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She's been with other guys and I'm afraid I won't measure up

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Question - (22 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2011)
A male age 26-29, anonymous writes:

This girl I know really likes me and wants to get with me. She is a year older then me and has hinted she would like to sleep with me.... I like her back but She has had sex with other guys and I'm scared I won't measure up to them and not satisfy her like her previous sexual partners....

We are just mates but she has said she would love to give me oral and full sex. I haven't told her that I'm only just above average. She has told me that I treat her like a princess and make her feel more special than her most serious bf could....

What should I do?? I don't want to just forget about it all... But I don't want her to laugh, I know she wouldn't but I always think that she might.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011):

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It's not that I don't want to because I really do.... But thankyou... That's given me alot more confidence :) and yes I definitely will use a condom

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A male reader, karmabum United States +, writes (23 March 2011):

She said she wants to, and you didn't? You've got more control than I did at 16.

#1: Satisfy her? If you're both 15 or 16, I guarantee that's a moot point. Your peers are not as good as they claim to be.

#2: Average is average for a reason. That means you're close in size to most guys your age.

#3: For f**k's sake, wear a condom! A disease or a baby is not worth it at your age.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011):

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15.... But I'll be 16 very soon

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011):

...you're how old?

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