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36-40,
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writes:i have had feelings for this guy since we met 4 and half years ago. soon after fell in love with him. we didnt really keep in touch mouch and something alwyas connected us. about 2 years ago we started working together and now we are best friends. we argue like cat n dog...but at same time we get on so wel.. i would say we are soul mates. there is no one else that will understand us more than the other. i have admitted my feelings more than once. in may 2010 he was going to get married to someone and gave me a hard time saying that i cant come to his wedding etc. he was telling me that i should find someone quick and not be fussy (we are indians). he did not marry this girl as his mum was not happy with her.soon after we fell out really badly and stopped talking. we both went on hols (separate) and wen we came back we decided that we have bn silly. since august we have bn gettin on reli reli well. he knows how i reli feel...i told him once that i got reli jealous when he was going to see his friend who is a girl and he decided not to go. few weeks after we spoke about us and he said he has thought about it and needs lil time...but at same time we were gettin to know each lil differently...texting got lil bit sexed up!well apparently i annoyed him one day and he told me that he wants to be wiht this girl that i got jealous of. since that dya things not reli bn same. we have made up...last week we both got drunk and he told me thta he loves me and i told him. he kissed me.however he keeps mentionin this girls name to wind me up.does he reli like me or not?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 He is edging his bets on other people. First he's supposed to be getting married, that should have told you there and then that you are not his no.1. So the marriage fell through and now he's talking about another girl to you. I would advise you to think extremeley carefully about what you want from him because he could be playing you. I don't doubt that you two are very good friends, you need to keep him at arms length, he seems confused about what he really wants. If it is you he wants then you can afford to give him his space to sort himself out and then he may come to you of his own accord.
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