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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell my parents about being sexually abused when I was younger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sexually abused when I was younger (I think between 5 and 8). I think it stopped when I was 8 because we moved to a differnt county. Anyway, I'm 17 now and I know I need some help. Ii never told anyone, I hate thinking about it and I don't remember much anyway. I don't ... (199 words)

It's been a year now and I still think about him and can't move on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So it has been a year now since I first fell in love with this person.. he is 2 years older than me and we kinda had this thing going on between us. I knew he felt something for me from the way he acted and talked to me. Whenever there was a party we would dance together, and ... (226 words)

Even getting out of bed in the morning is a hassle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me! I feel so alone. I cry myself to sleep every night thinking about everything going wrong in my life. I am a varsity drop out with no job, no money, no love, am just alone. Getting out of bed is a hassle.... (45 words)

I get this feeling my boyfriend might break up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boyfriend is about to break up with me. He's confronted me about the situation a few times but I haven't done anything about it and this time I think he means it. For a while now he's been telling me I'm too controlling and I say really hurtful things with out ... (76 words)

I was having sex with a guy then it all went wrong...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi I went to have sex with a very gorgeous guy, it was going all ok, and then it went very wrong.. he put the condom on... and we started having sex... then he stopped.. and he started having problems with keeping it going and gettin the condom on properly... what is this all ... (59 words)

Forming a relationship with a church-going lady?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

- Susan(32) is a woman I met last year (September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she found me attractive. We dated a couple of weeks but then Susan b... (696 words)

Why doesn't anyone want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and I have never had a boyfriend, I have never had sex, I've never even had oral sex and this is not because I don't want to... it's because no one has ever tried. See, I think the problem is I am 23 but I look like I'm 16... I'm cute, I'm not sexy... I am ... (304 words)

Ladies... what does the word "masculinity" mean to you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) age 41-50 - One for the ladies. I would like to know what 'masculinity' means to you.... (14 words)

How can I tell my ex there will never be an "us" without hurting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd just like some advice about what to do with my ex boyfriend, he will not leave me alone I have a new boyfriend now but we're keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. The other day I explained to my ex that I didn't want to be with him and am not going to get back ... (610 words)

Girls... -what are your views on male virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) age 41-50 - A question for females only, what are your views on male virginity?... (12 words)

He was obsessed with me to begin with, no it's the other way around.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and I am absolutely in love with him. When the relationship first started, I was a little bit freaked out because he was so obssessed with me, and expressed his fear of losing me to another guy. I assured him that eve... (371 words)

I'm not sure why he's acting like this, any opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please give your opinion on this situation. I am friends with a guy I worked with and we had a fling last year where we hung out/went on dates and fooled around. He was also communicating with 2 other girls at the time, not telling me this. Eventually he ended up sleepin... (173 words)

I love my wife, I do not know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age - I think my wife is going through a mid life crisis. She says she loves me, but is not in love with me. She is always in a bad mood, sometimes worse than others. She was having an on line and telephone affair until I found out and called his wife. She will not talk to me, says ... (109 words)

Where do you draw the line???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been dating this girl for almost two months. As a little background to the situation, I met this girl about 5 months after the end of a previous pretty intense relationship. The ex in question here turned out to be NOTHING that I thought she was. She lied about cheating ... (455 words)

She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times each day and we had great ... (149 words)

Do married women actually like being asked out by men who have feelings for them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. Do married women actually like being asked out by men who have feelings for them?... (16 words)

Do you think he rejected my "friend's request" on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I met a guy who is a friend of a friend, when I was out for this friend's birthday. While we were out, he mentioned that he had never seen me round there before, I live in another town and he said you'll have to start coming here and mentioned he goes out round there every ... (431 words)

Pupil/Teacher crush!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I'm sorry to say this but I have the typical female teenage problem. I'm 15 (Nearly 16) and in love with my teacher. Please don't think I'm some silly, naive, clueless little girl because I'm not. I know I have no chance with him whatsoever not only because of the a... (451 words)

My wife has been masturbating a lot lately and I'm distraught she's doing it without me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has been masturbating a lot lately. She has stated that she had never even masturbated before. She is now 44 and she masturbates regularly. I have figured out that she masturbates at least 4 times a night when I work nights. Even if I leave for a few hours, she ... (188 words)

My boyfriend is introverted, how to deal with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need help here, my boyfriend is very introverted ( very very) and I am very extroverted, I like him just the way he is, I am inlove with him in that way, when we are together everything is perfect, he does everything for me ( we normally see each other 3 times a week) ... (252 words)

