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*jroller14
writes:My bf now ex and i broke up a few days ago.....I am still madly in love with him! he says he is still in love with me and I am the best thing that ever happened to him.I am asked why he broke up with me in the first place and he said it was b/c he was afraid I was gonna dump him and he wasn't thinking.And with him telling me all of this it sounds as if he wants me back but i dont know what to think anymore....i know i want him back but can u please help me?!?
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reader, Sjroller14 +, writes (23 March 2011):
Sjroller14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I got a curfew.....stupid 8 o clock........ and i hate the piano and ballet
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 If I was your mother this guy would have more than just a broken relationship with you. And you would have a part time job and a math tutor and a piano teacher and a ballet class and a curfew!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 March 2011):
 Hey MamaBear, let me buy you a coffee! When they bring the High Five back, I owe you one!
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reader, Sjroller14 +, writes (22 March 2011):
Sjroller14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe got bak together and to yazanco, no we didnt have sex.......I AM ONLY 14!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 Are you the same girl who's boyfriend broke up with her by changing his facebook status, and changed it to being in a relationship with someone else?
If so, then you really should listen to the advice you have already received. What kind of person does that? He sounds both immature and a coward, not like the guy of guy anyone would want for a boyfriend.
I see you are madly in love with him, but this boy doesn't seem to be as much in love with you as you are with him. I wouldn't advice you to get together with him. And, he hasn't even said he wants to be together with you.
If a guy wants to be with you he doesn't break it off. And certainly not in such a low way as merely changing his status without even talking to you first. This guy isn't interested in you, no matter how much you read things into his words. Look at his actions, action speaks louder than words!!
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reader, yazanco  +, writes (22 March 2011):
May be it is a trick, i assume you had sex together for a long time, and he got bored of you, so he decided to go for another GF he met, but, he realized he missed you and want to have sex with you again.
This only valid if you had sex together, come back to us for a follow-up.
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (22 March 2011):
Oh, Lordy, put all this energy into your studies. Put it into your extracurricular school activities. Babysit and earn some money. You are too young to be mooning over a guy who may or may not like you. Save that serious stuff for later on. For the time being, tho, concentrate on making yourself the best person you can be - and the smartest. You will need good grades to get admitted to a college. You will need a college education, no doubt, to get a good paying job. You will need a rosy future to enjoy the many years remaining in your life. And, how can someone so young know if they are"madly in love" with a guy? As I said, too much energy put into this "nonsense".
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reader, kaykay1989  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 hello there,
Sounds to me that he wants to get back with you. Theres only one way to find out and that is to ask him how he feels about the relationship and see what he wants. Dumping you before you dump him seems a bit childish but I think everyone has done this at least once in they're life.
So go for it and ask him he may not make the first move because he's thinking exactly like you. Thinking I wonder whether she wants to get back together me after I dumped her. good luck xoxoxox
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