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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16 we've been together for nearly 7 months now. I love him and he claims to love me too. I live about 1 hour 30 mins away from him so it is hard but I see he every two weeks which is good cos we have school and all of that.He has had sex before and I gave him my virginity after 3 months, everything was going well till like November wen all these arguments started to happen. We have sex without a condom and I know he's clean and I'm on the pill, but I got pregnant and had to have an abortion, at first I didn't tell him about it but he noticed I had been upset lately so he asked me what is wrong and I told me and he was shocked and upset I didn't tell him.We had a argument that same day because I felt he didn't care anymore. (By the I broke up with him 4 times in 2 weeks due to arguments before I told him about everything but we got back together because we don't wanna lose each other).So 2 weeks ago after that argument we didn't speak for a while (4 days) then I tried to speak to him he didn't reply/call back which was strange because he always does and he finally called 3 hours later saying he lost his phone which I don't believe. He ignored me a week after that and I stopped trying the on Christmas he sent me a text and I sent him on back and he didn't reply. Monday he sent me a text and we were finally talking and I thought everything was back to normal but then he has been ignoring me since then. He even switched his phone off. I sent him a text today but he hasn't replied. I really don't know what's wrong with him and I don't know where this relationship is going anymore :(I feel unwanted and I'm getting really worried and stressed about this :( I really don't know what to do. Should I just break up with him for good now? (By the way he didn't even give me a Christmas present he claims he's broke which I don't know my bday is soon and I don't know where this is going, is this all my fault?)I really feel I deserve better but I love him so much and its killing me inside :( everything was going so well :( help?
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