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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I meet him or listen to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5856 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have met this guy online and have been speaking to him for about 9 months. im only 16 and hes 23. i want to meet him so much but im quite scared and my friend doesnt approve of him as hes 23 speaking to a 16 year old about a relationship. should i meet him or listen to my ... (61 words)

What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other. In fact, I could see myself... (775 words)

Now I'm single and he's with someone else. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy at college, that I've had a crush on for months, and he used to like me, but at the time I already had a boyfriend (a total mistake). I didn't like him then either. Now I'm single and I know I've fallen head over heels for this guy, but he's in a relationship! ... (123 words)

How does a person who has been molested know when they're ready for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How does a person who has been molested know when they're ready for a relationship? How does the molested person know that what they are feeling for some guy is really real as opposed to just being obsessed with the person?... (42 words)

My sister likes my ex, but I still have feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do if my sister likes my ex boyfriend and he likes her but I still have feelings for him?... (22 words)

Is he interested, or just checking me out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i have known this guy for about a month and basically today we decided to meet up for a coffee, he said he would text me telling me exactly what time today because he had university. anyway we had decided around 5 so he texts me at that time, not telling me where to meet... (209 words)

Am I crazy for forgiving him for everything he did?????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this may sound crazy but i could really use ur help!!!!!!! a couple of years ago i was friends with this guy and then he told me he hated me and wished i was dead!!!!! now even more things have happened between us. Last night i ran into him and i felt like yelling at him ... (86 words)

My friend and I have had a sort of a tiff!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and a really close friend who have been talking for a while are in a sort of tiff... I have no idea what to do... I need help :( I have been told by one of my friends that I'm being a bit clingy and I should leave him a while but I'm finding it really hard! This is... (447 words)

Is it worth that I chase after her for a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently started school again where I left off so I can graduate (I had to drop out for a bit for personal reasons). I've met a beautiful girl who flirts with me a lot, but I feel like she's more into my muscles then myself somtimes. She's the kinda girl who many men enjoy ... (347 words)

Do you think I blew my chances with this guy I like so much by calling him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday, I had the chance of calling this guy I have feelings for but haven't seen for a year and a half ago. He's military and just came back from deployment so I called him to check on him. I was so excited and nervous I mostly did all the talking. In fact, I almost... (169 words)

Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate and they leave you...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have come out of the experience ... (121 words)

Should I get him a gift in return for his good advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently become FWB with a co-worker (we work in separate departments). He gave me some advice regarding an accident I was in, and as a result I've come into some money (over $800), which will really help me out with some bills, altho he says I should treat myself to ... (77 words)

My relationship with my brother in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as he helped me in many ways ... (414 words)

Am I jumping to conclusions here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I jump to conclusions? At my job, everything is computerized. Everyone has a login and password to access information about patients. Personal information such as work schedules, residence, pay rate, etc is also stored on our web page. No one should have your password... (275 words)

How do I attract him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and im guessing he's like 22 or 23. I dont really talk to him in class, but he always looks at me and he for sure knows my name because he gave me my quiz back without me telling him my name while everyone else did. I want to show him im interested but I dont know what to ... (106 words)

Is it ever too early to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help.. i have a new boyfriend. we've been together for about 2 weeks now. we're both not virgins. we hang out a lot and it's kinda tempting to have sex. i mean we just get in the moment. we've almost done it twice but i made it stop before it got too far. i kinda feel ... (135 words)

How long before we can dispense with the condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question. I'm about to start taking birth control for the first time. I'm 20 years old and up until now haven't taken it due to a leiden deficiency (which makes my blood thicker than a normal person's), but my doctor and I have found a safe way around it. Wh... (93 words)

What clothes would look good on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt a question that usually appears on here, but, i have no idea what clothes i should wear to suit my body. i have; broad/big shoulders (so i cant wear puffball sleeves) a small neck (and look ridiculous in polar-necks) quite long legs normal sized bum (but do... (115 words)

Why should I live my life virtually alone while my husband spends most of his spare time with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 2 1/2 years. We have a 6 yr old, a 2 yr old, and a 2 month old baby. I am an at home mom also trying to help out with the business my husband just started. I have been having a problem lately with my husband always wanting to go hang out... (341 words)

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been with guys in the past i've be... (246 words)

Fancy dress prom coming up! I have naturally red hair. Which actress could I go as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Not a relationship question, but I've seen random questions answered here...So here we go. I've got this fancy dress prom coming up (In my last year and a prefect) and I don't like wearing wigs and my hair is naturally a ginger-red colour. What actress could I go as. T... (61 words)

