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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I forget about the past so I wont ruin my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i need advice. i was in a relationship a year and a half ago where we broke up. he tried still being my friend but he kept lying to me. now we recently got back together because he begged me for another chance.. but he finally admittied to me everything he has done and all ... (204 words)

I know to some people, virginity is a really precious thing, But why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what is the big deal about sex? i know someones virginity is a really precious thing, but why? i mean.. whats so big about sex? why's it illegal under 16? i dont get it?! i lost my virginity 2 years ago, i was 14 and to be honest i dont regret it, i wasnt going out with the guy ... (104 words)

He tells me I am chubby! Do you know how I can deal with my weight issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I need some help here dealing with a couple of things or an extra point of view. CONTEXT I used to have a very nice body (waist 24in/62cm)but a couple of years ago I decided to quit my job and start a business with my partner. So now I 'm working all day sitting in front... (645 words)

We're friends but we are getting closer. But he has a gf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so lets start from the top I've been friends with this guy for about a year now and we've become realllly close!! He's one of my bestest friends and i tell him everything and i like to think the same applies the other way around. Anyway when we're together we flirt ... (158 words)

My room mate has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My room mate has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Everyday I have to deal with his inflated ego. I have to deal with peoples complaints about him daily. We've already argued twice. This is added stress affecting my schoolwork. How can I deal with this situation?... (49 words)

I like my friend's girlfriend way too much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Well I'm in Love with my best friend's girlfriend - wrong yes. I've known my friend since we was about 9 and we both met his girlfriend and her friend on the internet about 4 years ago. I started going out with her friend (the worst mistake of my life). I started... (473 words)

Just being "his friend" is killing me as I realise I like him MORE than just a friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I've known my friend since the 7th grade,but we didn't really start talking and hanging out a lot until this year(8th).We have every class together except for one. We walk to and from all our classes together everyday.We hang out during lunch and it's so much fun with him. He ... (223 words)

I'm devastated... the love of my life confessed to me that he is really a woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just everlasting. Somewhere along the ... (194 words)

I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. This is going to make me sound... (813 words)

How do I get closer to him and kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started a new school because I got bullied and since I've moved it's been great, a fresh start and I met this guy who I'm with right now and he is so sweet and cares for me and we have hugged and had a peck on lips but that's it The problem is he wants to kiss me prope... (139 words)

Did he like her or just want someone around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like advice on a guy since I'm confused by his actions. The guy in question was with 3 girls at one time throughout the year, and recently decided to get into a new relationship at the end of the summer. They hung out a bit, he met her parents and then she went ba... (183 words)

How do I tell him subtly that Iwant to have sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a female, and i want to send out signals to this guy ive been seeein that i wanna have sex with him without actually saying 'hey lets have sex!' maybe i could touch him a certain way or say something in a text message, i dont know! this question would be intended for the ... (97 words)

Why is the media plagued with breast implants, when most men like natural big breasts better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Something puzzles me... about the media and stuff. Big breasts are almost everywhere, as far as media is concerned. Ok. But the majority of thos big breasts are FAKE. Why? Most men I know prefer natural breasts. Whether they like small or big breasts, they like them natu... (267 words)

His mixed signals confuse me! Am I imagining that he's reconsidering his choice to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, My ex of 1.5 years and I broke up nearly two months ago. We had a very good, loving relationship, but a problem loomed as we are both approaching transitions in our careers that might take us to different places (we work for the same, very large company, in different are... (968 words)

What is the age limit to be able to legally date a 15 year old? No sex involved.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There a girl who 14 who going to be 15 in 4 months what is the highest age a guy should be, to be able to go out with her of course nothing sexual, just maybe a kiss on the lips and hugs... (49 words)

Moisturer to apply on the vulva / anus to prevent dryness? Any advice about my breast problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi.This is an embarrasing question,but i was wondering which moisturizer is best to put on the vagina,if any at all,and can you put moisturiser on the anus ?.The reason i ask is i sometimes get dry skin there. I have another problem aswell which i'm concerned about.One of m... (98 words)

