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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it wrong for me to ask him to clean up after himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. we seem be getting in alot of arguments about being equals, money and house chores. His dispute is that he makes more money and pays more bills then i do so therefore I have to clean more. I contribute as much as I can. ... (129 words)

When it comes to football, why are guys so serious???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, this is just about my ex bf, we split up a lil while ago, but i just wanted to know, when it comes to football why are lads so serious, when I was with my ex, I loved everything about him, except when it came to football, we'd have a lil joke fair enough like he wud say ... (300 words)

She's threatening to go to the police years later...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 33 years old now, when I was 17 I had a 14 year old girl friend, we were sexually active up until I broke up with her, I have never considered whether I had broke the law having sex with her, I am not even sure I was of the legal age myself. I had not seen or heard or even ... (230 words)

I'm only a freshman, what does he see in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in high school and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. Everytime I pass by he gets red, and when I look at him he gets red too. I have no idea if he likes me or not. Maybe he just wants be be my friend and knowing me I'm not shy at all. I know this so... (238 words)

Is my relationship good or am I being played by my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I would like some outside views of my relationship. First of all, I am 27 years old, I am professional and have a great career that it is everything for me. I was engaged for 5 years with a guy that was a little bit controlling and he used to axfixiate me, we would spend ... (440 words)

I have this friend with benefits but he's changed lately... what's the matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this friend with benefits, he's great, I fell in love with him, but he doesn't want anything serious and neither do I, we have tons of fun and I love everything about the "relationship". It's been a while since we don't sleep together or anything like it, but we always ... (182 words)

We broke up but he's a part of me and I can't get over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my bf 6 months ago and I didnt know it was gonna be this bad, I'm very depressed without him and i want him back, but i dont think he would want me back because hes been single for that past while and hes loving the single life hes been going out with girls ever ... (206 words)

I had a 3-some with my boyfriend and another woman and it's causing mega problems now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help with getting over the fact that I had a threesome with my boyfriend and afterwards the female tried to sleep with him by herself. This is what happened a friend of mine I were talking about threesomes and she said she never had one so I told her about me and my b... (420 words)

DNA test queries?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-girlfriend tells me that I am the father of her daughter. If thats the case, then I'll be a good father to her, but... for me, the dates don't match (there is more than a month... maybe even 2 of discrepancy ) My current relationship has stalled, and one of the ... (215 words)

What can I do for us to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm a normal teenager and last June I started going out with a really nice guy i will call him B.H. he was very sweet but 3 weeks later 2 days befor my birthday he broke up with me. I thought we were doing great but i was wronge....now we are back at school and we are almost ... (132 words)

I'm confused about my sexuality and could really do with your advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm confused about my orientation and would like some advice. I'm 26 and I've always found girls attractive, from a young age I have always wanted that coupling relationship with a girl and from about 13 i've been sexually attacted to girls. Occasionally (like once every ... (203 words)

A million milles away relationship with a turkish man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going with the turkish boy for a while now and I really like him and I know what people say about them that they cheat and only want money etc. but i thought!! mines was diffrent until i started to think: Does he even love me ? Does he just want sex? It's jus... (224 words)

Hero to zero!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met the most amazing woman online. we talked for hours every day via msn , and the more we found out about each other , the more we discovered we had something really special. we shared everything , even that she had been single for 5 years once after having cervical cancer, ... (1222 words)

What do I do about him and why is he like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How does he see me and how can I get past him? I have this problem that I still talk to this guy who really doesn't care. We had a thing last year where we hung out/went on dates and fooled around. He was also communicating with 2 other girls at the time and ended up sleepin... (162 words)

How do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the thing.... I have this ex boyfriend (I'll call him jay) and I'm still in love with him but I recently found out that he's with another girl and I actually saw pictures of them making out. I can't stop crying over all of the pain I'm going through, he's my first and ... (85 words)

I like to be controlled by my boyfriend especially during sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is wierd for me I am a total control freak about everything but for some reason I like to be controlled by my boyfriend especially during sex and even a little pain is great. I get off being held in lock holds and am totally confused by it! Is this normal, am I crazy?... (56 words)

Could my boyfriend be a carrier of an std?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are thinking about having unprotected sex, I'm on the pill so I know it's highly unlikely I'll get pregnant, but I'm worried about STD's. I've decided to get myself checked out just to make myself happy, but my boyfriend claims there's no way he could have ... (117 words)