Why does she keep breaking her word and backing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a big problem with my gf, she tells me one thing and then does another, she builds up my hopes and then crushes my hopes all the time, it has been more often lately. I am a travel agent and with work I get to go abroad 3-4 times a year, every year for the last 4 years... (243 words)

How do I cope with her sleeping with male strippers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my problem is that it feels like im dating a man sometimes! my girlfriend is CONSTANTLY checking out other men, all the time, whenever i catch her she says 'sorry' and that she didnt realize she was doing it. she admitted to me that she looks at them because they are attractive ... (513 words)

What should I do about my boyfriend's diminishing sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - what should i do about my boyfriend who use to want to have sex more often but now not so much?... (21 words)

What will happen to the relashionship if I kiss him and he doesn't want to be kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, and we haven't even kissed yet. He recently admitted that he was frigid, but I would like to kiss him. I feel confused. I would kiss him, but I don't have the confidence to just do it, and I feel worried and ... (109 words)

Will this "friends" thing work for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to this guy (he didn't pressure me though) and after several months of being together" and not going out, I told him I couldn't do it anymore, which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. We went out for a week before he told me that he didn't want a ... (219 words)

There is a picture of my boyfriend and his ex hugging, on a wall in his parent's home, where he llives. It bugs me, how do I bring it up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend lives with his friends. In their house the is a wall that has all their pictures and stuff. One of the pictures has my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend in it, hugging each other. It is a group picture, my boyfriend didnt put that on there but it bugs me, coz i see ... (98 words)

My wife has changed recently, do you think I have lost her, I love her, what do I do now?p

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife and i met about 9 years ago. we were both getting out of serious relationships at the time. we are in our late twenties now. for some reason i didn't feel in love with her until 7 years after we were together. that is when we got married and had our fist son. i ... (674 words)

Does having sex soon after your fertile time, cause pregnancy, any ideas on what a guy can do to have a better erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok i had sex a few days after my fertile time i wanted to know can i still get pregnant after my fertile time, and also his penis was not all the way hard can i still get pregnant and one more question he penis is not getting hard nomore i don't what to do he has tried two ... (70 words)

If she loves me shouldnt she want to live with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my gf and she tells me that she loves me more than anything in the world but whenever I mention us living together she is not intersted. when we are together we have a great time, i can feel the love from her and we feel like we are in our own world. but for some re... (114 words)

My mom told me two different stories about my parentage, I am having trouble accepting what she says is the truth, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was younger my mom told me that she had me with her ex boyfriend who had since left her. But when I turned 18 my mom said "Now that you're an adult, I need to tell you the truth." Turns out the real reason I exist is cause my mom got drunk and had one night stand with a ... (150 words)

We dated for six years, broke up, I still love him, he's with someone else, but calls me 3 times a day, I want him back, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My Boyfriend of 6 years and I have just recently broken up. Our relationship was strained for about a year before the breakup. I love him and I think he is my one true love. He has since started seeing someone, however he still calls me all of the time, up to three times a day. ... (116 words)

Do I follow my heart or my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I follow my heart or my head? I was coming out of a relationship which I was not happy in and it had been 2 months, I started going out with my friends having a good time when i kissed a mutual friend of ours. I am a hindu he is a muslim. I didn't think anything ... (571 words)

This guy has helped me out a lot, but does not want a relationship, am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy and I went to high school together (he had a crush on me, and I didn't know it), I graduated and moved away. He graduated the next year, we lived our lives for the next 20 years and ran into each other one night. We started talking on the phone and he asked me out, ... (176 words)

Dating for six months, he wants to break up suddenly, why, could I have a guy's opinion please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - From a males point of view why is he pushing me away and being so mean i dont really understand? me and this guy have been dating for about 6 months now and monday we was fine not fighting or anything and he calls me and tells me he is moving out and that i need to move on ... (366 words)

My long term boyfriend went to a strip club, got a lap dance...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Long Term BF went to a strip club, got a lap dance (2 actually) sat around chatting with the strippers and says it's harmless. Let me give a bit of background, both divorced, in a ltr of 3 years, we've got a great relationship, very direct and healthy communication ab... (344 words)

Is friendship all that's on offer here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I want to go and get something ... (70 words)

Am I getting upset for no reason or should I confront him and ask him about it???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering if I am overreacting. My husband left his email program up and so I was reading one of the emails and it was from an old girlfriend. She was telling him about her marriage and how things weren't so good for her right now and he was giving her advice. ... (116 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Okay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my friend were talking chatting alo... (219 words)