My boyfriend has cheated again with my so called friend. I need your advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year keeps cheatin on me. I found it in my heart to forgive him but he has cheated again with a my so called "friend". I love him dearly. He is the only boy I really loved. We are broken up but somethin inside of me wants him back. I want to fight the girl and ... (70 words)

I'm tired of either waiting around or having to initiate contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Ok, I really [REALLY] like this guy in one of my classes at college. At first I didn't notice him but after we had to do this group project (we had to spend the afternoon together), I started to develop feelings for him. My 'relationship' with him is going... (207 words)

I'm a virgin and worried she has too high expectations of me, sexually! Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well i think ive found the rite girl that i want to lose my virginity to...the only problem is she thinks im going 2 b real great durin our 1st time. Can u help me out? Ur advice could help me out alot... (47 words)

Shall I tell my teacher of 6 years how I feel when I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Ok I will cut a long story short. I am almost 18 and am in my final year of 6th form (College) in my high school. I have been in love, yes, that's right, IN love with my previous head of year for 5 years now (he was my head of year for 6) Well actually to be f... (338 words)

I've been a party animal for the past years, but I want to change. How can I do so, and make people see it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

- How can I lose the reputation I have in my hometown as a crazy, drunk bunny boiler? I have for the past 5 years been a party animal, people are used to seeing me drunk than sober. Ive had great times but now, at 26 years old, I want to try and straighten myself out but I... (260 words)

I'm longing for my ex of 5 years ago without him knowing and refraining myself from dating others.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im new. i do not know why im here in the first place. somehow, reading other ppl's problem made me want to let mine out here. i think i still love my ex after 5 years we had broken up. it was just a short sweet period of time when we were young. now he is working overseas a... (208 words)

My new boss seems to expect me to work 7 days a week. How can I sort this without losing my job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive just started a job, after 10 yrs of being a full time mum. I understood it to be 5 days over 7. And understood that she wanted someone that will work saturdays and sundays. For various reasons, I had to take the job. I like it, but its become apparent she is expectin... (354 words)

We are only good friends but since I've been told he likes this girl I realised I want him for myself, should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was messed around a lot a while ago, by someone i really liked for ages. I'm pretty sure thats all over, though he sometimes tries it on again, but i'm trying not to fall for any of that again. I hadn't liked anyone since him, and it took a long time to get over him. I was ... (197 words)

I want to make my wife listen to me, without her knowing that it is me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my wife wants to leave me because i have been looking at sites with women who have big butts. I would like to send her messages without her knowing it is me. I want to save my marriage and i know i can do it, if i can send her messages without her knowing it is me. If i can ... (103 words)

Overthinking the "kiss"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - love my boyfriend of a year and a half. The problem is that I've never felt a real "spark" when we kiss. I never have with anyone else. And yes I was attracted to him physically and all the other ways. He gave me shivers when he touched me and that was good. I also feel some... (260 words)

Since my sex drive is low for the past months due to stress/depression, can that affect my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my bf and i have been together for over a year...I care about him a lot and love him. In the beginning we couldnt keep our hands off of eachother and I always wanted him alone. Now, since ive moved and started college its been different. I am under A LOT of stress with bein... (289 words)

Why are there so many awkward silences between us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend stopped talking to me as much and we seem to be having trouble talking to each other. Lately we have been having awkward silences when talking. I don't know what to do.... Does anyone have sugestions on what I could do to make it easier to talk to her?... (52 words)

What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or try to massage his back to show ... (188 words)

I'm now ready to have sex with my boyfriend, how do I ask?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to have sex, but I don't know how to make my boyfriend get horny or turned on? Any suggestions?... (22 words)

I don't fancy him sexually like I do this other guy... but I don't love this other guy like I love my ex!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm curently in a relationship with a guy who is great, but I slept with my ex a few weeks ago. I know it's a horrible thing to do and I have ovewhelming feelings of guilt!! I just can't seem to get my ex out of my head! The only reason we split up was because he had to move ... (109 words)

In the last 3 weeks my husband's behaviour has become very odd.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In the last 3 weeks my husband's behaviour has become very odd. He just sits in front of the TV in his underwear, eating nachos and drinking endless bottles of Diet Coke and Pepsi. The programmes he watches are usually reality TV or, worse, porn dramas on DVD. He quit ... (210 words)

