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female
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anonymous
writes:Hello there, I've decided to come to you guys for some advice. Me and this guy have been going out for almost 4 months now and most of the time i've been really happy with him and we both really love each other (although sometimes i think he's more into the relationship than i am ...) Anyway, over the last month we've had lots of little spats - largely started by me over little things like his lateness, him beign snappy at work etc and although he always tries and usually imporoves these things there always seems to be something else that crops up a bit later on. Now i don't know what to do, if i'm honest i think the fact that i lost my virginity to him made me slightly more desperate to stay with him but i do love him but my mood with him tends to flip. Sometimes i don't even know why, like one hour i'll be really in love and then next minute i'll just want some space. Like today he took me out for a meal with his friend but after an hour decided to drop me off straight after and go off with his friend who'd come to stay and i just felt it was a bit like a half hearted effort. God, i dont' know what to do i really love him and he's so good to me but why does my mood flip with him so often and why do i always get bothered by nitty gritty things?! I don't think i want to break up with him, but even Mum said i'm starting to look a bit run down and that i should find a new boyfriend! ALthough i guess that's a factor, because i'm from a christian home (i'm not sure about my faith) Mum particullarly wasn't too keen on me going out with a 24 year old non-christian (i'm 19 in August) and keeps dropping hints it won't last and i should end it after arguments she's always like 'Ohhh, so are you going to break up.' It's like she wants us too - which also adds pressure. He does so much for me but i just can't help getting moody on occassion and always having little spats with him, what should i do?!Please help me!
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