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anonymous
writes:While discussing with my fiancee about when I was raped when younger he couldn't put his arms round me and when I cried he just got angry and said we were in a shitty relationship, does he really love me? or will he abandon me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou so much for writing responses its comforting to be able to talk about it and you guys appreciate it was a major thing that i just want to forget.... He already knew about me being raped as I had never really told anyone else properly I just wanted to blank it out but he just kept pressing and pressing for the details and cant understand why I dont remember things and cry. Hes angry and wants me to go to the police about this man, he thinks I'm just being weak coz it was in the past. He is a lovely man and loves me dearly but hes just not very good with his emotions and being sensitive/ compassionate.
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reader, warmrain  +, writes (21 October 2008):
WoW! you don't need this guy, there are more fish in the sea sweetie. Also please get someone to help you deal with the past. It wasn't your fault.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Fade, I would leave it at "Take a cold hearted idiot".
I agree that you need to put this behind. It wasn't your fault, and your fiancé should be human enough to notice that.
I would have second thoughts about this guy. If he can't understand this is a sensitive issue, well...
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