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writes:HeyThis is just a quick question but it is one i have been wondering about for quite a while now.Is there anyway of telling when you are truly in love ?Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice you have given, its made understand it abit better now
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reader, anthonynj  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Feels like u r a cloud,weigtless,drifting freely....
Always happy,always smiling like a small child....
U discovers the meaning of ur life,to live and die 4 her!
From there,is no 'me',only 'us'
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): there are many kinds of love but true Love or what the Greeks called Agape the self sacrificial love is measured in the following terms
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
In short True Love is not simply an emotional or physical feeling although they are part of it Agape demands a series of conscious decisions and choices,
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Sweetie...
you need to feel it to believe it
it is the best + most scary thing ever
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reader, uberpinkii +, writes (21 October 2008):
 When your in love, youd dont need to ask people if you are :) best advice for you :)
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reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Hi Honey,
Yea, true love...it will be someone whom you will feel like sacrificing the whole world just for his happiness kinda feeling.
You won't even tolerate the thought of someone else replacing him.
You will enjoy taking care of him, and even giving up petty things just to see his face beam with happiness.
You will want to remain loyal until eternity.
But you see honey, true love doesn't happen in 1 day, just like Rome wasn't built in a day.
It take years and years, 10,000 hardships, 200 temptations to overcome, and after all this, when you STILL feel the same feelings like you felt when you first fell in love with him, you are truly in LOVE...or you love him TRULY...
Take care okay?
~ PsychicDove
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reader, Bobbyjo +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Hmmm....for me the only way I knew I was truly in love was when he finished with me. It killed me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): I would think that it would be different for all people, so it is something to figure out for yourself.
My method is simple: if I have even the smallest doubt about being in love with someone, then I am not.
Again, this may not work for everyone.
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