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writes:So I started talking to this guy 2 years ago, on msn, through a friend. Then a month later we just stopped because he got into trouble with my bf.He had a gf but didn't count it as a closed relationship. Then, a year later when I was single, he was driving by with that same gf,he saw me and honked at me, and smiled.later he facebook messaged me and we started texting. I knew I was attached to him for nothing already, but I still went with it. He started getting serious too, and started being all lovey-dovey. But everytime we were supposed to see each other, he messed up and just said I'll tell you why when I see you. He had a habit of not answering my texts when he didn't want to; then he'd wait a couple of days for me to "forget" before coming back as if nothing happened. Anyways, long story short: he cut off contact with me a few times and then restarted where we left off, months later, when we'd run into each other. Being desperately into him, I took him back . But this summer, we started again and he didn't seem so interested in me, he just acted like I was one of the girls and didn't give me much sincere importance. Messed up, didn't talk, came back-the usual. Then one day we finally got together, he hooked up with me like this is what we were supposed get to all-along. We didn't get far though, I didn't want to since I know he can be a jerk and it was our first meeting. Then he cut off contact again. It's been months now, I know he thinks about me from time to time because we have many mutual friends who talk about me around him, without knowing what happened between me and him. I know; it's obvious that he's the kinda guy who deserves anything, but I know that I' ll run into him sometime soon but I want to know; how do I react when he talks to me ? I've talked to him every other time because I tried not to be desperate and maybe make him feel like I'm worth it. But that was a while ago, and this time ( again, I guess ) I feel like I could do better then last time. What do I do ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, because I haven't gotten over him at all in the past 2 years and haven't been able to be with anyone else.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 Just be very casual when you run into next time. Say "hi" and then keep on going. Don't engage him in any more than that.
You see, there is so much messing around and uncertainty on his part. Do you really want/need all that?
I'd try to focus less on him and turn your attention elsewhere if I were you......
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