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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What strategies can I use next, to re-kindle our love again? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today was the day i actually spoke to my ex-boyfriend in person during break (like I mentioned in my previous question). When he met me there my friend unexpectedly showed up, and started telling me about this other dude emailing me and such and so that kinda made me mad ... (208 words)

Where can a single parent find a job where they don't get ripped off?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've taken this job that was advertised in the job centre as 15-20 hours a week. Minimum wage of £5.73 per hour. So i take it, after being on Income Support for the last 8 yrs. 16 hours is what it takes to be able to claim tax credits. Im a single mum of 2. The manager said ... (333 words)

I'm being blamed for something I didn't do, so should I feel bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my feelings are hurt and I want to know if I could have done anything differently. My friend of 5 years who I talk to off and on is pregnant, newly married and just finally got her own place. I had been asking for a few months when we could hang out and catch up, and ever... (370 words)

Why do I still feel uncomfortable telling people I'm gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am gay and have a boyfriend of about 2 and a half years now, and we are moving in together. my friends and family know, but why do i still feel uncomfortable telling people that i'm gay? thanx. jpmcveigh xx... (41 words)

I'm just so confused...do I stick it out or forget it? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 my partner 35 we have been together for a year. Basically I've been living with my parents which hasn't been ideal and not in a position to move out. I'm at my partner's most days and asked about living together, he said he wasn't ready this was around 6 weeks ago. He ... (218 words)

My 14 yr old friends are planning to have sex....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my friends and his g/f are going to have sex on Sunday. They are both 14, and they are only going to use a condom... how can i stop them from doing it?... (35 words)

Is what I'm doing illegal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i are both 14, and we often just lie together snogging, and sometimes i put my hand in her bra... is this illegal?... (26 words)

'From a Fairy to a King'...Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agony aunts. I had planned to go as a fairy for halloween this year but at the last minute have decided it might be really unusual to go as Elvis. My halloween party is on Friday - and I need help pulling together a costume FAST! Help! Tips and ideas? I don't need a wi... (133 words)

I'm in a mess, and don't know what to do, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I need help. I know that this is going to be kinda confusing but keep in mind I'm really confused anyway. I love my boyfriend to death... or at least I did when we started going out. Please don't think bad of me, but we hadn't gone out for a while, and I had an affair with ... (123 words)

I'm a 28 yr old woman for goodness sake! What's going on? Am I in denial of something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My best guy friend, George* and I have been best friends for about fifteen years, and we have actually been living together for close to six months (to save on rent). Recently, I've caught him staring at me a few times and then as soon as I DO catch him, he looks away just as ... (253 words)

It seems that all the guys round me want the dumb, loud, big-chested girls and I get over-looked...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 15, female. I think I'm an average looking girl, not UGLY but not exactly beautiful either. Lots of folk tell me I'm funny, got a good sense of humour, that kind of stuff. I reckon I'm quite a nice person and pretty smart [without meaning to sound cocky]. The thing is ... (205 words)

Does his behaviour mean he's afraid of me knowing how he really feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Okay, so I have a problem. I really like this guy, he's a bit older, he's married, and I know that I never, ever have a chance with him, just let's get that straight, I'm not looking to be with him AT ALL. The problem is that he has flirted in the past, saying things that cou... (216 words)

Where can my friend and I go so we can meet 'good guys'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Where is a good place for me and my best friend to go to meet good guys? We are both in high school and don't go to crazy parties. We work together and have met a few, but they give us mixed signals, and since the job is seasonal it ends in a few weeks. Thanks. ... (64 words)

Can you help me curb my hunger for food? Would hypnosis help me with my problem of always wanting to eat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I know this isn’t a relationship question but I know that everyone could possibly help me with my problem. I don’t want to go to my doctor and ask because its not really serious and I think id be wasting his time. I went on the mini pill 3 years ago now and I knew tha... (414 words)

I really like him, but I'm afraid my moodiness will scare him away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... i think i have a really weird problem... i recently got together with this guy and i love being with him. hes everything to me and i am to him (so he says). But the thing is i get really moody sometimes with him over nothing in particular, but just over things ... (152 words)

