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26-29,
*arissalover1
writes:my boyfriend might be moving away for the summer :( its only about an hour away from me by car but i will miss him so muuch!!! i wanna tell him that i dont want him to go but i want him to be happy and get money from the job hes going to do....i just dont have the heart to do it :(he'll only be gone for the summer but still, it will feel like forever!!! i love and trust him so much but... should i tell him i dont want him to go? honest answers pleas :(
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 No, please don't tell him anything, if you do it would be an act of selfishness.
What's your problem ? You love him ( and hopefully you know he loves you back ), you trust him, he is going away not for a holiday, but to work and make money- it's only for the summer, and the distance is ...all of one hour by car ! Pardon me for not entirely feeling your pain, but... chances are , if he is a sensible guy, that he'll see exactly in my way.
It won't be total bliss for you for a few months, Ok, but ...you want him to give up something that's good for him , just because you don't want to have to handle at all a possible moment of loneliness or boredom ??
That's not how you show love- show him your love by handling serenely the - very temporary- LDR.
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