She had an abortion the first time but now she's pregnant again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had sex not too long ago and we've realised she is pregnant, the first time this happened she got an abortion. I'm not ready to have a kid right now and she is and I don't want to break her heart again - what do I do?... (52 words)

How can I call him without his partner answering?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I just ring him? I am totally besotted with a man who got on great with me but had a partner! Nevertheless - I gave him my number and we were going to meet up but circumstances meant we missed each other on the day! - However, he never rang me or gave me his num... (157 words)

I really like this guy. But I hardly know him! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I really like this guy. But I hardly know him. I met him through one of my friends and he seems very nice. I am very shy and am not sure how he feels. I want to tell him that I like him but I am afraid our blossming friendship will be ruined if he doesn't fee... (75 words)

My boyfriend found out his ex is pregnant, what are we supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend and I have been dating for the past few months and neither of us in the past have been known to get attached, however, we've become extremely close the past few months. My parents hate me with him, he has stress about his everyday life, and I have mine. A few ... (121 words)

My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?

This question has 77 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partner of five years, she reall... (719 words)

I feel a bit insecure about his whereabouts when he's not with me, is this normal after being out of the dating scene for a while?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,8 months ago I got out of an 10 year relationship. I wanted out 3 years ago, but carried on with it till the right time came along. About a month ago I met someone else. I have a 5 year old so we decided to take it slow, which he understands. The thing is I feel the need ... (173 words)

Why do I black out when having an orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure I'm not the only one but I swear I haven't seen this on this site...and i need help so here we go... Recently me and my boyfriend have "got close" and on quite a few of these occassions when it has come to orgasm i have blacked out/ fainted, its not for long when it ... (81 words)

She wants me to pee on her...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got a weird problem and that is why I wanna remain anonymous, my gf has a weird mind as the other day we were having sex and after sex I was going to go to the toilet and pee and she told me not to go to the toilet as she wanted me to pee on her. I was shocked but intr... (150 words)

I want us to move away, after my hubby's painful affair. Am I wrong to want this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Husband had affair we are back together it cost us our house his job not to mention the pain and hurt my daughter and i went through. I want to move out of state. Is it wrong to push for the move.... (42 words)

I do love her but I don't want to marry or commit to one woman all the time.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age - Have been with my girlfriend for 7 years. She is very pretty, sexy, funny, loving the list goes on. But I know she wants more. I don't want to lose her. Every time she gets tired of dealing with my issues and tries to move on I beg her back making promises I cannot keep. She is ... (232 words)

2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried to find out what the matter ... (343 words)

Can our marriage be saved???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years and have a 12 year old daughter. On October 1, 2008 my husband told me that he was confused about everything, including our relationship. He asked for help to go to counseling. We started immediatly. Since (2 weeks) then he has opened up to me ... (189 words)

I am having a real problem stopping myself from beating myself up over a stupid mistake I have made.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am having a real problem stopping myself from beating myself up over a stupid mistake I have made. I have had time to think about my actions and have soul searched long and hard to understand why I did what I did which I fully understand now, but I am having difficulty ... (94 words)

He got what he wanted... SEX! So why is he still crazy about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old. I wanted to stay a virgin until I was 18. I'm not unattractive and I've had a few boyfriends that wanted to have sex but I wanted to wait. Well I had a heart break the day of my 18th birthday, so a little over a month later I got way too drunk at this par... (447 words)

He gets very angry and agressive... and I just get upset.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half, and are very much in love. The only issue is that when he is, or we both are drunk we end up falling out. He gets very angry and agressive, although has never been physically violent towards me, whereas I ... (121 words)

Is he being honest or am I just wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am in a very difficult situation. It all started 5 months ago when I met a guy and one thing led to another, and i figured it would be a one night stand, but he told me that night he didn't want to sleep around and I was the girl of his dreams. We were both pretty drunk, ... (1076 words)

I'm starting to think my wife is shallow and my penis size and our sex life is the only reason that we are together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I are recently married. I think things are going good, but I have a nagging concern about her that bothers me. We had a discussion about her old boyfriends, and she was nasty talking about 2, and a little I don't know, like, happy talking about 1 of them. I'm not ... (237 words)