Does my ex husband really want to try again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need advice on whether you think that my ex-husband genuinely wants to try again or is just using me. We seperated a year ago and have not seen each other since, but he has kept in contact with my sister and I have had contact through text and e-mails to do wi... (289 words)

Does the ex still have feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my ex and I have been going up and down. We haven't talked or seen each other in three weeks. The last time we talked we had arranged to hang out. But he called and told me he didn't want me to like him anymore, he didn't want me to need him, and we couldn't be best ... (268 words)

My husband physically and emotionally abuses me all the time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need to make this quick because I'm not "allowed" to be on the internet right now. My husband is thirteen years my senior and we've known each other for two and a half years, been together that long, and married for two years. We have a one-year-old daughter. My problem ... (442 words)

How long is too long without sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm just wondering how long is too long without sex? I know people have different sex drives but just wanting to get some personal opinions really. how long would you go without sex before you got unhappy with your partner and wanted explanations? Personally speaking I think... (87 words)

Is the love that I have for this wonderful girl wrong???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18/male/A-town and I know a really attractive, cool, mature, and even cute/sexy (20/female/SD) that i would not mind kickin it with for a while whether it is day or night. I could care less what people think about us but there is only one problem about that which is why i ... (404 words)

My girlfriend does not like to have her vagina touched or for me to give her oral sex. What is wrong with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age - My girlfriend does not like to have her vagina touched or for me to give her oral sex. What is wrong with her?... (24 words)

I need some help... I have just split from my fiance of 8 years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some help... I have just split from my fiance of 8 years. Things got bad really quickly.. He became distant and didnt want to spend time with me as much. But what made the split final is as we both planned to start a family together next year I went to the family ... (270 words)

He has a lot of girls who are friends, and there are plenty of girls who like him so why me? Or maybe not...I can't figure him out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - He always smiles when he's around me. He teases me a lot, but in a nice way. He comes up to me and talks to me now, which he never used to do (or at least not as often - I usually had to start the conversation). But I'm still unsure if he likes me, for a few good reasons: ... (286 words)

Will I ever get to meet up with him or shall I just quit now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Will I ever get to meet up with him or shall I just quit now? I am in love with this guy who says he has a partner that he doesn't get on too well with but knows I am interested in him and keeps phoning me! - We have arranged to meet up as long as he can get away for lon... (133 words)

I cheated on my husband, and now the guy I cheated with won't leave me alone. Can I save my marriage ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am new to this site - I guess I am desparate to talk to somebody about this problem and feel like I cannot even trust my friends. I have been married for 10 years and have a daughter. I have never cheated on him before in my marriage. He was gone working for 5 1/2 months ... (226 words)

I don't have very good self esteem and find it very difficult to talk to people. How can I change this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

- I dunno whats wrong with me lately. I have a large social circle but I dont have very good self esteem and find it very difficut to talk to people, sometimes even my friends. We all go on holidays and festivals every year but for some reason lately I have found that I dont get ... (151 words)

Things are great between us, then suddenly he just cuts me off. How do I deal with this ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i've been talking to this guy for about two months and things have been going great. we decided from the beginning that we weren't going to put titles to anything and just let whatever happens, happen. however, when we would go out, he would be really affectionate which i ... (315 words)

He really hurt me 'down there', how can I stop him from doing this again next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my new boyfriend, and hes one of the best kissers i've ever been with, but last night when we were together, he started fingering me really hard and rough. It was much too painful to be enjoyable, and today i'm bruised and swollen down there. It's really tender a... (82 words)

I'm seperated from my hot-headed husband and want to start fresh with someone else...help !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was friends with my husband for 5 years and never fought with him. We then decided we liked each other and he proposed after a month of dating. Six months later we married. From the day we started dating, we fought off and on. Now, two years later we are still married but ... (608 words)

What shall I do? Is he cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi well this boy added me on bebo and i dont really know him but we have got really close and i know he isnt a pedo ive seen him on cam and stuff and we have started going out and he is moving close to me at the end of the month the thing is he is really sweet but i cant ... (185 words)