I love her and her baby but I'm not sure where I stand with her and if I'm only being insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, where to begin. So I've been in a relationship for six months now with a wonderful woman. We're both young, in our twenties but here is the catch.. she has a baby. Now, the child isn't mine biologically, but I'm terribly in love with both her and her kid. I sat through ... (398 words)

How do I fix this, I'm falling in love with my hubby's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I fix this, I'm married with 3 children, been with my partner 16 years. I have falling in love with his bestfriend, who has the same feelings, to confuse things I still love my husband, the other man is married as well and loves his wife, shes such a nice woman. I dont... (93 words)

Does true love exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Does true love exist? I am in my late 30s and can honestly say that in all my life I have only ever been asked out once by a man I truly wanted to be with (but since have split up with him). All the other occasions I have been asked by men I have not been interested in! ... (84 words)

If they're keen and kind I don't want to know them, whereas if they treat me unwell I can't stay away! What am I doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im 41, single female, never married, no kids! So, "whats wrong with you?" I hear you ask, well - lots of people do ask me that! I seem to have an issue with guys in that if they are keen and kind and a bit full on, then I dont want to know, however, if they are a bit o... (109 words)

Missing him and no contact address!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Missing him and no contact address!! I'm in love with a guy (who had a partner unfortunately) who I gave my number to and arranged to meet up with! - On the day we were due to meet we missed each other by 5 minutes but he didn't ring to explain! I'm so upset because we r... (126 words)

We went on a few dates but I'm too shy to kiss her, any tips on making a progress?

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i need advice because im pretty rubbish at the whole dating and becoming more then just friends. iv never been in a serious relationship, never had a g/f, never kissed a girl like i mean it. for instance on a date, iv never had the courage to go in for a kiss, probably fear of ... (175 words)

Is baby oil okay to use for a hand job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is baby oil an okay lube for a handjob?... (9 words)

Does my ex hate me or does he love me? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Does my ex still loves me ? that is my question and my problem right. We were in a relationship for 2 years on and off. We have been through a lot. Depression, we've even been to the police but after that we forgave each other. the police scene even happend at the time when... (842 words)

My boyfriend's not good at expressing his feelings, works a lot, has a female friend that I'm jealous of, I'm so stressed in this relationship, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I need an advice here, my boyfriend is really wonderfull, he treats me like a princess all the time, my problem with him is that he is very affectionate physically talking, he hugges me, he kisses me all the time, and he is always complimenting how I looks ( I have always ... (386 words)

I am curious about the threesome that she suggested years ago, when I didn't want it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - About 5 years ago my girlfriend at the time(she is my wife now) wanted to have a threesome with another girl, I declined at the time for whatever reason. I am now curious about it and I brought it to her attention and she said she doesnt want to, any advice?... (51 words)

I fancy a guy at work but love my boyfriend, is this a sign I'm not happy with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5years and he is 6 years older than me so he wants the whole settling down thing im still only young and want to enjoy myself. I really fancy this guy at work i flirt with him all the time. i would never do anything but i dont kno... (93 words)

My ex and flatmate is currently unemployed, I feel I can't move forward because I have to look after him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I came out as gay few months ago.However I still share a place with with my ex bf.We have been together a long time, even if for the last year or two it our relationship was more like a couple of pals then a bf and gf. We generally have agreed to move separate ways, but only... (477 words)

I miss my ex who was abusive to me, we want to take it slow, how do I make sure I do not get hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So my ex and i are currently talking again-i am on a break with my current boyfriend because i can't get over my ex. anyway, i broke up with my ex because he was emotionally abusive and disrespectful-pressuring me to smoke and drink and sleep with him even though i slept with ... (213 words)

I'm obsessed with a widow..but I'm married! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age - My,wife is 50s, 3years younger to me, my son is settled in life, good family. Since 11 years ago, I have been obsessed with a cute widow with grown up 3 kids. Legally she is eligible for marriage. I asked her why dont you get married but she says, is it possible, and it seems ... (119 words)

