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30-35,
*eneh
writes:Hi I'm 21years and been in a relationship with a 38year old man for 4years.we loved each other so much we did everything together,his weakness is with women,he likes girls so much but I over looked all of that and still stayed in the relationship cus I knew what I meant to him and even had threesomes and all.I cheated on him with a girl we had a relationship with for 5months and he found out.he got he upset and broke up with me but still kept the other girl.I apologised so many times but he won't listen.said I caused him so much pain and sorrow.even tho he says its over,everyday he send a text to remind me of everything he did for me and how evil I am to have done what I did.and to make matters worse the girl we had a thing with keeps feeding him with lies about me and he doesn't want to listen to anything I say and anyone who tries to talk to him on my behalf he takes it out on them.I put him above everbody in my life,even my family.I cut all my friends out cus of him and now that he says its over I'm left all alone.don't know how to start my life again cus he was all I had,I still love him very much and I don't know if he feels the same about me anymore.what do I do now?I'm hurting real bad.
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reader, neneh +, writes (2 April 2011):
neneh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys,esp flynn..thing is I still love him and I can't get over him.haven't heard from him in weeks.I'm dying of loneliness right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): I could tell this was not gonna end well, BEFORE you cheated.The fact that he cut you off from friends and family was the first warning sign.You tell the story as if it was HIS idea to begin a threesome thing with other women. And you went along with it out of your own feelings for this man.Cheating is wrong. Under every circumstance. But not unforgivable.If I were you I'd go and find someone you'd not WANT to cheat on, no matter how many opportunities to flash by. Someone who treats you with the utmost respect.You don't have to be a dyke or an ass-pirate, or even straight as an arrow to need that from a relationship.Respect and love should the be main prerequisite for ANY relationship, whatever the sexual orientation.And the the anon female... lets not get sexist here. No one sex is 'better' than the other. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. It's up to the individual taste of the people in question.So whilst you may not like guys because of some bullshit experience in the past, I would thank you to not generalise in such an offensive manner.Not all of us men are assholes. In fact most of us are not. The same would apply to women as well, I'd assume.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): He knows you really DO like females now and he can never KNOW if you'll be sneaky again. MY advice is to get a girlfriend. They are better anyway, in my opinion.
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