What to make of increase porn use and behavior changes

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm feeling a little "uneasy" and was looking for some feedback. My fiance over the past few weeks has been coming home and propping himself up in the living room where I cannot see the computer screen (which takes effort on his part) and looking at porn, while I am in th... (288 words)

Bleeding for four days before period

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello can you help me? I came on my period on the Friday 12th of September and came off 17th Tuesday and I had another period on the Monday 22 of September for about 3 days the I have just came back on again 16th October and it was very dark and now it's day 2, it's not heav... (111 words)

I just cannot move on mentally because deep down I still want him back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age - Please forgive the long text but I need some help as sometimes I feel I am going crazy. My husband recently divorced me after 16 years saying that he was very unhappy, we had no common interests and that I had withheld love and affection whereas in effect he had been having (... (251 words)

Sometimes when we're kissing he has his eyes closed, which is very odd to me.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for about four months now and I really care about him a lot. He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him. He's eleven years older than me but I don't think that really matters. I love him. I do have a concern though. Sometimes when we're kissing he ... (99 words)

What does he mean by saying "we are together but we're not"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone Really need help here. I split with my boyfriend on Saturday just gone, his choice as he wants to go back to his ex and the mother of his 2 children after 8 months apart, it doesn't hurt that she was always phoning him, anyway we still talk on the phone, but last... (142 words)

Does she have an ulterior motive in wanting to marry me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have girl 8 years older than me and we are planning getting married but I don't know if she truly loves me because too many times she is only polite only when we are having sex and after she is just being much of herself and not doing the things she says but she is urging me ... (81 words)

I was in love with a married woman who works in my office...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in love with the married women, who is working in my office. We were having a good relationship for the last 4 years and treating her like my wife. For the last eight months we were not having physical relations, as I was told by some priest that it's not good for my ... (292 words)

My partner has gone to work on the other side of the world for 3 months, how can I remain strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

- My partner of 3 years has had to go to the other side of the world to work for 3 months. It's been 3 weeks now and until now I have been pretty strong, but now I'm starting to fade. I'm feeling very depressed and lonely. I only get to speak to him once a week, that is by skype ... (100 words)

Is it possible or just a hopeless desire?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello there, I was just wondering: If your guy is too busy with school at the time being, but you think that you really could work it out because you're both in the same boat and you could just visit each other once a week to actually have a legitimate "date" but see... (103 words)

I'm a people pleaser! I'm living to please everyone else and not myself, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - "People Pleaser", thats my name ! I mean like im just living to pleasing evryone and not myself. The thing that makes me happy is when people are satisfied with me and when they are not i get depressed. There is nothing wrong with me. Im good looking and have a career and husb... (174 words)

I think I'm over my first love, but if I am why did I have this dream? Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5811 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i've just had a very strange dream, and I wondered if you could help me understand it. It featured my first love, a new potential girlfriend, and a girl who I know but I'm not interested in. It's a little sketchy, but please try and help me analyze it. Firstly, I can r... (448 words)

My boyfriend checks out nude guys in the Internet prior to sex, then dresses in uniform for me. Odd! Is he gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and our life together has been pretty much good. It's our sex life that's become an issue, however. For the past six weeks my boyfriend's refused to have sex with me until he's seen enough Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, George Clooney a... (385 words)

Never enjoyed sex with any man; in the past few years I have been fantasising about being with women, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age - I am questioning my sexuality, i was married, i have 3 children but never enjoyed sex with any man that i have been with. In the past 5 years I have found myself wanting to be with women. Im not clear as to wether it is sexually but I am in my comfort zone when I am in with ... (122 words)

My boyfriend has many young friends at the age of 36 and it's a bit frustrating for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy when id worked through my own past issues, I have a five year old girl, and him a ten year old. We had both looked to god for the right kind of love, and when we met it felt very meant to be for us both. We even saw a shooting star on our first date and our date ... (353 words)

How do I ask my man for anal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend we dating for eight years now,we had a great sex but never ever in those years done anal sex. we had oral sex sometimes and i wanna change all of that. i want to try something new like anal sex,i hear it`s very painful but how can i tell cause i never ... (163 words)

My girlfriend was a prostitute... and it turns me on. Help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Well, where do I start. My girlfriend is Thai and I met her in Thailand in a bar where she was working selling sex. 1 year later we are still together and she is about to come back to Australia were we will likely be together forever. Since the day I met her she ha... (408 words)

After we have sex, he says his penis is sore. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid i`m 24 yrs of age and i`ve got a problem everytime when i had sex with my boyfriend he`ll say it was good but after that he complains that his penis is sore,so i wanna find out from you guys that is it normal do you guys exprerience this kind of a problem after ha... (107 words)

