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female
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36-40,
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writes:I have a question about my orgasms. I'm not sure what's going on here and I'm starting to think that something is wrong with me. When I first started having orgasms, I would feel a "build-up" and then a "release" at the end. Lately, however, when I'm having sex with my boyfriend, I feel the build-up, but no release. It's like it just disappears. My boyfriend is convinced that I've had an orgasm because he can feel me tighten, but I'm not sure if it really is?I can't figure out why or what's going on, I'm not sure if it's a mental thing, that maybe I'm just thinking too much? But I figured that if I'm thinking too much then I wouldn't even be able to get to the build-up part to begin with..or maybe I am still having an orgasm even without the feeling of release?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): firstly certain medications will cause this , but first .are you thinking about it too much ,you really have to 'let yourself go" when you enjoy sex with someone or maybe communicate with him more tell him when he's in the good spot . you could also look up reverse ejaculation - happens to guy's not sure about girls ... hope any of this helps -
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