I personally don't believe in breaks, only break-ups. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants to take a break and have his space. I personally don't believe in breaks, only break-ups. He keeps texting me saying he loves me. Do I ignore or respond? Please help... (35 words)

I cried on my 18th because I wasn't 17 anymore! So how can I get over my fear of growing older?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - On my 18th birthday I cried because I wasn't seven anymore. I've always been scared of getting older, one - 'cause it means I'll have less life, and two - 'cause I'm scared of losing my abilities. I work hard and I've heard that when you become forty or fifty you get tired easi... (108 words)

We love each other, but I feel like the world is against us. Will he miss me and come back to me in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I will try to cram it all in here! so bare with me. I'm 20, gay and have had 2 serious relationships, this being my second. The first one left me pretty bruised and torn up, but I came out alive. My current (ex) B/F I have been with for 2 years, we are more than just partne... (718 words)

How does one 'pretend' to be happy in a marriage where the love has faded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age - Looking for tools. I come to the realisation that if my husband and I hadnt got married we wouldve have parted a long time ago. We've made our bed and now have to lie in it. We used to be very passionatly in love, but love isnt enough. Is is possible to pretend that your hap... (73 words)

I'm so freakin' confused right now. Is this guy for real?! I mean WOW, I don't even know what I'm asking anymore after re-reading this!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok where to start. I met this really great guy, and everyday I learn something new about him. I kind of had an idea in the beginning something wasn't right with him. But you know the old saying you try not to judge the book by its cover. Well he told me something last night ... (240 words)

What is the point of watching porn during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Everytime a conversation came up about porn he would say he that he wasnt into it at all, and thay they are all sluts, blah blah blah. Well we are living together now, and sometimes he wants to watch the porn while we are havi... (160 words)

I need help in working out what to do when I know these people so well, and when I'm involved.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my two friends have started not getting along at all. one friend (lets call her A) has started going out with B's (my other friend) ex bf. B is with someone else but still winds A up by meeting with A's bf (her ex). i dont want to take sides, but then i dont agree with what B is... (110 words)

I kissed a lad after my boyfriend and I argued, I like them both, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The other night i was at a party,me and my boyfriend had an argument and he went off, that evening this lad that ive always thought was cute kissed me. And now i cant stop thinking about it. Im so confused and dont know what to do. I love my boyfriend but i really like this ... (64 words)

Is it harmful for me that he sucks my nipples during sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I Just married women my husband is very understandable he makes me happy during sex but i m confused about one point, that he is suking my nipples {not bite} he want to make me happy but is this right?I Like it too but little bit confused that it is harmful for me n spec... (60 words)

My boyfriend is lovely but too soft and I still think about my ex - should I marry my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my ex for 8 years. My new boyfriend of 2 years (previously divorced within a year of marraige) now fiance is a lovely caring guy. My ex the opposite bad boy kind of a guy although I heard rumours about him cheating on me, which he may have done but ... (262 words)

Is there anything that might be stopping him from saying anything to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really like this guy. and im pretty sure he likes me too! like ultra positive he likes me, he shows all the signs.... he gets red in front of me he shows off. he does things to try to make me notice him. i guess im just being a bitch by not noticing him....but i do look... (174 words)

Should I just forget about them both and completely move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help and advice, I have posted on here before with regards to my partner who is a heroin addict, we have both agreed to go our separate ways on a good note as what we have been through together has become too much and causes us fights all the time, i just cant mov... (256 words)

Is it possible that we could end up bi or lesbians if we keep doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have a question that is too awkward to ask anybody that i know. it involves me and my bestfriend. we are both girls, 15 years old and have been best friends since we were small. some in our family say we are cousins, but we aren't really. we both think of ourselves as ... (240 words)

Stressed about choosing the right guy without hurting the others that are interested in me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im so stressed about boys, I have a few that i think are nice and they are intrested in me, but i need to see who i like by meeting them, and that makes me feel really bad cause il kiss them and then il have to hurt the rest i dont want to be with. Theres one who i have a lov... (253 words)