I have a complex about my nose being too long, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My nose is very long and it looks like a pakoda therefore I felt very upset so please solve my problem my name is gurpreet I am 17 years old. ... (30 words)

Why don't guys like me?! Is it my fault?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what's wrong with me??? i'm becoming crazy! cuz i can't have a seriuosly relationship with some guy! .. i don't know why??? ... i'm a model in my free time! thus I'm pretty but they don't love me! as i wanna it! .. What should i do??? do u think the problem am i... (162 words)

I love someone else, but when I see my ex all the old feelings come back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody well I need some of your opinion. Well I was engage for 16yrs, and he never ask me 2 marry him. I am the one who always asked him 'when are we going 2 get married' and his answer always is 'someday'. Well we had some problems like 7 months ago so I broke the ... (480 words)

I found hid old love letters to his ex, and now I wonder about our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - At the risk of being a total cliche, yes, I found the proverbial "box of love letters, poems, and cards" my boyfriend of 3 years wrote to his ex-wife during their courtship ten years ago. I don't have a problem with him having a past and holding onto memories. I've done the ... (322 words)

I feel like she sees me as a compassionate friend rather than a lover.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I have a problem where I love a girl way too much. We are in a long distance open relationship. After having a few talks and arguments with her, I've found out that her interest in me was misplaced. I think, (90% positive) that I represented some stability in her... (374 words)

I lost the girl who was my reason to live. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a mess rightnow! I used 2 b the numero uno,in studies,sports etc and everyone loved me But everything went crashing down! I was totally down.I shut myself away from everyone.Lonely,withdrawing 2 myself. Then all of a sudden,i met a girl @college who was like an a... (210 words)

I'm very worried that. if it comes out only by holding it, then how do I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Halo, Hope i'll get my answer here, I'm 22, and i never had any girl friends before aged 21, but my problem is, she's only just held my penis 2 times, first time it was just for 15 to 30 sec and second time, close to 1 min. just she holds it and after that time...sperm come... (102 words)

Why would his friend send a naked pic of his ex to my b/f's phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was not snooping because I trust him, but I found a picture of a naked girl on my boyfriend's phone. He said that a friend sent it to him, and it was that friend's ex-girlfriend. My heart dropped when I saw the picture, and I felt so hurt and a little cheated. He didn't unde... (85 words)

Even a simple 'thank you' will do........!!

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17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I cook and clean for my boyfriend every night, and it seems like he has become accustomed to it. I know he appreciates what I do, but he doesn't usually tell me "thank you." I want him to let me know that he appreciates all that I do for him, but I don't want to sound too ... (72 words)

Do you think my ex is over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i was going out with some guy for about 3 months and i broke up with him because i heard he was cheating on me and stuff. So after that he still kept calling me so i felt like we could still work things out but then i heard he was trying to go out with some other girl and ... (76 words)

What do I do about my deformed penis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my penis,it is deformed.The left side of the head of my penis is shorter than the right side.This is because the frenulum is on the left side of the head of my penis and I masturbate regularly ever since I was 14 now a few months away from 17 and the ... (180 words)

I want to be with a married man, but I know it will never happen.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - In Love With a Married Man. OK, here is my situation. I have been in love with a man for 3 years now. He live 2 states away from me. i am also married. We met through work, I worked for another comany at the time. We started talking and working togehter and there was an ins... (326 words)

I'm having some troubles in my marriage. Is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I recently got married (around one month) and now realize that there are several things bothering me: 1) We live in City X, whereas my family lives in City Y. I do not like City X, but he could not find a job in City Y hence I had to move to City X. I want to move b... (387 words)

Can heterosexual guys get turned on by watching other men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

- I have two questions I would like to ask the Aunts for help with. 1. Do hetrosexual men ever find sexual enjoyment watching two other men have sex with each other?...Or perhaps I should word my question like this: What is your impression of a man who enjoys this?... 2. If ... (123 words)

When he's drunk, he's violent and mean. Should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - When my boyfriend of 5 years gets drunk says like im ugly, I need to lose Weight and many more. One night we went to a night club and he got drunk (again) and started hitting the waitress in front of me. When she left, I give him hell. He told me that needed to loosen up. ... (103 words)

After 2 years, he just dumped me to go date other females! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - he told me that he loves me but not in love. two years of being together and a year n a half of living together. i supported him and his career options and he lost the career. i helped him start school all cause of me i never asked him for nothing. he not working n i handled ... (88 words)

Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!