My husband wants to become a part time male model and is obsessed to get to a size ZERO!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, and my husband's 26. We've been married for 3 months now. Everything's been good, up until the last few weeks. In the past month, he told me he wanted to become a male model on the side from his normal job. Rather than become jealous, I was supportive of him, and help... (392 words)

What do guys think about "squirting"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back after my bf and I had sex, he asked me "Did you squirt?" so I lied and said yes but he replied indifferently, saying "Thats cool" What did he think of this, was he turned off or turned on or just not care? What do you guys think of this?... (53 words)

I now feel really horrible for worrying my parents. How can I make things better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an almost eighteen college student and until about three weeks ago I had never even been kissed. However, that was when I met my current boyfriend. We had sex the first night we met (yes I know how easy that makes me sound) and because I had no room mate he moved in with me ... (181 words)

How do you know when the reltionship is over or coming to an end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, This isn't the first time I have written to you, and last time I got some great advice that would normally work, but not in my relationship. I don't know if it coming to an end... I have lost everything, my friends my job. I just wanted to know before I end up ... (126 words)

Any ways I can clarify to him that I want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy. That I like. A LOT. And is possibly taken by a sort of friend of mine. What the heck do I do? And don't tell me to try to forget about him. I don't get crushes. It's a very rare occurance when I do. The last time I had a big crush, was almost six years... (175 words)

Why follow me into rooms, yet ignore my email ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I spilt with a girl after two years. I found out she was seeing someone else. I walk away cause no problem. It's always been tough for me as we work in the same building, and in the same building as the other guy . I haven’t caused any problem and for months she would... (371 words)

Every time my boyfriend and I argue he turns it around to be MY fault!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend of a year argue, it is usually to do with him letting me down, but he always turns it round to be my fault. He either rings me to say we can't go out, or doesn't even bother ringing me. He's been doing this all year now, I love him so much but he always ... (122 words)

People say I have an "angry" face expression when I am just thinking. How can I change that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys!! Often times, my friends have asked me "Are you mad or something?" when I am just sitting there and thinking. I guess I always have a serious facial expression but I really cant help it. I also think this is why guys dont usually approach me because I'm really tall ... (84 words)

Help me please .... Am I pregnant ?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello , I am 21 years old and I am virgin before 3 days I did anal sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in my anus. my period is coming every 28 days and at the 15 we had sex. From that day tell now I feel nauseous and if I eat anything I want to vomit it and I have pain ... (126 words)

Can someone help answer my question?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, the story goes like this. A few days back when I was about to have sex with my girlfriend when my dick was touching my gf vagina, I did not go in because my girlfriend suddenly move away so we tried the second time and if fails again because this time it was me. I was ... (219 words)

He doesn't want to get in too deep but I can't stop liking him and don't want to get hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

16 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm young, trust me I know I have my life ahead of me, but this on relationship whatever you want to call it seems to refuse to leave my mind. My mother and his father used to play together when they were younger, his father used to fancy my mother, freaky thing is I ... (173 words)

What are little things to turn him on in and outside the bedroom? I am to show I want him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please could you help me turn my boyfriend on, in and out of the bedroom. The other day, he said he thinks i dont enjoy having sex with him and that if it wasn't for him, we would never have sex as he is always the one who makes the first move. I told him that it was because i ... (97 words)

My ex from 3 yrs ago says he feels the same but he's ignoring me! What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i hav just recently split up with my b.f with whom i hav 2 kids with none wer planned but i dnt regret them... i havnt been wnting him for a long wile now... and finally gt the courage to split.. as of my ex boyfriend, whom i got wiv when i was 14 and stayed together for 3/4 ... (332 words)

I have to figure out which guy is right for me, help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am interested in too different guys. They're both great guys with totally different backgrounds. One lives in the area by me who likes me and wants to see how things work out between us. He has no kids but is willing to accept the fact that I do. The other guy I met a few mo... (153 words)

My hubby has had a paintful childhood is very stressed recently and very confused about our relationship, also going through a mid life crisis. Can our marriage be saved?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

What do his comments mean? I'm too surprised and don't usually know how to react to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I am very confused here, my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, he is really amazing with me, he treats me like a queen all the time. He is a very shy guy, it is impresive how shy he is, I surpriced myself everyday about this, but well, the point is that he ... (542 words)

