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writes:I just want to know the meaning of love.What is love in general?What is being in love?What is true love?Ive been in a LD relationship for over 2 years and people keep telling me it wont/cant work. Well we have been through a lot together, soo many downs as well as ups and we have got through them all...when I'm with him psychically he makes me feel weightless and takes away all the problems that had previously been in my head. He makes me feel loved and wanted, I adore seeing him truly smile because then I know hes happy and that very second I see him smile I smile too. I love his looks as well as his personality and he is always honest with me. He makes me laugh and he actually knows me better than I know me (that may sound stupid but its true) We're always there for each other even at the end of an argument and I could go on a bit but basically whats bothering me is the fact I keep getting told to ditch him because he lives in Canada and I live in the UK...but ever since i was 14 I've wanted to move to Canada so really that should be ok right...and well with the way people act with me their making me believe I should end things but it feels like I'm giving up on true love and the person who makes me happy and the person i love waking up to each morning and whom I get physically sick when I leave him.From what I've mentioned can someone maybe explain what I have? Reply to this Question
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Have you two actually met face to face, just need a little clarity on that?
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (23 March 2011):
I am against LDR's when people have never met before BUT..."when I'm with him psychically he makes me feel weightless and takes away all the problems that had previously been in my head. He makes me feel loved and wanted, I adore seeing him truly smile because then I know hes happy and that very second I see him smile I smile too. I love his looks as well as his personality and he is always honest with me. He makes me laugh and he actually knows me better than I know me"that is just so nice....:) Being European (British) I belive you can settle down in Canada pretty easily in comparison to people from other nationalities. I say you two visit each other periodically until you can move together later in life.What about him going to the UK?????
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reader, Ldu +, writes (23 March 2011):
Sounds like love to me. Don't pay any attention to what other people say. If both of you respect eachother and make eachother happy that's all that matters. I've been in a ldr for almost two years and have asked my girl to marry me, the way you discribe your feeling s the same me and my girl feel. Oh yea she said yes lol. If its meant to be it will be but you both need to put in the effort
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): I am the original person who asked this question and to answer ur question cupidus...Im 21 and he is turning 20 soon and no I wouldnt be able to move in with him quite yet as he still lives with his parents. And lastly I want to move to canada soo bad but Im pretty sure the only way Im getting in is by getting married to a canadian and i would never use someone for that reason, and marrying him is out of the question as yes Id happily marry him as I love him and can see myself with him but he isnt ready so Im fine with that.
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reader, cupidus +, writes (22 March 2011):
Well move to Canada and move in with him, than you'll know all about love. Is he up for that?
Have you asked him?
Just a thought, is there a large age difference between you and yours?
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