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30-35,
*naldia
writes:hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at times because they were fellas and i was a girl.i thought to myself should i have hang with females? i felt like a bad woman even though i didn't have sex with any of them. i was told that when a woman hangs with two or three men by herself at once it changes the way those specific men think about her. does it really? or should i continue to hang aroung them so i can learn more about them? what do you think i should do, or how should i feel about myself about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Analdia +, writes (23 October 2008):
Analdia is verified as being by the original poster of the question okay...thanks for your opinions
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female
reader, Analdia +, writes (23 October 2008):
Analdia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay but it was just that one time i had hung out with them.i won't do it anymore.but since i'm not or ever won't again will they still see me the same way even if they saw me with my female friends?or would they still think of me as the girl who hung out with us guys?
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reader, Analdia +, writes (23 October 2008):
Analdia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaw it wasn't at at a club hanging out it was at home
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 Well I would be interested to see what people say about this because I get on better with guys and am usually the only girl in the pub most the night on saturdays hanging out with guys. If you know you're not sleeping with them, then dont worry about it. I dont really care what people say, ive been accused of sleeping with one of the guys in particular because he knocks at mie on his way to the pub near my house, and we walk in there together. But we are only mates. And I dont think he's ever been in my house, only to the door.
Men can b bigger gossips than girls at times! lol
C xxxxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 October 2008):
Hanging out with anyone does not make you bad!
If they are just your mates and you get on with them then that's great. Lots of women have male friends.
The best situation is to have both male and female friends and then you can have all the advantages.
Good Luck!! xx
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