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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my husband for over 18 months married for almost 4 months. He is a great guy but not perfect! Sex use to be amazing but after awhile it got to the point where he only cares about his needs and has even admitted to being lazy about it. I love getting him off, i do my best to make sure it is awesome for him everytime and give him oral A LOT. He hardly ever gets into it when he is trying to get me off which in return gets me out of the mood. I am pregnant and have gained weight and am worried that he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I am not sexually satisfied and don't know if I can spend the rest of my life feeling this way! Someone help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (2 January 2011):
This is something you need to communicate to him more clearly. If he really does care and want to hold up his vows to always love you, he'll be concerned with your dissatisfaction and put more effort into your happiness.
But at the same time, life exists outside of the bedroom. Don't let a mediocre sex life ruin a great marriage; there are always ways for you two to work on it!
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