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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Real simple. I have just asked this girl out to have coffee with me. When I approached her she met eyes with me and smiled widely. I engaged her in conversation and after a short stroll and more eye contact and smiling I asked her to have coffee with me. As soon as I asked she said "Sure, what is your number?" with a smile and then immediately said "I have wednesday off" and I said "Well I don't know my life is pretty crazy" she said she would call. I gave her my number and then asked for hers and she said "oh yea of course." and promptly gave her digits. The whole time she had her body turned toward me and seemed to move closer as we chatted. My questions are should I have made a definite plan for coffee with her or does it seem reasonable to call her wednesday and take it from there? Does it matter? Also, when we go to have coffee do I pay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Yes phone her if you want to get to know her better. If you invite her for coffee the least you should do is offer to pay for it.
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