a lot and I don't so any time he goes out he doesn't want me in his company cos I tend to say he's had ... (208 words)

Would he still want to go out with me after I played his best friend?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy that I am in love with just found out that I am in love with him, he loves me too but I also used to chat with him using someone else`s identity not mine, he also told my friend that he has a feeling am the one he was chatting to. The problem is I want to tell him ... (194 words)

I've had boyfriends but have never been kissed properly and he thinks I have.

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been good friends with this guy for a while and recently he's asked me out and I said yes but there is a a small problem. I've had boyfriends but have never been kissed properly and he thinks I have. If I kissed him would he realise I'd not been kissed before or should I ... (116 words)

What do I do to break her out of the shy shell and to convince her to go to the same college as me?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me are heading off to college next school year. She just told me that it's probably best for her to not be in the same college as her. My girlfriend is very shy. She says that when I talk to people, she feels like she belongs to me. She says that because ... (329 words)

My girlfriend is constantly jealous of a girl I once had a crush on.

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend keeps becoming jealous of a girl that I had a crush on. I previously had a crush on a girl for a span of about a year. My girlfriend used to be "best friends" with this girl that I had a crush on. My girlfriend and my ex-crush, plus another girl where like a ... (270 words)

Daughter kicked out!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband kicked out our 17 year old daughter for dating a 25 year for the last 6 months. This was his decision. I have 4 other kids, he says it is her or him, either he will leave or she can come back. What should I do? ... (50 words)

I'm pregnant and have noticed my husband still keeps in contact with ex girlfriends!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I noticed on the computer and on the phone that my husband is still keeping in contact with some of his ex-friends this topic always starts bad emotions between us plus I'm pregnant, should I just let it go and start talking to some of my ex-boyfriends who were great friends of ... (63 words)

Squirting... I need some information please!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am 20 years old and I was wondering if anyone could tell me anything about squriting?Every time I have sex I say stop, I have to pee and he says no that's what we're looking for, that's good your not going to pee your gonna cum. I don't know how to release it, it's dri... (64 words)

Riding a penis facing backwards - any tips?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you ride a penis while facing away from the man. a couple steps would be helpful. Thanks.... (21 words)

I slept with someone I consider my best friend.

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well what happened was me and some of my friends were hanging out and the plan was for the night that we all were supposed to get laid.... me and my friend and my brother and his friend... it was going to be my friend and brother (he's not really my brother I just clame him) ... (325 words)

I want to leave my husband but I can't bring myself to do it.

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together 10 years and have 3 kids. I want to leave him but I can't bring myself to do it. We constantly fight, he curses me and even calls our kids names, I hate him for how he acts. I've asked him to go to counseling about our problems but he ... (177 words)

Betrayed, hurt, confused and angry too.

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Betrayed hurt confused and angry was my last question. It's been a couple of months since I asked that question. And I'm realising that as much as I want to forgive I'm still at stage 2 anger! And she's taking control! It's killing our relationship. He is hurting, he begs for... (495 words)

We're on a break but he keeps calling!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2.5 years and I are now on a break. He was the one who suggested it. But when he suggested it he was crying and crying and told me he loved me and wanted to be with me be for some reason he wanted to be alone at the moment. He NEVER cries, not even when his ... (486 words)

I'm growing increasingly resentful about my boyfriend's daughter!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend met his baby was 2 months old but because things had turned ugly with the ex he had no contact with his daughter and had only ever seen her twice. One night he broke down to me telling me he cried everynight over it and he doesnt know what to do. He ... (528 words)

I'm still mourning my lost love...

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I'd fallen in love with my cousin since I was 14 years old. I thought that the feeling was just out of curiosity but I still have the same feeling towards him even until now. I thought that this feeling for him will just vanished especially that his family migra... (318 words)

My Blackout Ruined Everything!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met the man of my dreams over a year ago and we became fast friends. We shared everything; our love of creating art, our personal politics, past relationship woes, our taste in music and... our love of alcohol. About a year after meeting, we decided to throw caution to... (672 words)

Why is it that guys take longer to admit they are in love with a girl?

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28 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - why is it that guys take longer than others to admit that they are in love with a girl? i was with a guy and we were dating for five months until he told me he loved me and i had boyfriend another time and after only dating for one week. why is that?... (54 words)

Why can't I fall in love?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had the fluttery, giddy feelings you get when you love someone, or even just crush on them. Ever. Which is strange because I think the thing I crave the most right now is a serious relationship. I WANT someone to love me, but also to be able to love in return, ... (185 words)

Why is he turning on the only person who wants to help? ME!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really upset. My boyfriend has gotten really depressed lately to explain this I better start from the beginning. We met years ago and stayed friends until we lost contact because I moved away and lost my phone. He moved house and then a year later I got in touch with hi... (372 words)

Why don't people realise how wrong and illusive is their supposed sudden love for a past sweetheart?