I admit I was annoying but how can I get closure if my ex has blocked me from calling her? Can I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - is their a way to win someone back after they have cut you out of their lives after a break up? I admit and take full responsibility that i was at fault for pushing her to the point of annoyance but all i received was a text saying lets call it a day and then she blocked my ... (193 words)

My best friend invited me to move in with her until my problem is solved, she knows I'm a lesbian but would she be comfortable with me telling her that I'm in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi thanks in advance for your help. Ive got myself in a bit of a sticky situation and im not sure how to get out of it with out a) making a fool of myself b) jeopardising a really good friendship. My apartment flooded (burst pipe) and im getting it redecorated this... (456 words)

I don't want to throw 6 years down the drain but can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for 6yrs now we have a son who is 4. what my problem is i am paronoid and dont trust my boyfriend one bit, let me explain,..... wel my boyfriend is 22 now he is 23 in janaury, on his 18th birthday he kissed his ex, which to me was upsettin but it was ... (404 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend, should I take the children with me? I feel I would be a bad mother for doing this...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to leave my bf of 8 years,and its not for another man or any selfish reasons. We have 3 children togehter and the only way I see fit to move is by leaving the children with him. I feel like I would be a bad Mom for doing this and don't want people to think bad of me. It... (179 words)

He said he loved me, but each of us found someone else so why am I sad that he kisses another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

16 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I have this friend...lets call him R.F he said he loves me, i say it back....he leaves for the weekend, comes back and tells me he found some one else. Even though im with some one...after he tells me he kissed this other girl... and i cried about it.. It hurt me sooo fn ... (78 words)

I want to get a tattoo in memory of my grandmother, any suggestions about the place so that it isn't quite noticeable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My grandmother recently passed away and I was considering gettinga tattoo to remember her by. My family motto is "vil god i zal" which basically means with god you can do anything. My families heritage was a big part of our family and in my grandmotherdying i feel I have lost ... (117 words)

My ex called me after 6 months of not talking. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. He called me after 6 months of not talking. What does this mean? Does he want me back or did he just want to see how I was doing? Can you help me. Ok me and my ex broke up over a year ago. He told me that he didn't see forever with me. It came out of no where ... (432 words)

I feel like a wonderful person when I don't see my ex but I'm used to him, I realy love this other guy, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody well I need some of your opinion. Well I was engage for 16 years he never ask me 2 marry I am the one who always asked him when are we going 2 get married his answer always is someday. Well we had some problems like 7 months ago so I broke the engagement It started ... (449 words)

What did my husband's odd dream about me and another man...really mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age - my husband is impotent, but recently I found out he was in contact by facebook and mobile with an ex girlfriend, who he says he never spoke to just texted and never met up although there was talk, did I stop him before he started an affair, also although we try to have sex the ... (94 words)

Am I over reacting to this pic? Or is this really as bad as I think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on online dating. I just started dating again ...so i'm am new to what is acceptable or not. Recently i set up a profile on a decent website. I have gotten a lot of responses However, one person in particular caught my eye by the amazing profile that he ... (356 words)

Where can my best friend and I go for a 'girly weekend'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I are really feeling we need to get away from for a girly weekend away somewhere. But have no idea where might be good. Help! We want to go somewhere European, so not too far away - we both like history, trying new foods and a bit of shopping in local ... (69 words)

How long do I need to wait until I bleed again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a girl. i hve a bf with whom i had sex.when i had sex for the first time i bleeded. later i didnt. but now we broke up and i am engaged with someone else and i dont want him to know that i am not a virgin.so, after how much gap of time or period of time will it take me ... (74 words)

I checked her chat log and found out she lied! Am I being paranoid or is this the end of the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend and i had a fall out. we split up for 7 days. we got together at her house to talk about our future. we both said that we could not live without each other because we love each other so much. our relationship was bonded and i was the happiest guy on the planet. ... (423 words)

Can you be friends with an ex with whom you have recently split?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you still be freinds with an ex who you recently split with ive spoken to him on the phone and get on really well and ive seen him since we split and got on fine then. Do you think t could work like that ... (47 words)

In her mind she suspects he might actually be gay - and "fighting" his urges.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine is dating this guy - she seems pretty into him but recently told me there were some things that in her eyes were 'deal breakers' - which I took to mean she wouldn't end up with him/marry him. When I asked her about it she told me that he is extremely homophobic ... (120 words)

We broke up but he said we can still be sex buddies!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys on Sunday I split with my boyfriend of 8 months, the reason was he wasnt over his ex of four years and the mother of his child, he says he likes me but doesn't love me like he still loves her, anyway he said I can still ring him and go out for drinks and that we can ... (254 words)

I don't want to suggest dating her, even although she's told me she's not happy with her current boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I started university two weeks ago. There is a girl on my course who I quite like. We hang around together a fair bit, and I think our friendship is growing. However, I find myself feeling quite attracted to her. She's pretty cute, she has a sweet sense of humour ... (148 words)

Without any warning she broked my heart...

