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writes:My boyfriend and I have started getting more sexual, he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job, but he wants to go down on me, if I let him, does this mean I have to go down on him as well? I've never given oral before and I don't think I'm ready for itso shall I let him go down on me?
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reader, selena123  +, writes (24 March 2011):
Your between the ages of 13-15. Your a bit too young for anything that has to do with sex.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (24 March 2011):
 I don't think you should be doing this at all to be honest, nevermind worrying about it! At your age you should be worrying about your GCSE's not whether or not you should be returning an oral sex favour. Stop what you're doing and grow up first.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (23 March 2011):
 You don't have to, no, but if he does much for you (fingering, oral, whatever) without getting much back, for long enough, he will start to feel that it's unfair. If you go further sexually with him, know that he's not going to stop easily. Be sure to draw the line, clearly, before you get too far ahead of yourself.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (23 March 2011):
 I think it is ok to let him pleasure you orally, even if you aren't ready to do for him quite yet. You will be soon enough. But please don't go any farther with this boy until you get yourself on the pill. You are only 2 moves away from full blown sex. And it is often too late to think about protection in the heat of the moment.
Condoms alone are not enough. Just ask all the rubberhead babies out there.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 You never have to do anything that you don't want to, but if you do let him do it he will expect it in return. I would wait till you are ready to get into that as well before letting it go any farther.
In my mind when in a relationship it is the right thing to do to return the favour for the person you are will. That doesn't mean that if he randomly goes for it, although you should stop him, that you know have to do it against your will.
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