A
female
age
51-59,
*egzzz
writes:Hi all! I have been with my bf for about 15months now.My bf has a "just friend" at work. She has worked there 15yrs he has worked there 8yrs. She is married (4yrs) with 2 babies. She recently came back to work from Maternity leave. While on mat leave she called and text my bf every other day. Now that she's back its everyday many many many times a day and into the evening. Also for the last year that she was on mat leave my bf never stopped to take lunch... he would just eat as he worked. now that shes back he goes to lunch with her. She knows he has a gf ...as a matter of fact she was rude to me on FB once and i asked him why...when he asked her she accused me of being jealous and insecure...my bf stood up for me and said she was wrong. However...he turned his FB wall off after she said this.She once set my bf up with a friend of hers and when they started dating she stopped being this girls friend...when they broke up she became her friend again...hmmmm!!I caught my bf texting her at 1:00am in the morning to tell her he wasnt going to work the next day...than all the next day she was texting him and i caught him hiding his phone while he text her...than went into the bathroom to call her back when he missed her call. WTF?? I asked him why he did this and he said he knows her friendship bothers me and he doesnt want to make me upset. So what does he do...just today tells me hes going to lunch with her. I have asked him to set boundries with her but how can i expect him to set boundries when texting her at 1:00am in the morning obviously states there isnt any on his side!! Clearly they are flirting with each other...or am i imagining that too?Everything else about this man is absolutely wonderful!! I dont know what to do anymore this obviously bothers me but i dont want to sound like a nag or an insecure jealous gf? Sorry for the length!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 Sounds like an emotional affair to me. Texting at 1:00 a.m.? Please. Tell him to knock this nonsense off, it's gotten way out of hand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2011): Your bf is way out of line. He is cheating on you with this married woman.
Where is the married woman's husband when all this texting is going on at night? Maybe its time to let him know that his wife is cheating on him?
Get evidence together - make his life hell and leave. A man like this is NOT a keeper!
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