...but if I move on, I risk being alone forever, and hurting him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We were planning on getting married and having kids, etc. He is a great guy, and he loves me a lot. I love him to, but I think no more as a friend. He is just too passive. And don't say I should have left before, because ... (146 words)

Bleeding and vaginal discomfort after taking the emergency pill... is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, on wednesday my bf and I had protected sex as always, but unfortunately the condom split. This happened just as is was going in, and we took it out as soon as we herd it rip. I took the morning after pill on thursday morning(13 hours later), and all was fine. Then I ... (138 words)

Is it weird that I asked my mum to put in a tampon for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i am quite worried. I have had a period for 2 years, and i wanted to start using a tampon. i couldn't get it in, so i called my mom and she put it in for me. Is that really wierd :S I don't know, i'm just a bit freaked out.... (56 words)

Good man...Bad woman....if I go will it hurt her kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend with 3 kids who are not my own. I provide for them in every way, even paying for her school but I don't get any respect from her. The kids respect me more than she does. I really want to leave her but knowing that the kids will be in a bad situation it makes ... (70 words)

I feel we should split up before University. Good idea???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a huge problem right now about my relationship with my bf. We were together for almost 2 years but split up for 5 monthS. We got back together about a month and a half ago and things have been ok. Hes deffinetly more loving and carring in the relationship and shows ... (430 words)

Can a girl get pregnant this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... this is kind of embarrasing but.. If a guy rubs his *ahem* against a girls.. area.. with underwear on, is it possible for the girl to get pregnant if the guy cums? Sorry but this question has been bugging me.. thanks xxx... (53 words)

Should I trust men in general?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

- Hi I'm 30 and have had a few long term relationships, including the one i'm in now. I have NEVER been able to trust a man and assume they are all lying/devious about everything, would cheat if they got half a chance and can not be trusted or relied upon in any circumstan... (404 words)

Can casual turn into an exclusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've recently got together with this guy - I knew him a long time ago when I was a teenager, just as a name and a face. Got talking recently and we got on really well. Then he instigated flirting and it kinda went from there and he invited himself over (I'm very shy normally). ... (389 words)

Her parents have grounded her and taken her phone away...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm sure you all have heard this story a billion times, but I never thought it would happen to me. Last night I ordered some pizza to this girl's house that I don't like as a joke, and now my girlfriend tells me her parents said she is grounded from me for a month. I ... (158 words)

I would kill to be with her but she isn't attracted to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl a few months back and I have always felt a deep admiration for and care for her more than anyone. I consider her my best friend although I'm aware she has a lot of great friends and unfortunately I would not appear at the very top of her list like she does mine. ... (417 words)

Is it okay for girls to make themselves orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well this is very embarrassing to be asking about but is it ok for girls, at my age (14) to make themselves... orgasm? Becacause I have this thing I do where if I imagine certain things (no need to go into that though) and rub against my... you know with my finger, ... (139 words)

I am married but get crushes on other men so easily.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles. I am a married woman and I love my husband so much. He is very nice and so sweet but I have one problem with me. I get a crush on other men so easily but I have never cheated on my husband physically. Please help me, how do I stop this feeling. Than... (71 words)

Pregnant at 14 and in care. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 years old.I was recently put into the care system but i have just found out im pregnant. I want to keep the baby but i have no support from my family or anyone else to be hounest.the father isnt in the picture either.i also have no where to live, as the placement i am ... (78 words)

How can I find a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i am a girl and i have not had a real relationship ever. My sister try to help me find a guy but he liked her so he used me. My things is i feel like i my never find a guy because when i try it ends up blowing up in my face i cry at night now so please someone tell me how to ... (91 words)

Should I Break Up With Her Before Or After The Holidays??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Sadly, I think I need to break up with my girlfriend. We have been dating over a year and have been close friends for three years prior to that. I love her to death, and she thinks I am the one. Even though I still love her, I feel a break up is necessary as our lives are just ... (224 words)

I am so in love with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I still have a problem with the guy I always wanted to date with that I said will not be a serious relationship, we still meet sometimes and he still stays closer to me and keeps watching me the whole time, I really want to talk to him and ask him if he feels the same way about ... (66 words)