Boyfriend is suddenly distant, haven't seen him in two weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of almost six months and I have been exclusive since nearly the beginning of our relationship. We usually see each other once or twice a week, due to our work schedules and the fact that we both have kids. Last week he went by himself to Las Vegas for a few ... (247 words)

Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. When I was fourteen, with the ... (388 words)

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip so i started seeing him strai... (465 words)

I don't want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my fiance and had a baby 1 year ago and since then i havent wanted to have sex or do anything sexual at all! i can count the amount of times we have slept together on 1 hand! my partner was understanding at first but now i can see hes starting to get impatient and im r... (125 words)

I can draw air into my vagina and make farting sounds...is this abnormal ? I'm scared it might make me infertile.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is going to be the most embarrasing question i have ever asked, and i am way to embarrased to go to a clinic or even my GP. ever since i was about 9 i could make 'farting noises' out of my vagina. At the start it was only tiny ones that sounded like clicking. Me and... (146 words)

The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he doesn't want a commitment. ... (84 words)

Curiousity killed the cat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he was gone curiousity got the ... (200 words)

Is it wrong to have this type of friendship with a married guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a casual friendship with a guy when I sold some radios for an air base (he's air force) He was very friendly, yet a bit too much back then. He left a week later. I had to contacted him a month after that by email and since then we began keeping in touch by email. I ha... (244 words)

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and saying he didn't- almost the ... (594 words)

My husband wants to make a sex tape!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My husband (for 3 years) wants us to make a sex tape for his birthday (hes turning 28). We have no kids yet (we're still talking about it). I told him to dream on. I dont want to get out and then everyone will i'm a slut. He promise he'll get a safe so no one will see it. I do ... (100 words)

What could these symptoms be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am so young but i have memory loss problems.when i try to focus on one thing i lose so much focus on sumthing else n it feels like im retarted.or it feels like im lazy when it comes to thinking.is it a stage?i can't really remember what happened earlier.i am also having ... (72 words)

Could I be pregnant or is my waterfall playing tricks on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Im about 3-5 days late. I've been having mild cramps, mild headaches, mild backaches and my nipples are tender. On and off. But my friend told me that when you are pregnant your cervics get hard. This is kinda gross but i stuck my finger inside and pushed back a little bit ... (80 words)

Is this what you would call 'love'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years and I love him very much but I do worry that I dont know what love is and so worry that maybe I dont love him.I know its silly and im 23 years old,I feel like I should know better.I have always worried like this ... (68 words)

Hope I can get an honest answer here!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! hope i can get a honest answer here...i've got a bf and i love him a lot and he loves me the same way. he's very nice and kind. only i'm not used to the kind of relationship he's got with his sister...i think i'm a bit jelous and i'm almost ashamed of that because i ... (166 words)

Should I stick with her and try to work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 years old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. About a month after we first started going out I was very drunk and cheated on her. I let her know and we talked it over and got over it. We got along really well after that. I got her a promise ... (262 words)

Is it irrational to think this way about my therapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the past 3 years I've gone through a lot of shit. about 2 years ago I met my therapist, he was one of the best people I would ever meet in my (then) so far 15 years. I most definitely thought of him as more than just my therapist... I thought of him as a really great ... (201 words)

How many times do you call your partner per day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - She works at night time and there will be days she works alone in her department. She text for me to call back. It happened few times so I guess she is lonely. I decided to call her everyday during her break time. The problem now is, she doesn't pick up the call. She do... (105 words)

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you too' from a different guy, ... (144 words)

Why has he left me to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - It is late at night and I am sitting here not knowing what to think or how to get through this. My partner of 4 years has left me tonight to go back to his wife. He never divorced her but left years ago to have a fulfilling and loving relationship with me. He didn't get on w... (111 words)

What do I answer to her sexual questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl asks you how bad do you want her and how bad do you want to go down on her what do you tell her?... (27 words)

I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's only just started. Someone ... (64 words)

Am I doing the right thing keeping this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I started a relationship with a guy thats much younger than me and when we started dating we were both in seperate relationships at the time but those relationships ended and now me and him are in what i thought was a committed relationship. Recently he went out with his ... (192 words)

Should I give up finally on him? Heartbreak!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

31 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have feelings for a guy who I met when he was doing duty assignment here in MI a year ago. He never knew I liked him when I met him although he was very friendly, the flirty type. I fell in love with him but couldn't told him or showed him b/c he had to leave to home a week ... (245 words)