My boyfriend shows my nude pictures to his friends, isn't this wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy friend used to be addicted to porn but now he doesnt havethe internet and is forever taking pictures of my bits. I wouldnt be to bothered but he shows his friends at i'm still young and i feel very uncomfortable but he says if i love him then i will do it and hes not ... (74 words)

My classmate pressurises me for sex and I'm starting to feel scared to say no!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this boy in my class and he says i have to have sex withhim, but i dont feel ready. Its horrible though because he says stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable and he's started putting his hands down my shirt and once down my skirt i told him i'm not interested. but i'm ... (63 words)

Is my husband playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and i have been together for almost 7 years but married for almost 5 years and he left me for the second time in augest and he is another state and has a girlfriend but keeps calling me and says he is will to work things out but dont think it will work and still has ... (186 words)

I have as great husband who trusted me with my coworker and "friend" - however we ended up having an affair which ended but we're tempted to restart it!...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First I'll tell you about my husband - he is a wonderful husband and father. He goes above and beyond to ensure that our family is properly taken care of. He is trusting. He is not controlling, abusive or demanding. He absolutely loves me and adores our two children. It ... (711 words)

Does this mean I still love my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Anyone been married for a while? I have for 14 yrs, i asked my husband for a divorce but i cant' do it. I have dated guys since then, its been2 yrs separated and i cant fill the papers out of for the divorce, anyone been in this situation????? Does it mean i still love my ... (59 words)

How do I help my daughter without interfering?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter has been going out with the same guy for over 5 years. They have spent nearly every night together at college and have always been best friend. They have been under a lot of stress lately and last weekend they got into a fight and he yelled at her that he wanted a ... (361 words)

Breaking up after 6 years with no real reason? How can she suddenly say it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have recently split up with my girlfriend after 6 years together. Everything was going fine, and we even went away on holiday together a month before the split, but suddenly she said to me, she doesn’t love me the way she has before and wants to be apart fr... (206 words)

Is it worth staying in this relationship?? So many problems when we've only been dating for 5 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a younger man, 10 yrs younger. He recently moved to my city with his 2 kids which he has custody of. My kids are teenagers, his are 3 and 4. Several problems here:He is without work and has asked me to buy him lunch or take him to the movies but yet this weekend ... (197 words)

My young girlfriend has lost her sense of reality, accepting the advanced of a septuagenarian!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my beautiful girlfriend was hit on by her 75 year old basketball coach in Germany. She is 23 and has been on an exchange now for several months and though I have updated my original question a couple of times (http://www.dear... (256 words)

What should I tell him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have problem expressing my feelings. my boyfriend keeps asking me questions like "how do i make you feel" and "What do i do to you." What should i tell him.... (31 words)

Would emailing him get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i broke up a month ago today. since that we have started different uni's. i was devastated. but he said we were arguing about things too much. we were but i told him i loved him no matter what. i meant it. we always made up after, and even when we argued i never ... (406 words)

The hurt increases everyday. I can't stop thinking about him. Should I email him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of seven years was deployed at least 3 times to the war in the last 4 years. He is divorced and has two grown up kids, I was never married and I don't have any kids. We live in two different countries, we kept in touch all the time through emails and we used to ... (313 words)

Is this fate...are we just meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone :) i am really in love with one of friends (and have know for just over 3 years)...i like him from the day we met and initially i felt he felt the same way about me! anyways, we didnt really go out and ending up becoming really good friends...but now i have falle... (511 words)

This married guy at work likes me and I'm scared as he's my senior, in my office! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. im helpless and dont know what to do. well i started work in a bank recently and there's this guy in my office, he says he loves me.h e's so nice to me and everything. But theres a big problem!he's married!! i'm single. this is the 1st time iv ever faced a ... (125 words)