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend was a classmate of mine since 7th std. Before 1 month I proposed to her she said yes to that proposal but since yesterday she's been behaving strangely to me and today she sent me a message saying don't call me, neither message and I am studying in Russia and my ... (70 words)

What makes a man unable to keep an erection, could it be nerves?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What makes a man unable to keep an erection, could it be nerves?... (13 words)

He says we have a relationship but not a commitment!!???

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man I'm dating sometimes tells me that there is a relationship between us and other times he says that there isn't a commitment. I'm very confused and I don't know what to believe. How can Ii understand his feelings because if I ask him about this he usually denies that ... (87 words)

I don't want a relationship with him, just sex!

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a guy whom I hardly know, we go to the same university. He is also interested in me but all I want from him is not a relationship with with him but just sex. How am I going to explain this to him when he asks me out for a relationship? and how do I ask him ... (72 words)

Ex and I broke up and I slept with someone else...

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically my girlfriend split up with me coming up to 5 months ago now. I believe it was she wasn't sure of what she wanted but she didn't want to be with me because of how I had become she had sat me down numerous times, wrote letters etc etc telling me how things needed to ... (1047 words)

Why isn't she telling me about this other guy if she has nothing to hide?

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, Quick one, I met this girl on the internet, same age as me... we've now been seeing each other for near 4 months. She has a male friend who she texts every other day virtually, they used to share a house together, and then she moved out to her own house. I thi... (510 words)

I got my revenge on the other woman, and I didn't have to do anything!

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16 October 2008 (F)

age - My hubby had an affair, I found out and caused hell on earth for him, asked for a divorce, even got the papers drawn up, did the whole counselling thing, he got such a shock finding out that I was not going to tolerate his nonsense. He gave up his job to come and work for me, ... (289 words)

My boyfriend has gotten other women pregnant!

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 10 year relationship with my boyfriend. And nfortunately, there is a big problem. He has gotten other women pregnant. What would I do as her girl friend? We're living together already. Hope you can reply soon on what to do on my part as a girlfriend,,Thnx... (52 words)

He can't enter me... am I too tight?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time I try to have sex, the guy can't seem to enter me :( I don't know if it's because I'm too tight, or he doesn't get hard enough, but it's happened with more than one guy, so I'm guessing I'm the problem. What can I do? How can I make it work next time?... (58 words)

He doesn't seem to be the same now that we've had sex. Was I used?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online a year ago and we have become fast friends. He lives 5 hours away but we text and chat on the phone and I tell him my dating woes, etc. We finally decided we loved each other and we'd see what happened when we got together. I drove 5 hours to see him and w... (384 words)

I recently overheard my partner and her ex discussing intimate details of our relationship and poking fun at me.

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently overheard my partner and her ex discussing intimate details of our relationship and poking fun at me. This was after I had told my partner that I did not feel comfortable having her ex in our home for "coffee" whilst no one was here. I confronted my partner with the ... (153 words)

He said I have a big vagina yet he's the first man I've ever slept with!

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody, I am writing this so I can have advice about things I don't know. I've just get married lately and I was virgin but the problem is when I had sex with my husband he says that I have big vagina and he hardly feels me. Even although that was the 1st time I have had... (136 words)

She goes all quiet and when I ask her what's wrong she says I'm not as close to her any more but I am!

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had been in a 1-year relationship with a girl, when we first started, she was undemanding and understanding.. that's what I like about her, she never made sudden accusations of me not caring or loving her. Lately things changed, we would be chatting happily when su... (185 words)

I did lose some trust in her because now I know she loses her guard when she is drunk

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of over a year. She lives about 8 hours away and is starting her freshman year at college. She recently got drunk and let a guy bring her back to her dorm and they kissed goodnight before they left. She ended up ... (160 words)

I made a mistake 3 years ago and my husband is still making me pay for it!