Live separate sexual lives and get married or leave now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost 7 months. I am very pleased with the intimacy in our relationship but he says that it is missing something for him. He (28 years old) has been with five times as many women as I (24 years old) have (been with men) and I think ... (390 words)

I am very upset by the amount of women that cheat in the world...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I'm surprised to find out that women do cheat more than men in a relationship! Men do cheat more technically but in general these are men who don't get themselves into a stong relationship. I'm talking about mature couples in mature relationships. And in these rela... (133 words)

Why did he suddenly change? He seemed to be really in to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im currently 19 and 38 weeks pregnant. Me and the babys father are not together, he doesnt want anything to do with the baby. About a month ago, me and a boy (also 19) i have known for about 3 years and met twice before started SMS texting each other again, he knew about th... (804 words)

Why doesn't he understand that I don't desire sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age - How do I make my husband understand that my desire in sex just isn't what it used to be? When we met quite a few years ago the sex was absolutely great! We practically had sex every day and I even looked forward to it. I must mention here that I am in the 45 - 55 yr. age group. ... (198 words)

Was this an innocent flirt? Or should I follow up on it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi About 4 months ago I ended things with a guy because he just seemed too casual, I'd see him for an evening and then I wouldn't hear anything for a week or two. I really liked him but I couldn't cope with not seing him as often as I wanted.It ended ok and i said lets be f... (270 words)

Help,should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help! my ex boyfriend stole from me 2 times and they where very valuble things to me.the first time i gave him another chance,thn he did it again,so i ended are 8mth relationship changed my number and reported it to the police.its been 2mth now and he wont leave it at tht he ... (194 words)

I want to go to the party but my ex and his new gf will be there, help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm due to go to a halloween party next Saturday down my local pub and everyone says I'm still welcome to go, the only problam is my recently ex and his new gf will be there too, I was meant to be going with him but then things have changed at the moment I'm just... (156 words)

How do I send out the right signals to members of the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 years old and I've never been on a first date and thus no first kiss either. People have told me I'm pretty and model-like cuz I'm tall (about 5'8"ish). I try to go out and meet guys. But I've never had a guy approach me. They usually approach my friends. I'm ... (104 words)

Forbidden feelings...

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Good day readers! I just wanted to ask if why are the teachers forbidden to have a relationship with their students. I admire my previous mathematics teacher. He not only taught me how to solve mathemetical problems but also he taught me how to love. Some an... (92 words)

He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the children spending the week... (138 words)

What can I do to hurry / postpone my period?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi..I have my year 12 formal coming up and im due to have my period that night... is there anything I can do to move my period forward or later? Thanx ... (31 words)

Should I suggest meeting for a coffee, or continue to wait for him to initiate?

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24 October 2008 (F)

- I wrote a few weeks ago about a guy I had met at the end of july. We met out one night and then began dating, during this time his mum was very ill and she eventually died in september. As I didnt know him very well we muddled through this and I supported him as best I coul... (725 words)

The man I'm dating says I shouldn't be jealous because we are not committed, so should I hide how I feel?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i'm dating says to me that since there isn't a commitment between us, i shouldn't be jealous. Although i try to hide this feeling, sometimes it is obvious especially when he provokes me. Should i make him to realize that i don't like some things or should i hide every ... (87 words)

My boyfriend finds me unattractive because of my small boobs and thin body structure...

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend(for 3 yrs) feels that i am too thin for him and he is not that attracted to me since i have small boobs. It really hurts me when he comments harsh things about my body. He says that i need to become a little fat to carry on with the relationship. I am gaining ... (71 words)

How can I tell my teacher that I admire him?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i admire my teacher and i want it to express or say it to him. when i was reading some of the questions, i noticed that the people who are responsing says that the student-teacher relationship is forbidden. i want to tell him that i admire him. what should i do? ... (54 words)

Water coming from my nipples when I masturbate by squeezing, is this normal?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age - I am 45 years old unmarried. I masturbate almost everyday by sqeezing my nipple, breast and rubbing clitoris. I notice that when I sqeeze my nipple water comes out from the nipple. Is it normal. ... (36 words)

I feel that now I am older, no one wants a man with no money and no looks, feel left out and it's frustrating.

