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writes: I really need help! I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month, and I thought it was going really well. He always texts me, telling me that he loves me, and when he texts me he says the sweetest things. But then I suddenly realized last week, he NEVER talks to me! Ever! By text, he is like this completely different person, but on the phone or face to face, he just gets all embarrassed and doesn't talk to me. I have discussed this with him and he keeps saying he will talk to me at school and stuff, but he never does. Surely this isn't what a relationship is meant to be like! Should I dump him? Or should I wait to see if things get better? HELP!
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 He's inexperienced, yall are both young. Yes he's embarrassed. The boy don't know what the hell to say. Stop worrying about it. He doensn't know, just like you don't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): It sounds like he is simply shy. I know many people who can't bear using the telephone. Some people express themselves better in writing because they find saying things really difficult.
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reader, encryptionKING  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 ok....
how can you be in love with him an dating him if you never speak??? O.o
surely if you dont ever speak to him it means something
also maybe he just does not know what to say...
start a topic with him, eg.school work or whatever really,
might help
cheers
king
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Give the guy some time. He is probably a little shy and uncomfortable.
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