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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi me and my boyfriend have been split up for about 8 weeks and hes now involved with someone else anyway we agreed to try and stay mates even tho the girl hes now involved with dosent like me one bit,so he says for me to ring him which i do but the thing ive been thinking about recently is he doesnt phone me well he never did when we where in a relationship he always pranked me and he still does its like im making all the effort in trying to stay mates but hes not, am i being stupid?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 I don't think you're stupid. You're in love, but you have realized that this isn't worth the effort. I guess this is not the definition of stupid, but of its opposite.
Well done. Stop wasting your time and go after someone who is worth it.
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reader, Dear HEART +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Hi I know how hard it is for you at this time,But please don't be any ones fool,Boys only want to stay friends with their X girfriend as a safety net, someone who they can go back to when they get dumped on. Answer yourself this how importunend are you to yourself,no one knows You better ,how many broken bridges have you crossed up untill know haven't you always biult them back up again.
"GO GIRL GO Your no ones fool"
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 October 2008):
Yep, all you are doing is causing his new girl pain, and for what?
Nothing.
Move on and stop calling.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Stop wasting time and money on calls to him. Friendhip needs to be from both sides. Forget about him and concentrate on friends who are worthy of your friendhip.
He is probably telling the new girl that you are still "pestering" him and won't leave him alone. Don't give him any opportunity to do something like that. Stop calling him.
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reader, HannahElizabeth +, writes (21 October 2008):
To be honest, imagine if you were his new girlfriend how would you feel if he was secretly, if hes not making an effort with you, then thats not friendship. It all seems one sided. I would give up on him and just leave him to it.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Yep. I'd quit wasting my time and move on.
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