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writes:ugh, so i used to do alot of stuff with this one guy right? okay well, we were like seriously so close to goin out like it could've happenend but didn't. drama happenend. so we never went out just did sexual stuff..and we haven't talked for a while. during that time i found a new boy....who is now my amazing boyfriend. he is everything to me and more. problem is this other guy i used to like pratically be with wants to have sex and stuff wit me tomorrow...he's still a virgin...he wants to lose it to me. i really can't go behind my bf's back, but once i tell my friend i'm with someone, he'll be crushed and won't ever speak to me again. and i hate that. what should i do!?!!??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Don't be stupid. Maybe the other guy is not even really a virgin. He might just be trying to get into your pants. Why risk losing your boyfriend for that? Even more so, why risk your self respect?
Don't even consider it. In fact the other guy asking you for sex with him, is actually insulting you. He thinks you are cheap, willing and available. I think you should tell him in no uncertain terms what he can do with himself and his so called virginity.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 I am surprised you need to ask.
Basically your mate is only going to use you for sex, right?
And you have a B/F that has done nothing wrong, and that you are obviously very keen on.
Where is the Decision????
You risk losing a really nice guy, just for your mate to get rid of his virginity.............Mmm
Let your mate lose it somewhere else! he will get over it.
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