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a difficult situation. My husband asked me if I could give him space. I have done something really bad 3 years ago and I already asked forgiveness from him. I thought he had forgiven me but I think he still lives in the past. We had a fight over this many times and ... (157 words)

Should I tell him that the girl is not interested or should I help him to get the girl?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy who I have not met for a few months. He was a colleague of mine and we talked online quite often and we get closer since I quit my job. I wrote in my blog that I like someone but I do not know how to confess. He hasn't talked to me for 5 days until... (172 words)

Am I chasing a guy I will never get?

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone guess who!!1 it's me lotmoney13!!!! a desperate questioniest at this sight!! LOL!!! if any of my readers read all of my questions (which please read them and help me out) it all really adds up to one question. Am I chasing a guy I will never get? I really love him ... (192 words)

I love my ex-boyfriend very much, but he loves someone else.

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my ex-boyfriend very much, but he loves someone else. If I call him he come to me and he behaves like he is my boyfriend. They both love each other, me too love him madly. I need him so much and I want him to be in love with me. What can I do? but they both cannot ... (87 words)

I think about my best friend's boyfriend more than I do my partner.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OK THIS IS ALL WIRED I NEED HELP!!! OK so my best friend's boyfriend an I have been having an affair for 5 years now, he's been with her about 7 years, and I been with mine ten years. We both love the sex he tells me he loves it when he's sleeping with me, I really wonder w... (117 words)

Why did my friend try and keep this from me?

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16 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My best guy friend, Alex and me were taking a walk together (as friends). We both got hungry and pick a random restaurant. When we're there he seems to be hiding something from me. He kept getting in my way and suggesting we eat somewhere else. I look anyway and my boyfriend ... (69 words)

Does that mean anything, when your husband says, I will love you forever and am never going to leave you?

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16 October 2008 (F) age - Does that mean anything, when your husband says, I will love you forever and am never going to leave you. Yet he doesn't have any sex drive. And generally looks very unloving. He is here, but I don't feel it. It goes like that several years ago. I don't know what to do. If I ... (159 words)

I need help with finding solutions for my deformed glans.

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a deformed glans and it is bothering me.Because of my shorter misplaced frenulum(on the left side) and much masturbation,the glans is deformed,the left side is deformed.I can see the difference and is making my urine and ejaculate come out diagonally and it is really ... (144 words)

I will never have 100% trust in her even if we get back together.

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is going to be long because this has spanned over a year. I'm in college and I met this girl, me and her hit it off fine and I am not one of those guys who does relationships, I just date a lot so this was probably my 4th or 5th relationship with anybody. One be... (450 words)

He doesn't seem as dedicated to our relationship as I am.

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a complicated relationship with my boyfriend, like me and him are secretly dating. We've been on a break once for about a month we broke up once for about a week but we do love each other a lot... or at least I love him a lot. We've been together close to a year now. ... (170 words)

Should I leave him alone or make my case?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this xmas party coming up and I wanted my boyfriend to come with me but he's never liked dancing in public, he won't like the music that's at the party, and I have a feeling that he won't feel like going. I forsaw this and I have a back up plan of asking this male... (179 words)

I had the most amazing pregnancy but fell into bad post natal depression straight after the birth of my baby girl,

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband since I was 16, married at 19, we have a gorgeous 3 year old. I also own a business and work full time. I had the most amazing pregnancy but fell into bad post natal depression straight after the birth of my baby girl, this was not the first time, I ... (201 words)

Having an affair with spouse approval - Should I just divorce?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright so my story is a bit long winded but bear with me. My spouse and I have been together almost 4 years for marriage (next month) and had dated 3 years more or less before marriage. The beginning of our courtship was all roses like most but we soon had bumps along the way. ... (779 words)

Blowjobs or handjobs for uncircumcised or uncut men?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Blowjobs or handjobs for uncircumcised or uncut men. Help? Should you do things differently than with a circumcised penis? How? Please, help me out. Tips/techniques/general things to know are all welcome, as are websites. Thank you.... (42 words)

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16 October 2008 (F)

- Hoping people can help here. I broke up with my ex about a year ago and we have emailed occasionally. I ran into him in the mall the other day. I suggested we meet for drinks. He said that would be ok but only in a group... what is he implying by this?... (53 words)

I recently discovered a 4 month (daily phone/text) relationship my husband of 11 years has been having with a mutual friend.

