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writes:Ok so here's the thing. I have recently been talking to a guy online and he seems really nice, we used to talk every day and about a month ago he told me he loves me and he then went quiet on me to the point where i would be lucky to speak to him twice a week. This may be because he is serving in Afghanistan at the moment as he is in the army. Around two days ago he told me he loves me again, to which i replied, dont say it if you dont mean it. He then said he wouldn't say it if he didnt mean it.Does he really love me? And seeing as we both say we love each other, does this mean we are in a relationship? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, BlueEyes94 +, writes (24 March 2011):
BlueEyes94 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help :)
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (24 March 2011):
That changes the story. I think you should look more into guys your age and only look at him again when he comes back (if you are still single by then). Don't take this too seriously, online dating is nothing compared to real physical contact. And as I said before, sounding nice online is very easy. Don't make it a big deal that he says all that to you.
Good luck!
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reader, BlueEyes94 +, writes (23 March 2011):
BlueEyes94 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI havent met him but one of my close mates knows him and she would tell me if he was like that. Maybe i seem stupid but i do care about him alot. We have also made plans to meet when he comes home.
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reader, sebaslookingforward +, writes (23 March 2011):
I agree with caringguy. It is very easy to be nice online. A few words with shallow intentions will do enough to convince a nice girl. He seems to be good at that.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 March 2011):
Have you ever met him? Because this sounds a bit like a trap to me.
Recently, there have been some women who think that they've been dating men serving in the British Army, and they have sent out money to them. Except - they're Nigerian con artists, not real army men.
Unless you have met this guy safely, there is no way that you can trust him. He could literally be anyone. As for love? It takes more than a few conversations online for love to develop.
I urge you to be cautious. You know nothing about this man, you have never seen this man, you do not know who he is, where he comes from, what his motives are.
Actually, even as I write this my concern for your safety goes up. I would not continue to speak to this man. You have no idea at all as to who he is.
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