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 43 years old male, I have been in four major relationships in my life that OCCURRED on their own and the same way they ended. I have never been able to meet the woman I want, so I have to accommodate whatever comes my way on its own. It is really frustrating as I am horny ... (227 words)

We are having problems because she takes my appetite for sex as wanting just that but I love her!

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I had a girlfriend, the only one i have ever loved, dated for a year and a half. We broke up for about 5 months. Then she started coming back into my life when she decided to start texting me. She left me because she felt things were too boring. So i let her back in ... (154 words)

Can a man and a woman be friends when he finds the woman attractive?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can a Man and woman truly be friends especially after the man says that he finds the woman beautiful?... (19 words)

Why is sex so important to men?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do men love sex so much? And dont try to tell me that women love it just as much. I mean sure if feels great to have that connection with someone is amazing but we dont think about it 24 hours a day and dont lie or say anything just to get laid. Do women go to stip clubs ... (101 words)

My husband stopped having sex with me a few years ago...

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24 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My husband stopped having sex with me a few years ago. I tried many thing to make him excited, but no success. Now I have enough of this, and started to feel humiliated to initiate, with no result. I do look good, as I always took care of myself...So its not the fat wife syn... (144 words)

I'm beginning to resent him, as he doesn't see himself settling for marriage and a family.

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have a concern that maybe some of you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, but it's weird because he tells me he doesn't see himself getting married or raising a family. the problem is I do, and I had been hoping it'd be with him, so what am I... (139 words)

Do many guys lie about cumming?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had unprotected sex about 3 days ago (Oct 21) and I start my period at the end of the month. So anyday now it should come. Anyhow, He said that he didnt come in me during sex but I am sure that he lied because he did jurk some and couldnt get up right away, and later on said... (189 words)

I'm happily married! But I feel towards my childhood friend

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married and happily I might add. However. I have had a guy friend since I was 9 years old. In the past year or so I have seen and felt some tension between us. Before my marriage he wanted me to end it and try a relationship with him. I told him maybe if it was years ... (240 words)

My wife is so negative with everything I suggest. How can I advice her?

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not going to lie, this is long. But for those who read it and offer advice, thank you. :-) My wife usually has a negative outlook on things, usually I am able to provide advice she takes, considers, and most of the time when I tell her everything will work out, she be... (445 words)

I called my ex after 2 months! it went well - is he in to me?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex-boyfriend has been apart for nearly 2 months and I figured since i was happy enough (meaning not as frantic or depressed as I used to) that I could break the ice and call him. So tonight I finally called him. It actually went very unexpected! i thought he was going ... (309 words)

Does thus straight guy like me ?

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone again its plain old me lotmoney13..... i have a new but old delimma again involving the straight guy. well today at class he asked me what other languages i speak, o i told him tagalog, me being filipino so yeah, so then he said to me Mahal Kita, which is i love ... (195 words)

I'm falling for my step-brother (not blood related) Is this wrong ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice please. I live in Queensland with my mum and I am 19 years old. My parents divorced 6 years ago and dad remarried 2 years ago and lives about 1100 miles away interstate in Victoria. By his marriage, I have 2 step brothers who are aged 20 and 17 but ha... (221 words)

My marriage is on the brink of falling apart ! Can I save my marriage ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 4 years now. And it seems me and my husband are drifting farther apart every year we are together. In the begining we fought all the time, Then we got along for a little while. Now there is no talking to each other about anything. We cant do things ... (243 words)

Do I stay with my pot-smoking boyfriend of 9 months, or go for my long distance aquaintance ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, off and on, and I love him.. but he hasnt told me i am cute, pretty or gorgeous..(I always tell him he is gorgeous and cute) it bugs me, because I dress cute for him and want him to notice me.. However, one of my other friends, I ... (252 words)

