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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this guy for nearly five months and it has been the most rocky five months I've had in a very long time. The thing is I always forgave him for the things he did even though he constantly upsets me. I thought he was changing last week when he finally asked me out and like the eternal optimistic I am I said yes hoping he'd change.He became slightly more caring for a while but things changed the other night when we went to a gig together. He left me on my own and ran off on me and generally made me upset. I texted him and told him and he basically chastised me for giving out to him. I said sorry like the naive person I am and then texted him the next day. He barely texted back so I just decided to leave it. I was really sick of the way he was acting.I hadn't texted him in days and he didn't bother texting me and he just texted there asking how I was. I want to meet up to talk but when I suggested a place and time he just said 'well maybe I'll have a look...' after saying sure... I don't understand why he texted me if he didn't want to text because he didn't even reply again. I know I'm being stupid and should just end it because lord knows he's hurt me so much but I have a lot of feelings for him. Stupidly I do. I do want to end it but I can't find the strength and I just need advice. I don't want to start a huge argument that will leave me in tears.Also I want to know if anyone can give me a suggestion to why he texts me and then doesn't bother texting back and then when I suggest a date or to talk he hmms and haws about it... What should I do? Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Not even love is enough to keep you with this person. DUMP him and find sombody that will respect you.
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