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writes:I know this question may sound very dumb, but it keeps coming up in my head....How are people atracted to other people? i like this guy i am very much atracketed to him, and he is atracketed to me. but how? it hard to explain.... feel free to share your thoughts..... im just really wanting to know. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Pascal once said:
"Clarity of mind means clarity of passion, too; this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what it loves."
I subscribe to this idea. I am attracted to people I respect. I love the girl I love because of her strong points, which I clearly recognize. I love the girl I love because of traits which I clearly recognize. This does not make it conditional, but it allows me to better understand my emotions and myself.
Obviously this is just my view, and may not work for everyone.
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