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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What to do when your perfect guy is with someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when your perfect guy is with someone else? It's really getting me down. ... (24 words)

I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have been having these suspicions for quite a while now, and recently took action to see if anything was going on. The other night as we were asleep in bed I secretly placed a very small and very fine ... (115 words)

She's 17, I'm 21 and we're dating. How do I tell her parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay.. so heres the deal... I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. We have a 4 year age difference and its never bothered us that much. Today however we both realized that at some point her parents need to find out (I'm the older one.) She's currently 17 and I'm ... (184 words)

I just lost my nana, but haven't cried as I feel as if she's still alive. What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I previously asked for help in dealing with the news of my nana having cancer, through which I helped nurse her. She died yesterday and now I need to ask something and see if anyone can help. I cried when I was told and when I went in to see her. Now I am worried to be alone in ... (110 words)

Whenever he goes "in", I feel this burning sensation like I have to pee.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy I have been hot and bothered about for a while! The sex is astronomical because my feelings for him are rock hard. But there is something that is bothering me. Whenever he goes in, I feel this burning sensation like I have to pee. Now, I am a clean ... (101 words)

What does it mean if someone says "you're not beneficial" to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 my ex is 17. What does it mean when someone says 'you are not beneficial to me?' while dating (unofficially). My ex said that and I think he meant i'm not going to go 'things' with him and so he doesn't think i'm going to benefit him? ... (53 words)

I really love this girl, but I have had this gut feeling that she has or is cheating on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Please read this if you have the time I'm torturing myself over this, THanks I'm 16, she is 16. We have been going out for almost 7 months, and its been pretty tough. She suffered from depression and anxiety in the early stages of our relationship, but we got through it. afte... (762 words)

I'm confused, what would you do if you were in my position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm doing my A-levels at the moment and I have 7 months to finish them, but I'm also engaged to the most amazing person in the whole world, I love him to bits and he loves me too but recently he had to move another country for personal reasons and has to wait for 6 months for ... (232 words)

I wish he wasn't her ex husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Please help me! I met such a wonderful guy and the problem is come to find out he is the ex husband of a former co-worker that i had from 14 years ago, I had"nt seen the co worker in years because i moved out of our small town for seven years and when icame back a ... (166 words)

She doesn't feel welcome with my friends and gets funny when I spend time with them instead of her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello :) Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year now. She's completely in love with me and i used to be so in love with her but everything's changed. Last year we had the same friends and she lived close to me so i could go out with friends and have a good... (220 words)

Ex fiancee has just come back into my life and I still love her so much...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Pull up a chair, grab a drink, and perhaps something to eat... this is gonna be a long one... I was dating a girl whom i believe to be the love of my life but also my soul mate (and at the time best friend). After a couple years, I proposed, she said yes and the engagement w... (765 words)

I love my former teacher, and we are both female!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I was 13 I have had a massive crush on one of my teachers. I'm now soon to be 19, (Ten days today) I left the school when I was 14, I moved schools because I couldn't bare to be near her and not with her. It's really getting to me, I have had girlfriends and... (176 words)

My girlfriend always seems to make a mountain out of a molehill. Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend makes a big issue out of the slightest thing! I think? It's like the rhyme, There once was girl, who had a little curl, right in the middle of her forehead, When she was good, she was very very good, But when she was bad she was horrid. Sometimes I’ll arriv... (437 words)

If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?... (19 words)

I am very inexperienced and have no confidence with guys, I kinda feel as if I'm cursed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) I am 15 and very inexperienced and have no confidence with guys. I've never even got off/made out with anyone. All my friends have. Guys say I'm really pretty but no one has ever really liked me. This as you can imagine is pretty depressing :S I just feel like I'm... (68 words)

I don't want to ask him if he likes me as I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really like and I don't know how to tell if he likes me. He is always trying to hang with me every chance he gets and stares at me a lot (he tries to hold eye contact with me). He playfully pokes me and touches me when talking. It seems like he likes me ... (115 words)

I am a Virgo male and I'm in love with an Aries female. Are we compatible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi , I am a boy who believes in zodiac signs. I am born under Virgo in 1989. I love someone, she likes me too. She is Aries born in 1994. How is our internal compatibility on signs. Will we be happy or not? Please help. Thanks... (49 words)

