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writes:When I started college at the end of last year I met some new friends and one of them has a girlfriend. I met her once and I added her on Facebook and we have been talking online and the odd time we see each other in person.She broke up with my friend a few weeks ago but then they got back together a week after. I needed some advice one day last week so i added my friends girlfriend on msn and we talked, but while we were my friend found out that i had added her on msn and he thought that something was going on between us when there wasn't. So me and his girlfriend were then talking about my friend and U know that he doesn't treat her the way he should but she was saying that she was getting fed up of him accusing her of stuff like cheating with me and she hasn't done anything to him for him to be like this. Since me and his girlfriend spoke things have been a little awkward between me and my friend and he has being giving me signals to keep away or off of her like always wanting to kiss her in front of me and saying differences between me and him that she apparently like about him. This is giving me the impression that he thinks that I like her and I do I really like her but I don't want to wreck what little relationship what they have left and I have got the feeling that she like me a little as well. What should I do about this? because I haven't got a clue thanks everyone
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reader, kaykay1989 +, writes (22 March 2011):
 O dear! I know you really like her but you have got to remember its you friends gf. Even if they split up would you get with her if she felt the same way? because thats what will happen.
If the answer is you still would get with her then just leave things as they are although I wouldn't advise you to do so all depends on how good of a friend he is to you.
If the answer is not you wouldn't get into a relationship then you really have to try and salvage this friendship and reassure him that you have no intentions of trying to steal him partner and that you just good friends, and also reassuring him that you both were just talking.
When she said he wasn't treating her right did you initiate that conversation or did she because maybe he feels like you stabbed him in the back in that way if hes read the convo and saw that you and her were bad mouthing him just a thought. xoxoxox
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