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17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old... (14 words)

Dating a couple months now. Should I ask her to marry me this christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - HI, Im in a long distance relationship. We are completly in love, going out for two months now and she is coming here to live and we want to live together it will be in a couple of month when she does. I am 17 she is 19 i have nothing i dont want anything from her but her love ... (157 words)

He left me without giving me any reason! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do if my boyfriend left me without any reason? We've been together in one year and 10 months. When he go to boracay last august 16-23,2008, since then he changed a lot. He never texted me and he is so moody. He never called me hon anymore. I love my boyfriend so ... (72 words)

Did I marry the wrong girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for just over 2 years. Love my wife, never want to let her down. I can't get over my first love, although we haven't been together in 10 years. We are still friends and chat very often, however we have not even seen each other in over 2 years. She is ... (228 words)

My best buddy's gf hates me..what's happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heres some backround info first of all. I met this guy about a year ago and we connected pretty fastly. we became bestfriends and he was so nice! when he met me he introduced me to hs gf and she seemed pretty cool. i found out she was and still is completely the opposite. after ... (341 words)

Was it wrong of me to contact my ex’s friend to support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

- My gf and I broke up. She broached the oft-discussed thorny aside of our relationship following a weekend of discussions with her sister and so I agreed that this was a problem that we hadn’t resolved and as painful as it was to accept that we seemed to have an unreconcilable ... (316 words)

He tried choking me and I kicked him out! So why do I feel so sad about all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Two week's ago, an incident occurred with my boyfriend of 3yrs.,He tried to choke me which is the 2nd time, but there are other problems. He actually gave up his apt. to move in with me when this happened. He has been calling me telling me he is sorry and that he loves me. He ... (97 words)

After kissing him, I got swelling and a burning sensation on my face. What's happening?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi...i kissed my boyfriend maybe like seven days ago and the next day my face swelled up really badly n i started itching and burning all over my body.my lips still burn evryday all day. I itch the most in the morning time..I burn the most on my arms. my neck hurts alot and I ... (160 words)

What can I do with this cocky flirty guy I met at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, this guy I met who is a military. He was very friendly when I met him last month. I met him over a business contact. turns out that he was very kinda flirty, then a week later when I go to his office he had someone else treat with me instead of him (that was supposed... (228 words)

How can I change my feelings for this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have loved the same girl for four years and she jus doesn't feel the same. I have tried asking her out several times on different occasions she said alright, but every time I set a date she was "busy". I took the hint and tried to move on. Now, in college, I know inside I ... (100 words)

Why would there be a condom wrapper under his bed? We haven't used them in months!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am seeing a guy, for quite a while now, almost half a year... he doesn't want a relationship, I'm having trouble coping. Either way my question is I found a condom wrapper under his bed, with HIS boxers. We don't use condoms, and I have been suspicious of this girl ... (148 words)

Was I raped? Sexually assaulted? I can't remember what happened.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - One night during sophomore year of college I went to hang out with a group of friends. There was substantial drinking and marijuana involved. When I realised I was losing motor coordination, I knew it was time to go home. One of my friends said he'd walk me home, which he ... (197 words)

My husband moved out and had two babies by another woman - Now he wants me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been leagally married for 5yrs and been separated for 3yrs from him. before the separation my husband cheated on me and i tried forgiving him but it didn't work. so he moved out and he done had 2 babies since then. he told me to get my tubes tied becuz he didnt want ... (188 words)

What does a 'X' on its own in a text mean?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is probably a very silly question. A man I know who I'm friendly with and who I share occasional 'latest news' texts with has started sending me texts with just a big X all on its own in the text. Is he trying to tell me something? He's done this about 6 or 7 times in the ... (71 words)

His ex gf is trying to steal him back! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my boyfriend has been going out for 6 months. We went out months before but two his ex girlfriend came back into his life. Supposably he was confused and didn't know what to do. In the end he chose me because he "loved" me the most. A month into the second attempt ... (289 words)

I''m 38 and have an 18 year old admirer..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I work in a super market and two of the other staff have told me that I have an admirer. It is said that she is only 18 and I'm 38 and work with her mum who knows about it as she has told me hersself. I dont know what i shoud do. ... (55 words)

I'm bored with my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

17 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I`m 17 going on 18 and i am having relationship problems every Friday. i go see my gf and its the same thing every day and I`m getting bored then another thing is that she works 6 hours after school on friday and 8 hours on saturday. And i feel that my weekends are a big waste ... (73 words)