I'm married with kids but should I be with the ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am Married to my husband and have 2 daughters but now i have been talking to my Ex boyfriend. i dont know who i really want to be with i love them both?... (35 words)

He broke up with me but says its because of him! Does he want to go back out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi x there this boy who i really like and i know that he likes me because we just broke up and he said that its all his fault and that he still likes me and that the reason why he broke up with me was because he was a total fuck up and that and i told him that he wasnt and befo... (99 words)

I like her, but how do I know if she likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 16 year old guy and ive just started college, theres this girl in my form that ive rly liked ever since i started there. ive recently started to hang out with her but i can tell if she likes me the way i like her, any ideas about wat signs to look for?... (55 words)

Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?... (17 words)

Is this pathetic? Should I give him a little more time? (Very long post...)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 9 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a relationship or when to let thin... (1609 words)

I'm worried that I'm forcing him into marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He says he wants us to be together forever, but he is an anti-establishment type and he doesn't care about having a marriage. He feels that we are in love and we will be together forever and we don't need the ... (314 words)

Can someone help me decide if he likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just wondering if someone can help me decide if this guy likes me or not. Okay we've been friends for 11 years. We were friends with benefits for awhile, then stopped. Well for the last six years we haven't been anything but just friends. But lately we've started talking ... (144 words)

Why is my mother so negative and constantly creating arguments with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and my mother is constantly creating arguments and acusing me of things i havent done. she looks at me in a wierd way like a face of disgust and i cnt take it anymore. i cant talk to her and i generally dont get on with her anymore. Its making me feel really tired and im ... (92 words)

Please help save my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi pleasse help me to save my relationship me and my fiancee are in relation since 5 years. we are in to physical relation since 4 yrs. we did oral sex a lot many times like on daily basis at times and even he tried inter course but some how i could allow him as it pained.... (132 words)

Did he come and what to do if he does???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and I were making out (we havent had sex) in his car and it left me a little confused. First of all i was on top of him with my legs wrapped around. We were kissing, stroking and I was rubbing my groin against his. I have a few questions and I am fairly in... (179 words)

I still love my ex and don't know what to do with my current boyfriend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey please cud i get some advice please !! Well, The thing is i am in love with my ex boyfriend, but he dosnt know this, he says he still loves me, but when he asks for me back i say no. The reason i say no is because i have a new bf, but i feel like a nasty horrible person s... (583 words)

I hate that this stupid 5 minutes years ago has had such a huge horrific impact on my life!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had real problems with self-esteem and subsequently booze for quite a few years. I have forced myself on a downward spiral and i seem to dwell on my problems more and more. It all began when i was 20 and booze enabled me to be 'popular' (at the time i didn't realise i was ... (455 words)

My mum doesn't like my partner, so what am I going to do at Christmas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - well, i've a problem with my partner and my mother- my mother doesn't like him. and now with christmas coming up, i'm beginning to realise what a mess i'm in with it all. my partner and i split up after 2 1/2 years together. it was a nasty breakup; no cheating no abus... (658 words)

I have no idea how to approach him as my separation has left my self-confidence at an all time low....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age - Please help me Ive met a Guy and ive fallen for him big style .I cannot get him out of my head i sleep thinking of him and wake thinking of him .Im currently seperated from my husband after 23 years of marriage .This guy looks at me a lot ,Is very polite ,and i really believe ... (98 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend and best friend!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am currently in a relationship with my loving partner whos loves and adores me and my daughter i love him so much i have jus started university and know what i want out of life my partner isnt working as yet but is looking for a job. The problem is i have a best friend (male) ... (136 words)

I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing. I know I should not have done but I read the last few pages that she had wrote on and I am worried she is going to do something stupid. The last entry says that her and this boy from school (she... (144 words)

Should I give up my studies to become a model?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am 19 years old. Do you think giving up my studies and doing modelling is a good option? I really am interested in acting and modelling but I am doing medicine, pursuing to be a doctor. I don't know if its worthwhile. Advise please!... (49 words)

How long should I stay mad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How long should I stay mad?? My husband and I were out last night my husband went outside to check the car and when he came back reeked of pot, we are very religous and he could get in a lot of trouble! When I asked him he lied at first. How long should I stay mad to really ... (72 words)

How can we get through this without destroying each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - During my four year relationship with my husband I have uncovered several lies that he has told me. I am feeling extremely hurt, disappointed and let down, but he suggests that most of them were only white lies, therefor he does not understand why I have taken them so much to ... (137 words)

Can you fix a marriage when your heart is not in it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm married with 2 young kids and I'm feeling like leaving my husband for a guy I knew when I was 15-20 (I'm now 36). My husband and I have been together 7 years, having gotten pregnant in the first 6 months of knowing one another. We have had many issues, I have felt like the ... (422 words)

My Dad cheated and I want him to be better!

