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*iutaah
writes:I went to a party with my friends and cousins, I met this girl and we talked throughout the whole night we were both sober when we met and we got really drunk, we hold hands and danced all night. Our close friends really want us together, I want to be with her... Any suggestions on how to do this?
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reader, airwaterearthfirebender  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 Piutaah, be wise. Always think beyond the immediate and just don't make yourself and/or her end up some statistic and/or on the Jerry Springer show. How you act and comport yourself is how people will treat you and the type of woman you will attract. It is your choice. If you are doing well in school, hopefully your thinking processes are a little more advanced. Then again, sometimes we are doomed to learn things the hard way. I mean what exactly "don't you give a sh!t" about. In the end it's your life but I hope I've given you a slightly more advanced way of thinking that looks beyond just yourself.
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reader, m.  +, writes (2 January 2011):
That's a good thing, but be sure that she knows what you actually feel. Many Times I've charter with some guys Who were actually in love with me and I've tought and treated 'em just like friends!
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reader, Piutaah +, writes (2 January 2011):
Piutaah is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah, I know i'm still a kid I'm 14 but i don't give a shit.. School's going well so no problem with it, my marks with my parents been real good. I got her number, I know her name, i added her on FB and we talked alot today too.
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reader, airwaterearthfirebender +, writes (1 January 2011):
What exactly do you mean you want to be with her?IMO you sound like a recipe for disaster. I don't think at your age you should be in any sort of relationship. You are much too young and drinking far too under age. Drinking and women don't mix, you are asking for trouble and possibly getting her or someone pregnant. Don't go starting life this way, it'll mess you and others up. Wait until you are older. Hopefully both you and your future partners will be more mature and can understand what it means to be in a relationship. In the meantime, focus on your education and being a kid.
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reader, m. +, writes (1 January 2011):
Hey :)
Have you asked her her telephone number? Or do you just know her name and have added her on facebook? Then, call her or write her on the chat and ask her to hang out. It's simply and it doesn't cost anything, if she says to you "no", you will know immediately that she doesn't like you, and you won't have spent your time chasing after somebody who doesn't like you :)
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