She asks me online to go out, then disrespects me to my face. I only want to be her friend. How do I make things right ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't really a question...well I need advice I guess. A few days ago someone added me and then wrote me a messege on myspace They randomly asked me out (it was someone I knew but didn't know why they "asked me out". So i kept asking them "why should I believe th... (375 words)

Am I falling for my best friend ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My best male mate and I are both twenty-one years old and have been best friends since we were two! We grew up together and share absolutely everything! I feel like he's the only person in the world I can really open up to and trust. I've seen him go through three girlfriends ... (204 words)

How do I stop being a push-over ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am such a pushover for everyone in my life! It's been this way since I was a really little girl and I don't know how to get out of that! Please help! It's really starting to annoy the crap out of me!... (43 words)

I can't get passed his relationship with his cousin. I want to go back to my ex but I am engaged. Who do I choose ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy about 3 years ago and we dated for a long time, i found out he was cheating on me with his cousin 4 months into the relationship. I was furious and broke it off. I got back with him, but in between i met this wonderful man. Hes older than me and treated me right. ... (176 words)

How important is sex in a relationship?

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Opinions sought -- how important is the sexual portion of a relationship?... (12 words)

He doesn't satisfy me sexually.

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a loving committed relationship with my boyfriend for over four years but the intimacy and sex has been insufficient (for me) for the past two plus years. We have talked about it a number of times but eventually after all is said and done not much changes. I have ... (107 words)

What to do after a one night drunken fling?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy goes to university together, he is in some of my classes, and recently we got closer. we been flirting and stuff, and one time we went clubbing together and we kissed and spent the night together, but we didnt do anything else apart from kissing. He hasnt text ... (108 words)

She left and had sex with someone else. She wants to come back. Should I take her back ?

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - MY (fiance) of eight years told me she needed some space, and I found out after she had moved out that she met another guy and had sex with him after she moved out, after. Two times she spent the night with him. The reason she gave me was because I was so mean and he was very ... (123 words)

How can I get my wife to discipline her kid more so I don't have to deal with is snotty attitude?

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24 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My step-son is spoiled as hell and my patience is wearing thin. My wife is freakin bitch and wont discipline him and gets so defensive when I lose my patience with him because he throws stuff around and tells us to pick up after him like he owns our house or something. The few ... (207 words)

Bouncing from ex to ex...who do I choose ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. so I've been indecisive for the longest time over this issue and it's really starting to stress me out. I have two ex boyfriends that I really love and I just can't pick between them. Ex #1 and I were together for about 2.5 years. He's my high school sweetheart. We got ... (402 words)

I never cum with why boyfriend... why?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I never cum with why boyfriend why?... (7 words)

I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common, and she is my favourite teache... (610 words)

We've only been dating for a month and now he is suddenly distant. Do I worry too much ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - he and i have only been seeing each other for a month. i feel a little silly for being so concerned by this; but i have the habit of being a worried girlfriend. apart from me trying to break this habit i would appreciate advice on if maybe my worries are legitimate... in t... (336 words)

This girl at school spreads rumors about me and my friends. How do I stop her?

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24 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - There this annoying girl whos adopted and goes to my school. She makes up fake rumors about me and my friends. One day she came up to me asking if my parents are getting divorced (they're fighting a lot lately but they never mention a divorce.) I got mad, told her no, that she ... (82 words)

He cheated, caught an STD, but I don't know how to leave him...help!

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24 October 2008 (F)

age - Hello, I have been married for six years. At first like every relationship everything was ok. But now my husband always critisizing everything I wear or do I seem to get on his nerves. He recently caught an STD but I got tested and havent got it I was furious and wanted out of ... (156 words)

How do I help someone that can really only help herself ?

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i have a problem with a friend of mine. she is 22 and almost acts and dresses like a 13 year old girl. she has never had a relationship, but really wants one, but she can't talk to guys or even flirt. i've tried to match make her with some guys, but they just are not ... (94 words)

Secret Love

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24 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well um im in love with someone right now. But the thing is that we are going out secretly and they are still in a relationship. i dont know if i should stay or go i always say i dont wanna talk to them as long as they are together and they just beg for me to keep being with ... (77 words)