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad had an affair on my mum with a work mate almost two years ago, he says this was because he had a, "Split brain," he told alot of lies during this time. I convinced myself it was all my fault because I saw him on msn and then found the emails from her which I told my mum ... (399 words)

Is it normal to get bored with someone you've been with for awhile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im 23 years old, ive been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now. i know i love her n i know she loves me...we treat eachother with respect, rarley ever argue...but alot of times i find myself thinking of what if i was with someone else. i think i want a change but on ... (197 words)

Should I keep waiting for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age - Its been a month sine I got drunk and called my best friend and told her that I am in love with her and asked her if she remembers or thinks about when we kissed. She said that she remembers it happening but she does not think about it..She said that I was out of control (which ... (294 words)

I'm sick of making all the effort with this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

- Me and A boy at school like eachother. He's really shy. and In school its usually me who makes the convosation and he just says he's bored. and On msn he said it was rubbish. when im there trying to make convosation. in school he says hes bored and i try and make ... (249 words)

Do women have morals?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a Japanese friend who once joked that 'women have no morals!' I can't remember what we were talking about but, having read a lot of forums, here and elsewhere, this is what seems apparent:- Men, when considering cheating on their partners, consider this option aga... (205 words)

Am I right for being jealous and controlling, or am I just doing too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, THIS IS REALLY LONG! I need to tell the whole story to get a clear answer!! I have been seeing my boyfriend now since May and we became officially boyfriend and girlfriend in June. In the beginning the relationship was amazing. I thought “wow, this is the man fo... (1654 words)

How do I increase my libido? It's ruining my life. I feel molested when we have sex because I do it just to please him...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyone know of any natural remedie to increase female libido? My Husband is a scorpio and he wants sex 24/7. I don't have any desire at all or I am just not sexually attracted to him, it's a problem I am only 30 years old. Please help, I feel molested when we have sex... (73 words)

Young married couple... headed for disaster

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old married female, mother of a two year old. I have been married 3 years, and it feels like 50! My husband and I dated 2 years before hand and have known each other 6 years total. We have had our ups and downs but lately it feels like all we do is fight. He ... (225 words)

What does "One of the Guys" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am concluding a cheating episode with my fiance and ultimately trying to forgive him, but I am curious as to an explanation he has stated to me. He had cheated with me with one particular girl for a while and I asked him why? He said he wasn't sure and it was l... (90 words)

I'm nervous about 'coming out' to my parents, can anyone help, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I am a 15 year old gay boy. Recently I have been thinking of ways to "come out" to my parents. I know they will take it well, but I don't know the time and the place to do it. As I am closer to my mum I was thinking about coming out to her first and then with her surp... (85 words)

I haven't heard anything... so is there any point?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, need your help again. The guy I was seeing for three months came home a wedding in England and invited me out on the Sat night and I couldn't go with work commitments. He phoned me on the Tuesday after as I had had a break in to the house and he had heard about it. So ... (324 words)

I want to move on for my own sake but I don't know how to do it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this boy for 3 years and we were absolutely in love... couldn't get enough of each other, we were with each other all the time, and when we weren't together we wanted to be and talked on the phone. the only problem was that my parents are very religious and didn't ... (236 words)

Am I overreacting? I just don't think it is right!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

- ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and had what i thought was a perfect relationship! but recently we've both come to the same university and he's told me he wants a break. i worked my hardest to make him want to keep me and it worked, but ive been hearing that hes made ... (129 words)

I just want to be happy but it never seems to happen for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in my first real and first gay relationship for over a year now. I love my boyfriend very much to the point I think sometimes too much. For the past few months our financial situation has blown to the point that debt collector's are coming to him. I feel so bad beca... (324 words)