I like this girl at college. What would be a polite, non-awkward way to approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) age 30-35 - This is not really a romantic question, but it is bothering me. I have recently started college, and have been having a hard time adjusting socially. I am shy and have trouble speaking to people, especially for the first time. Recently I have noticed a girl rather frequentl... (138 words)

How do you go again after cumming once with no help from the girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I just had sex for the first time, we both lost it to eachother and after the first time I cum'd which was really quick as in a couple of minutes, I tried to get hard again but she didn't want to give me a blow job or anything so I had to get hard again and I ... (87 words)

I know most people don't think smoking is a big deal but it is to me and on top of that, she has lied to me and is hiding it from me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - It's coming up to the anniversary of being together with my girlfriend who I really really love to death, we're both really happy with each other and are really looking forward to many more years together. Before we were going out on nights in pubs and clubs she would occass... (315 words)

I really like him and I heard he really likes me but what I did is putting him off.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I got out of a relationship with a boy about 2 months ago. I fell out of love with him and tried to get him to dump me by, well basically being a twat of a girlfriend, i told a friend he had said something about him an they had a big must up an he ended up finishing with me, at ... (109 words)

Am I just someone she likes to have hanging around or does she really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 23 and currently dating a girl (20) I met at a camp 3 years ago. We did not meet since then and we only started dating about 9 months back. However I had feelings for her back then and when we got together she told me that she did too. For a month or so we ch... (610 words)

How can I last longer? Her comments hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - can you help me while haveing sex my orgasm come real quick as man it hurts when my woman says i am failing. ... (23 words)

Do you think he thought I was ignoring him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

- Me and someone like each other and I'm scared he won't believe me. Last night we was both on MSN and he just went offline without saying bye and i text him telling him i was going to bed. so i went to sleep. then in the morning i woke up. (found my laptop was off, because the ... (197 words)

I clearly love my best mate and she just turned on me so suddenly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5892 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a problem. Well last night me and loads of others went to a party, you know the usual and we had a fair bit to drink before and my best friend especialy who is not used to it was pretty far gone by the time we got there whereas the rest of us were just tipsy. Anyway ... (640 words)

We had oral sex a few times, suddenly he wants to cook for me! Is he trying to charm his way into my bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy met a couple months ago at my friend's house and we hooked up. We met that one time and then recently, about a month ago we met again at that same friend's house. Well what do you know, we hooked up (as in, had oral sex) again. We ended up cuddling up afterwards ... (288 words)

The girl my brother wanted to date told him she will only talk to him when he has a car and a cellphone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid i am very much happy to be a member simply because i hope i will find it interesting and enjoyable. I am having a question for you:I am having a 18 years old brother and he is a grade 12 learner.He is in love with a grade 11 girl.When he proposed to her sh... (147 words)

I hate that I love him because he is nasty to me and won't let me follow my dreams! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because hes so nasty to me. But i love him so much when we met i was a mess and he stopped me from doing anything stupid. But now its changed he acts like a real prick and expects me to run after him like a slave if i dont list... (160 words)

Is it weird that I still think about my old high school teacher?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok to put it as simple as I can. I graduated high school May of 2007. My junior year I had this teacher all year long for both 4th and 6th period. He was my favorite teacher. He was young, straight out of college, and really good looking. I mean how many teachers do you know of ... (849 words)

Should I break up over long distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My Question is: Should I break up with someone because of long distance? I've been seeing a guy for nearly a year now, but we're long distance. At first it wasn't so bad because we were between cities, but now it's across continents. I had always sworn against long dis... (378 words)

Lets say orgasm on your own then you bleed, is there any chances that you can't give birth or are you considered as not virgin anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to ask if you have been doing something... lets say orgasm on your own then you bleed, is there any chances that you can't give birth or are you considered as not virgin anymore... cause' i'm enjoying rubbing my clitoris and inserting a bottle on my vagina and im... (110 words)

