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writes:My ex partner of 10 years and I separated 4 months ago but still stay very close - it's not over for me and I believe we can recover from it given time - we still care deeply for each other. A girl has emailed him to ask him out for a drink and it has come to his email at my email address. He of course will not see it as he has moved out. I am mortified and heartbroken, I love him so much - what should I do? Should I reply for him and say no not interested or delete it. The person in question is a relative of one of his friends but this friend will not know about the invite, so won't tell him. Or should I tell him?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (22 March 2011):
 I agree with kay, just pretend you didnt see it. You arnt duty bound to pass it on but neither should you reply. Dont delete it, just ignore it. If he ever asks, you can just say you didnt know what to do with it as you arnt responsible for his mail.
Im so sorry for your situation xxx
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 Forward it to his new e-mail, even if it hurts it's the right thing to do. IMHO.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): I would forward it to him with a brief note that you thought you should pass it on. You have nothing to lose. He will think it good of you to bother forwarding it. He may not be interested in this girl anyway. Do the right thing and you'll feel at least you are not bitter and it will show him you are a fair person.
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reader, kaykay1989 +, writes (22 March 2011):
 I'm sorry to hear that. This is definately a difficult situation. I it isn't over for you, but how do you think he feels about this? do you think its not over for him? or do you think he just wants to stay friends? as hard as it is I think it's best to just leave it. Don't delete it and don't reply back on this behalf. Just incase somehow he finds out that she emailed him by word of mouth just because there is a chance of that concidering it's a relative of one his friends.
I hope this helps sorry xoxoxo
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