We never have foreplay and I now hate having sex with him...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i`m 24 yrs old and i`ve been seeing someone for nine yrs now,my problem it`s that everytime we have sex my boyfriend would go straight inside me without making a foreplay or kissing me u know,and i dont enjoy having sex with him,i dont know if maybe i should tell him not to ... (81 words)

I accidentally hit her with a ball in gym, and now there are rumors going around that I hit her!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have the same gym class. We ended up partners for volley ball. We were just passing the ball to each other. I already throw the ball when one of her friends said hi to her which lost her attention for a moment. The ball hit her in the face and her gave a ... (107 words)

He wants to know my every move, he's a bully and I can't take it any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I realy need somebody's opinion. I'am was engaged with this man for 16 years. We have a 4 year old son and I have 2 teenage girls from a prevouis marrage. I broke my engagement 6 months ago I asked him repeatedly when are we going to get married and his answer always is ya ... (741 words)

I'm tired of putting in this effort in this crazy relationship while he sits and makes strange comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a few questions actually. I have been in a relationship for 4 years now and it seems like things are slowly getting worse. I do everything i can for this man but he keeps saying these random comments like "I think i sould leave" or "I'm not in love with you ... (154 words)

What can I do within my comfort zone to let him know I'm interested? I'm so shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry if this sounds really lame but there's this guy that I'm crushing on yet I'm too shy to even hint that I'm interested. We knew each other from elementary school and just recently found each other online. He told me that when we were young, he had a huge crush on me (I ... (189 words)

I am scared I will lose my LD boyfriend again, how can I know if he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend that lives in palmdale and I live in south central and I have a feeling that he might cheat on me or scared that he will leave me we got together febuary 2008 and broke up april 2008 and now we got back together on october 2008 and I really really love him ... (117 words)

I love and care for my boyfriend but I don't see us marrying and I often have crushes on other guys!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I have a serious problem and I want to know honest opinions on what I should do. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now (I'm in my 20's) and I love and care for him very much (I don't believe I'm in love with him anymore for a number of reasons) ... (269 words)

I'm an Aries and he is a Capricorn - could he be the one? He's madly in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This boy is madly in love with me. He is a very good friend.He is born under the sign of capricorn, on the January, 1991. Is he the real one? Or there is still time for my prince charming to come? Sometimes I feel attracted to him, and somtimes i find him boring, or ugly. ... (89 words)

I feel I'm getting mixed signals from this guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from this guy, and just wanted to get some outside opinions. I'm sorry if it's a bit lengthy, I just want to give you the 'full' story, so you can tell me what you think. I've worked with this guy for well over a year. We work in di... (740 words)

Did I really lead him on sending him those messages??? (Guy's point of view is appreciated)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy we been talking, getting to know each other. He's been talking about being friends with benefits so here I am trying to get to know him before I do have sex with him and I don't plan to give it up like that. We talk on the phone every day. I sent him some ... (222 words)

What should I do about my feelings for my cousin and my current engagement?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Well I don't know how to start this but from looking up similar situations on this sight I don't feel too wierd to ask. I am in love with my cousin and have been for years now. When I was 17 I slept at my aunt's house (my mother's sister) in the room with a fema... (437 words)

Is my ex just waiting for me to call, being manipulative so he can weasel his way back into my life again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What is my ex thinking? I broke up with my ex a year ago, then just emailed him a few days ago (after I had changed my number and email since he was harassing me). I asked if he was sorry for how he treated me (I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive). He ... (267 words)

I don't think my husband really loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My concern is, I don't think my husband really love me because he never share his thoughs with me, we really sit together to converse, if I asked him questions or even directions, he is always hass on me which always leave unspeakable and always woundering what kind of husband ... (418 words)

I don't want to split with her... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for 4 months now. I really care about her. However, we'll both be going off to college in a few months. I know the chances of us being together forever are slim but I still can't stand to think of my life without her and I'm afraid that she'll want to ... (74 words)

The girl I'm in love with... I'm nervous about the outcome of talking with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

9 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a girl... her name is Jordan and I had her in a class last semester. She always sat really close to me and gave me "the look". I fell head-over-heels for her, but was always apprehensive about talking to her because of a tragic event in my life. I longed ... (180 words)

Is he going to cheat again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend cheated on me with a friend of mine but at the time our realationship wasnt that serious and i broke it off with my friend and is still with the guy i love him so much but everytime i see him hes talking to another girl does that mean hes going to cheat on me ... (58 words)

Do these things mean she likes me?