Although she treated me badly, I miss being with her! How do you get over someone that was bad news for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have just come out a relationship with someone i always knew was capable of being quite vindictive and nasty towards me. When we broke up my fears came true and she treated me terribly. Now the dust has settled and I have had time to see exactly what she did and what she... (144 words)

He has been showing more and more violence and anger issues for the past 3 months.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid(s), Ok I posted not long ago about the same situation.. but it has escalated out of control.. So,the deal is, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. And as we progress in our relationship, so do all of our issues. For the past week or 2,he has been h... (194 words)

2 weeks into university and I haven't have sex yet. I know lots of people who have, and I worry that I'm missing out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've just started my first year of university. Twice in the past two weeks now I have been to the same club. On both occasions I have ended up dancing with, and eventually making out with a girl. However, nothing has ever gone further than that. The first one asked if I w... (389 words)

My boyfriend wakes up at 4 AM to look at videos on youtube!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My b/f is always looking at videos on youtube. Most of the time he's watching how some guy does hot guitar licks. Sometimes he researches peddle effects and other equipment. But his youtube habit is becoming more and more frequent, sometimes he even gets up as early as 4:00 ... (264 words)

My girlfriend's been acting weird since last month, did I handle this the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Since last month, my girlfriend been acting weird. She no longer has things to talk to me. When we agreed to talk online, she didn't show up and the next day, she didn't tell me what happened. After some days, she text me, saying she been waiting and ask me to go online. I ... (304 words)

I have a boyfriend but I am attracted to my married friend, I want to forget about him but I also want to kiss him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

11 October 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Please any advice would help me right now!! I am 21 and have been living with Boyfriend for the last few months, but i have met someone who i like more than what i should. I have always said it doesn't matter how happy you are with your partner your feelings do not j... (291 words)

Me and my husband together for ten years and for two years now there has been no physical relationship.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i have been together 10 years, he is 9 years my senior. For the last two years we have not had a physical relationship. My husband doesnt want to come near me. I have tried making more of an effort about my appearence, I have tried talking to him. Nothing seems ... (64 words)

If she becomes jealous then does this mean that she finally wants a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there! Off-limits man pursues off-limits woman. Woman flirts with man. Man asks out woman. Woman rejects man. Woman then flirts with other guys and totally ignores man. Man pursues further. Woman (ego now suitably pumped) then flirts even more with other guys and ... (245 words)

Married for 7 months and husband is spitting, slapping and verbally abusing me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well, long story short, i have been married now for 7 months, really a civil marriage because in my husband's theory i needed a marriege license to live aboard with him, anyways, we met in 2005 on the internet, he was the perfect man, we talk online for 2 months, and then met ... (430 words)

Relationship dilemma - I don't want to spoil her life with my scare

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years . earlier it was just friendship and we met online thru a chat site. we have met around 5 times after that face to face and we talk daily. in the past one year our relationship changed the lvel from just friend s to love... (223 words)

We have great sex but there is a promlem - he gets turned off by saliva.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and we love each other very much. We have great sex but there is a promlem - he gets turned off by saliva. For some reason I produce a lot of it especially when kissing and sucking his cock which I love cos it's a ... (94 words)

I get no affection from my husband any more...

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at a loss, my husband and I have been together for 4 years and married for 16 months lately no matter what i do i dont get any affection anymore i have spoken to him about it on many occasions he blames it on the fact that his family wasnt very close and affectionate blah ... (296 words)

I've been dating a very busy, self centred guy, how to take it to the next level?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all I have been dating for the last 6 months a man, 56 year old (I am 32 years), never been married, who works in the finance sector, which means non stop travelling and intense work pressure He's an old school guy, not very demonstrative, very private, but... (849 words)

He told me we were never in a relationship yet he'd bring around his friends and say I was his girlfriend.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a guy who 8 years older than me, but that wasn't the problem. We dated off/on for three years. I never open my heart to anyone but I did to him I became comfortable with him. He had two children with two different women. So one day the mother of one his ... (169 words)