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently discovered a 4 month (daily phone/text) relationship my husband of 11 years has been having with a mutual friend. My question at this point is how can I see this other person the same when I now know there has been, what I feel, is an inappropriate relationship with ... (1315 words)

What does it feel like when you're about to orgasm?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so yeah embarrassing in a way but i was wondering like i know some girls can cum, and my boyfriend recently starting eating me out i guess you can say and he said he wants me to finish[cum] but he said i end up not doing it. but i mean i dont know if it was me about to cum ... (93 words)

The tests have all come out negative, but could I still be pregnant?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was wondering if I could be pregnant, I'm not sure if this is the place To ask this question I'm new to this. lol So bare with me! Thanks. Anywayz, I had sex about 7 and half week's ago.. And 4 days after I had sex I got a period. But the thing is, Is that I'm regular ... (225 words)

My friend has stopped talking to me because I talked to a girl she didn't like.

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have a problem...i have a friend we been really close friends for bout almost 5 yrs yea we had our ups and downs but its nothng we couldnt overcome....but yea any who this time i have a problem and i dnt know how to slove it... heres the thing: about 2 weeks ago or so th... (186 words)

I tend to be 'too nice' to girls I like. How do I overcome this?

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have had a couple of relationships in the past due to mutual attraction. But, I also have a truckload of failures when I was the one who liked the girl first. I think I have figured out why I have always failed when I become attracted to a girl: When I d... (208 words)

My mum doesn't trust my boyfriend. What should I do?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I've got this problem with my mom. We've always got along and never fought. Ever. I'm 15, so I bet it shocks you that I actually get along with her, right? Well lately things have been different. Ever since I got a boyfriend. I've had boyfriends before, but this is the ... (224 words)

Should I just block him and forget about it?

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16 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hi.I've liked someone for a while,and he has said he likes me,but wants me to give him time before he would have a relationship with me. He has photos of his ex on his page.He knows it bothers me,and yet he still continues to post them,and leaves comments under them,sayin... (219 words)

What's your opinion on dating a much older guy?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - your opinion on dating a guy 19yrs older then me. hes never been married has no kids. im 27 hes 46. im lonely so is he and i like him.i dont want to be alone for the rest of my life havent had a bf for 8yrs. ... (47 words)

Would it be wrong to sleep with a guy twice my age, even when I'm 18?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello so..i would ask that no one be super rude when they answer this..so im almost 18 and i met this man whose in his mid thirtys online...i know he could be a pedophile and all that 60 minute stuff...my friends arent very happy with it and i know. i havent met him yet. he and ... (139 words)

Why does he flirt with my friends when we've had a fight?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys think that just because him and his girlfriend are in a fight that he can go around flirting with his girlfriend's friends who he just likes as friends????????????????? ... (31 words)

How can I tell if I love her?

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16 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 months and i dont know if i love her, like i want to tell her that i do but i dont want to be lying when i tell her. How can i tell if i love her and is it t o soon to be love with her? ... (59 words)

Does he still love me? I can't get over him.

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex told me he needed a space. i caught him still messing around with his ex-girlfriend. we stopped talking for like 9month. so one day my family were during a family gathering and i saw him there. i was shocked, but was busy at that time so i wasn't able to talk to him but i ... (149 words)

What should I do if the person I love, loves someone else?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do if the person I love, loves someone else? He isn't dating that person though.Telling him probably won't change anything between us. Should I wait it out, and hopefully over time, he'll feel the same way? Or should I try and give up now before I get too attached ... (57 words)

Is it realistic for me to want a relationship with this married man?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age - I already know it's wrong to be with a married man but I want a relationship with him and all he wants is sex cause he has a new baby and his wife is too busy for sex! Is it realistic for me to want a relationship? ... (48 words)

I want to ask my friend to homecoming... Help please!

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my school has homecoming coming up next week and i really want to ask one of my guy friends. well we use to date, but now we are friends and i know he still likes me, well i think he does, but i dont want to be the one to ask cause im scared of rejection. i dont want him to ... (92 words)

Is he just using me for pleasure?

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16 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been having sexual intercourse with someone all the time who happens to be my ex. Me and him were together for about a year, but then he broke up with me because he didn't want to be "tied down", and just wanted to remain friends with benefits. Is it wrong to just... (150 words)