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9 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - there is a girl is a girl in my class who liked me a lot for one year, flirting and giving signs in weird ways. right now, i dont know if she still likes me. she fixes her hair and glances over several times. she says bad things about me and acts mean to me. she doesn't talk to ... (92 words)

Is he not answering because he doesn't like me at all anymore?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy I met at a party, started flirting alot and next thing I know he's inviting me over to his house a few days later and is really into me. We talk on msn alot, although we don't see each other as much, but he left me with the feeling that he was my bf or so i ... (205 words)

We don't spend enough time together...is it just me?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and my fiancee is 34. I have been previously married, no children. He has 2 children from a previous marriage that stays with us every second weekend. My fiancee used to play sports once a week but it has steadily progresses to 3 nights a week. I feel like I never se... (92 words)

How do I make friends?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i make friends in my school. i am not new but people seemed to not like me, i talk to people and they reply but other times they seem like they are totally not interested. i just want to have conversations with people and have them like me so that they can come and talk ... (61 words)

Should I encourage his dream to be a rapper?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My soon to be hubby is determined to be a rapper. I encouraged him because he's a very talented artist, but now I'd like him to focus on a real career because he didn't even finish high school. He's very smart and I love him a lot, but I can't live this way. Should I keep ... (72 words)

He's not climaxing now, after I told him I wasn't! Now what?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time a little while ago. I have never climaxed (even on my own) so i wasn't surprised when I didn't. I explained to him that orgasm is not something that comes easily to me, and that it's not his fault, we just need to work on it. ... (117 words)

I really like her but don't know what she thinks.... any opinions appreciated!

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9 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, I'm a little lost, any advise is greatly appreciated, first of all, I have always had a problem with confidence, I fight for it everyday and I believe I am doing ok but still get very anxious. I have also never been in a relationship. The problem is A girl moved to th... (190 words)

They don't know I have a boyfriend. How can I keep that idea going?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone i really need some advice quick... tonight my parents and everyone went out and i was ;eft home alone... so i decided to call my boyfriend round and spend the time with him... i asked my sister to call me as soon as they left so i could send him home however she ... (204 words)

My parents were hippies 35 years ago, but now with my boyfriend, they're suddenly prudes. What gives?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone- I'm having a bit of a conflict with my parents in regard to my boyfriend. We have been together for three years and lived together for two. He is 33 and I am 27. Neither of us is really concerned about marriage, we are together and content for now. I don't th... (342 words)

I need direction. Something. Please.

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long, but I really need the help. Thanks. Um, well I'm 16 years old, and I'm a junior this year. I come from a very very very Christian family, who does not under any circumstances accept sex before you get married. I believe in God, and I believe that is the way it s... (1246 words)

What does 'Enjoy your company' mean?

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9 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - For starters I am 42 years old and have been divorced for 4 years now I did not start dating until Feb of this year - About a month ago I met a women who is 48 - We get along great - and we compliment one another on a wide variety of different things. When we first met she ... (184 words)

May I be pregnant?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex three days before my period and my boyfriend ejaculated in me. Now I am late...may I be pregnant?... (22 words)

Utter confusion! Does he still love me or is this just a game?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex-boyfriend have been together for 11 months. In the beginning we have been doing fine and he was the most sweetest guy you cold ever be with. He would buy me flowers at random, open the car door for me, and lots of that good stuff. Well a couple weeks ago, (more ... (266 words)

39 year old guy and 22 year old girl ... Where can it go?

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9 October 2008 (M)

- I met Susan in September 2007. We worked at the same company but different departments. She was 21 and I was 38. During the course of the year there seemed to be an attraction based on common interests. I broke up in December. We went out about 4 times from January to July ... (214 words)

Why all the calls, texts and dates if he doesn't want it to go anywhere?

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9 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help..recently i met this lad i really like, he has took me on 3 dates now, and he seems really keen, he txts everyday and phones me evrynight since we met, he always compliments me ,saying im gorgeous and funny etc. and its really nice, evrytime i see him i like him that ... (229 words)