22 years old and sleeping with my boss... I'm falling for him! How do I tell him?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 22 single woman and im sleeping with my 24 years old single boss, im starting to fall in love with him but im not sure is felling the same way, how to ask him without scaring him?... (39 words)

My guy friend and I are really close and in the past couple weeks I've been developing feelings for him.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend and I are really close and in the past couple weeks I've been developing feelings for him. A week ago we were talking and he started asking questions that he's never asked before. For example, "what do you look for in a guy, what traits must he have?" Then he ... (90 words)

Married but in love with another man...help

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes.... I'm 42 and I got married 4 years ago, to Bill, for all the wrong reasons. I had been single for about 5 years and trying to take care of two teenage girls on my own. I really convinced myself that even though there wasn't alot of sexual chemistry with Bill tha... (429 words)

Is a 15 year old and a 24 year old a bad age gap for a relationship?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ... I was wondering: is 15 (girl) and 24 (male) an innapropriate age gap in a relationship??? xx... (19 words)

I hate my inlaws!! Is it okay to dish out some of what they have given me?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate my inlaws, my husband never stands up for me and we always get into arguments about them, is it ok to hate them back and dish out some of what they have givin me?... (36 words)

I am so frustrated with my daughter's dad.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so frustrated with my daughter's dad. He's given up his rights in which he regrets doing and now wants it back. He said he'll help with our daughter. When I said I needed help with our daughters daycare bill, I told him how much, he said, I'm sorry. That's my rent and ... (319 words)

Five years together and sixteen years between us... Does he still want me?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have a partner (we're supposed to be engaged) we have been together for over 5yrs. Its a 16yr gap between us but he is one of them big-headed ppl. He also loves being center attention and has alot of confidence. I have non at all,very shy and quiet. The opposite to ... (72 words)

I can't get over my ex. Please help me.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I get over my ex boyfriend? I am misrable and I can't get over him because I love him so much. I feel like I am stuck in this box and I can't get out of it. All I do is cry cry cry.... (49 words)

Question about porn and live webcams

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is my first time posting. But this has been on my mind as of late. Is Porn on the web any different than live webcam shows?? I just found out my BF looks at live webcam shows on the net. The porn doesn't really bother me much, I look at porn myself occasionally but the ... (98 words)

She's accepted a teaching job in the country and is leaving in three weeks.

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you deal with this? I've been seeing someone for nine months, we've been getting on very well and she's enjoyed my company. She's finishing a teaching degree and I haven't seen a lot of her in the past 1-2 months, but it is an important time for her studies so I've ... (318 words)

Dating for five years and he's always putting me down.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for five years and he tells me he has strong feelings for me everyday but how could I take him servious when he always downing me and always have something negative to say to me, what am I suppose to do?... (47 words)

Does he care or does he just want someone there?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just trying to understand this guy. This guy, who was with 3 girls at one time, decided to get into a new relationship at the end of the summer. They went on a couple dates, he met her parents and then she went back to school in September in another province and he ... (160 words)

I had such a traumatic time with my ex and now it's affecting my marriage.

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello; my dilemma is while I love my wife and KNOW she is everything I've ever wanted, every action I take is "tagged" with my ex. My ex and I broke up badly after 3 years, we were supposed to get married, as I had proposed. She had had several abortions, becam violent to the p... (136 words)

I'm falling for my best friend's brother.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and I've been friends with my best friend for the past 4 years. I'm close to her and her entire family, they always call me their second daughter and i go on trips with them. I love being at their house and hanging out with the family. My best friend has a ... (186 words)

We each feel rejected by the other so neither of us want to make the first move verbally. Should I say something?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age - I was the victim of a "player". That's how it started out. Then he got another girlfriend, and I was hurt. Instead of allowing myself to continue the hurt, I decided to play him back and did back to him all the rotten things he did to me. Like, I flirted with other guys, ... (235 words)

I love him very much, but I don't know what he is thinking.

