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*park-9-3
writes:im so confused. is she messing with my head or is it just me ?? so basicly i met this girl in my music class at college. we didnt really speak to each other at all at the beginning then we were put in a group together and tbh we still didnt really talk. then a week or so later she started posting on my facebook wall and we hit it off straight away and early signs said that she did really like me. all my friends were saying to ask her out. id finally built up the courage to say something when she asked me to meet her one lunch time. and thats when she introduced me to her ex.she was all over him and he was all over her. but all of a sudden he'd push her away. i got really upset at this so i said i had to meet some friends and walked away. we kept talking to each other meeting up and we started to get really close. but she would always bring her ex back into it amd get really upset so id comfort her.a few weeks later we went out for a meal and this is where she told me she liked me but we cant go out coz of her ex. she said it was because she didnt want to loose him. after this she started to be act more and more like my girlfriend. a few more weeks had past us getting closer and closer. and im not goin to lie i really liked it. she would tell me shes starting to fall for me but then become distant because of her ex. we would lie there together with my arms wrapped around her then her ex would text and that it i had to leave.so yesterday i asked her to this new years eve party and it started off like usual. then she started to be all over me but before i could kiss her shed pull away. but she was getting me horney because she kept saying she wants to do things with me. and i thort she has finally got of him. then as we where all saying happy new year she went right off me just because he had text her.half an hour later we left the party to back to mine coz she couldnt get home and the origanal plan was her to sleep in my bed with me but she sed no you sleep on the sofa. next thing i kno im sat on my bed and im massaging her back and she is loving it. but then she told me to go to bed so i got on the sofa and went to sleep. can you please help? what do i do call everything of between us?? stay friends ?? or actually try to get with her ?? but i kno no matter what i do ill always come second best to her ex.
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reader, spark-9-3 +, writes (1 January 2011):
spark-9-3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks :) i think im going to do this :)
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (1 January 2011):
I think yall should just remain being friend because it's obvious that she still like her ex and still messes around with him. Just wait until they are really done with eachother. So that you want get heartbroken.
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