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writes:I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the household chores. I dont want his help with the kids and i dont want his help with the chores (he does neither) there is no problem there...the problem is that he constantly disrespects me, so how do i be a "wife" if its not cleaning and cooking and taking care of kids, running errands etc. what is your definition of a good WIFE. Reply to this Question
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reader, pyan  +, writes (21 October 2008):
hi
you are a good wife in what you do he dosn't relise it yet. i think you need time to your self and agree a little part time job my help you both eg he looks after the kids and you get to talk with others.
as for the definission of a good wife one is wasking, ironing f**king etc, i expect that what he is getting. marrage is a partnership and you both need to share. message if you need any more
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reader, pyan +, writes (21 October 2008):
hi
you are a good wife in what you do he dosn't relise it yet. i think you need time to your self and agree a little part time job my help you both eg he looks after the kids and you get to talk with others.
as for the definission of a good wife one is wasking, ironing f**king etc, i expect that what he is getting. marrage is a partnership and you both need to share. message if you need any more
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Sounds like you're being one. Why should he work full time and come home and do chores? Its not like your children are youngsters. Soon as my 2 reached secondary, I started working, and I am a single parent, so there is no one to do the chores for me! I worked til 1 today, walked the dog, washed up the breakfast stuff, hoovered, dusted, went to the bank, got the kids from school, came home and did more work that I do from home. Did our ironing. Its almost 9pm and ive just finshed and popped on here before going to bed and having a read of todays paper. He should ease off a bit, if you were a bad wife, you would make him work full time, come home and clean.
Dont you fancy working part time now and have him do a little bit more around the house to even it out?
C xxxxx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 October 2008):
 See my response to your previous post.
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