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I'm in love with him but not sure where he stands, since I always initiate!

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Question - (22 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm gay, and I'm 27. I'm in love with a younger guy who has feelings towards me. We've not discussed if he's in love with me and I haven't told him that I am in love with him. I know I am in love, but, for now, he calls me "bro", friend, and etc. However, we are sexually intimate. We have had sex and we are always on the phone. However, recently, I have this feeling that he's going away. He still constantly calls, and I still see him as always on designated days when both of us are free, but he doesn't seem to want to be intimate to me... The passion, the constant kisses, in hiding and when we're at my place, have all gone. I don't know if it's because I'm always available for him and if this has made him take me for granted, but I know he has some desires for me, he must have! So, what do you I do? Should I always be the one to make a move or ask him to come over? (sometimes, he even says no) ... Should I act cold? I don't know what to ask ... but the dilemma is quite clear. Pls help!

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