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writes:So for as long as I can remember I haven't ever really thought a guy was, "cute," "hot," or anything like that, but I have always thought girls are pretty. I went all through out high school without a boyfriend, and didn't think anything of it. Now that I am in college I find myself checking out guys and girls, something I have never done before. I am completely confused about my sexuality. Reply to this Question
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reader, Nanook +, writes (21 October 2008):
You are not obligated to label yourself. Just follow your heart. There's no reason you can't have both, many people do. That doesn't necessarily mean you have to hop from relationship to relationship either. Many people find happiness in non-traditional relationships. You might want to take a look at the Yahoo Group Polyfidelity2.
I agree with rcn, just be yourself, that's the space where you're most likely to find a compatible person or people, whatever their gender may be.
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reader, woman23 +, writes (21 October 2008):
 well I think that if you watch a movie with a sexy actor and you say to your self "How handsome this man is, I wish i would kiss him" then you are attracted to men. checking girls out doesnt mean you are gay, there are lots of women who check other women out and say " Wow she is beautifull" or " I would Kiss her", but it doesnt mean they are gay. If you like men and feel hot for them doesnt mean all men but at least one, then you are straight. but i agree with the other commentor, just try to be the best that you can be for your self and eventually you'll know.
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reader, rcn +, writes (21 October 2008):
 your young, and okay. your teens are a huge development stage going from puberty to adulthood. remember, you are who you are no matter what direction your sexuality takes you. be the best person you can be for yourself, and everything else will fall where it fits.
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reader, rcn +, writes (21 October 2008):
your young, and okay. your teens are a huge development stage going from puberty to adulthood. remember, you are who you are no matter what direction your sexuality takes you. be the best person you can be for yourself, and everything else will fall where it fits.
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