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a boyfriend("A") for the last 7 months until a week ago. He told me he wanted to remain friends while he still had feelings for me, he said that love was a strong word, and that he wasn't sure about what he wanted. Anyways, a few days ago our friend ("B") sent him a ... (657 words)

I don't get it, why is he ignoring me?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im hurt by his non-responsive attitude and would like opinions. Im a little confused about why this one guy wont text me back. We are friends, id say we're even close. We have had a history together and we constantly talk. However, he wont return my texts in the last few wee... (115 words)

I have bad teeth and it decreases my confidence level. Advice?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone well i got a problem i have bad teeth and it decreases my confidence level a lot!I dont think im pretty because of them and i have cavities (cuz of those addictive chocolates!!)I wanted to get braces then fill the cavities but I'm not sure if that's possible... (86 words)

By the time I realized what was happening, I had fallen in love! Will she leave him?

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Please someone help me, I don’t know what to do. I was married for 14 years with 2 beautiful girls and I had everything. I thought I had it all.... I worked with this woman who was a really good person and we just clicked, we had so much in common. She also is married with ... (577 words)

A series of drunken nights: is it always the drink?

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is sort of just your typical does she like me question but I have no idea if I'm completely misinterpreting the situation. I live in a large shared flat with this girl who I've come to have a massive thing for. We came from a similar area and we get on really really we... (342 words)

Can I get him to open up more?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi this is a little bit complicated but here it goes, I have a boyfriend which is very wonderfull with me, he does everything to make me happy, we have strong feelings for each other, but the thing with him is that he is very introverted, so for me it is dificult to know what ... (224 words)

Does it matter if we don't talk every day?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and have been dating a guy who is 24 for the past 2 months. Everything has been going really well and he said he really likes me. The thing is we don't talk everyday, should that matter? we probably speak 5-6 days out of 7 and we hang out 1-2 times a week. we've only ... (94 words)

How can I join in on their conversations?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know what is it, but ive just attended college and im having a great time, ive made a few friends and enjoy going on nights out with them, however, i feel i cant really talk to them for long and i feel we dont have much in common, its different when your out and having a ... (178 words)

How much do looks matter to guys?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do they care a lot about how you look? I know they matter at least some, but what if you have a lot of acne? Would not looking super-pretty or having acne (even if you were otherwise pretty) prevent guys from approaching you or asking you out?... (49 words)

I'm pregnant and he's with another girl!

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so im pregnant.. and me and the guy decided to take some time apart... i dont know if that was such a good idea.. i still love him.. but the break up didn't seem to bother him any... he's already moved on.. and it hasn't even been a day.. it hurts me when i see him with ... (84 words)

My soul mate is pregnant! What now?

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - first of all hello there my name is Niko im 17 years old and so is my girlfriend, we have been dating for more than 8 months... i know that she is my soulmate... i knwo that i will marry her.. im sure u will say u cant find a sopulmata at 17 years old.. but in my case its an ... (252 words)

Why does he stare and then ignore me?

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11 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and I noticed my classmate keep staring at me everytime. I'm not sure what's going on. He ignores me almost everytime i say something, i heard he thinks i'm stupid, i got a feeling he doesn't feel good when i'm close to him, he can be very arrogant and ... (219 words)

I treated her the best I could so why do I feel so rotten?

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What im trying really to understand is why i feel so rotten at the moment, why i cant go on with my life or anything. i dated this girl for over 7 months and she really ment the world to me. gave all the love a girl could ever want.brought her Jewelry like ear rings, chains, ... (848 words)

Is it illegal to have these pictures?

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11 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 and have had a serious girlfriend for 2 years who i really love. during the summer she went to europe and we never saw eachother so every once in a while she would send me nude pictures of her. i am not asking this question because of morals or if you believe this ... (79 words)

He won't take his boxers off!

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11 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down he would jerk away. When I ask him why. He said. Bf: My `thingy`` is too small. me: oh it cant that small Bf: yeah it is nutmeg (thats my nickname) me: Dude you to need ... (117 words)