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28 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - What's with that epidemic, of ''hooking up with old lover"" on computer. Why people can't see, how wrong is that? It's a trap, you feel unhappy in your marriage, so you look up, your high-school sweet-heart on line, and you think you are in love again. As it makes you think you ... (88 words)

How do I stop being so possessive and crazy everytime he talks to another girl?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two and a half years. The first year and a half of our relationship, everything was great. He was such a sweetheart and I completely trusted him in all aspects of our relationship. This past February or so, his parents divorced ... (645 words)

How do you decide when you're old enough and it is okay to have intercourse?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi dear cupid people. i am a 15 year old guy and have known i am gay for the last couple of years. i have had this one boyfriend for the past year. he is about my age and goes to school with me. we are not out at all, but we are very comfortable with each other and our ... (140 words)

Can someone please tell me what I really am to him? "Occasional" girlfriend? What should I do?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. there's this guy that i've had something going on with, on and off for a while .. a year or two? and i mean 'going on'as in physically.. he was my first kiss and i was really into him BUT we never dated. he never asked. i never asked. and the other catch is.. we both had ... (338 words)

Why does he love me?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my question is: why does he love me? is it the way i look? is it the way i make love to him? could it be my personality? perhalps my faults as a human being.. or maybe the way i brush my hair? my cooking...?? this is the first real relationship that i've had in my life, ... (96 words)

My guy friend tongue kissed me...do you think he 'really' likes me?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well, my guy friend tongue kissed and cuddled one night. now, he said he was sorry for kissing me and that he was sleepy. he also said that he did not want to give me the wrong impression. when we kissed it did not feel like he did it on an accident. it was a strong vibe. i ... (116 words)

Been having sex with my boss for over a year! Confused about how he feels!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boss and i having been just having sex for over a year but i think he would like more if we both were not married, first he calls me all the time and wants me around him all the time and is trying to inpress my kids somewhat but i'm confused because he says kept this a ... (96 words)

Should I make my own porn video for my husband and give it to him?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - been with my hubby for 25 years, we were high school sweethearts. Recently I've been thinking about sleeping with my friend, who is a female, and is married herself for about the same time. I've allways wondered what it would be like to sleep with another female, and my frien... (258 words)

Ladies, how much does physical attractiveness, in a man, mean to you?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so insecure about my body these days, I know I'm not at the peek of physical fitness but I am an active person and feel like I shouldn't have to be the guy rippling with muscles and washboard abs. What I want to know is... Women how much does the physical shape o... (87 words)

I'm a married man, and I prefer masturbation to intercourse. Any ideas?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having some problems with my sex life. I am a 28 year old male and have been married for 5 years. My wife and I waited to have sex until after we were married. I was not a virgin and she was. After about 5 years of marriage I am finding that I like to masturbat... (190 words)

I doubt there will be any chance of reconciliation. I need advice to help with this sadness!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so terribly depressed. I was on top of the world a week ago but when I found out some truths behind the break up between my ex and I, it has sent me downward emotionally. After a rough patch with my ex, a friend of mine for five years named Jim (just began to befrien... (506 words)

Is he playing with my emotions or what?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this boyfriend a few months ago who i was crazy about. He seemed perfect. He was so sweet and nice and everyone said we were the perfect couple. Then one day out of the blue he broke up with me. I found out later that he had broken up with me for some slut in the grade ... (227 words)

Does my ex-boyfriend still have feelings for Me?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I walk into the libray where I hang out by myself and when I enter the building I saw my ex-boyfriend for the 2nd time looking around for somebody. I pass by him to get a seat and say "hola!" He soon follows me to my seat and notces my sketch book. He takes it and tries ... (214 words)

My gf needs time to think as she still misses her ex bf! Do I give her the space?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend says she needs time to think about things because she still misses her ex. She says she loves me more than she has loved anyone but she still thinks we can't be together. I just found out that she has been calling him and meeting him. She said nothing has ... (95 words)

I hate to think that he stopped loving me altogether..so how do I interpret his text messages?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have started talking again after some very steep ups and downs. It has all been through text messaging so it's hard to interpret. I try to keep things short, sweet and to the point. When I say something that doesn't require an answer back like "good luck on the ... (128 words)

I hate myself because I am bi sexual. Help!

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is my question to everyone, i am 17, and a senior in high school, and i hate myself because i am bi, it has gotten to the point where i cant stand looking at myself in the mirror, and all my relationships have become strained to no end because i push everyone away ... (87 words)

My world is total devastation, caused by an affair!

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28 October 2008 (M)

age - Hello, My world came to a crashing an total devastating end at the end off July when I found out my wife of 25 years and my partner and soul mate as I seen it of 27 years finally admitted that she was and had been having an affair with her teacher at an evening class that she ... (1595 words)

Questions about Herpes and outbreaks

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a person have herpes if they have never had an outbreak at all? or is it a must for someone with herpes to have some kind of outbreak? how long does it take for them to appear?... (39 words)

Why do some girls go out with losers?

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I found out yesterday that this girl I'm in love with likes this total loser, no one really likes him. This happened before too when my ex had history with a loser and got back together with him. I'm a cool guy, I have lots of friends, and I have a lot of girls wanting to... (82 words)

Was he spinning me a yarn saying that he loved me?

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28 October 2008 (F)

age - I had an affair with a married man on and off for almost a year. He told me that he wasn't leaving his wife for nothing. He told me that he loved me once and never told me again. I fell in love with this man and then with no notice, he told me it was over and that he was ... (76 words)

Frustrated at my akwardness and confused about what to do!

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28 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This weekend I went away on vacation and randomly met up with a friend of 2 years for drinks at night. We always considered each other just friends and never thought of it as more, until this trip. Somehow, we both got drunk and confessed that we had feelings for each other! We ... (229 words)

Help with my Ex-Relationship!

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28 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. I was really hurt and very upset. I've been emotional about this whole thing. We were 2gther for 10 months, but we've been knowing each other for 6 yrs. He wanted 2 break up bcuz he cudnt handle our school work, my emotions and the ... (212 words)