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Are we over?

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Question - (1 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2011)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Have been with my bf for 8 years, engaged for 2 of them. Last month he said that we were having problems and had been for some time. Wanted to work it out but really shows no interest in doing this. I loved him but now I am thinking it's time to go.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

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We split up this morning....now what

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A female reader, Secretlife Congo +, writes (2 January 2011):

I think yall are over. If he shows no signs of wanting to work it out you should just move on. It's no need to try and fix something that he doesn't want.

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A female reader, hotinlove Canada +, writes (2 January 2011):

"I loved him..." you said it yourself, you did, as in you no longer feel that way. 8 years, engaged for two...and just now he mentions that you are having problems? Do you agree, you mention that he said it, not you. You also say you wanted to work it out. Makes me think you already know the answer in your heart. There is no shame in walking away from something that isn't keeping you happy. In a relatonship everyone deserves to feel like they are madly in love each and everyday, if you are not getting what you want then yes it is time to go!

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