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*tillgivinthanks
writes:my b/f recently cheated on me with another woman. Yet we have had unprotected sex two times since he cheated. The last time was the day before my period came. Now my period is finished and my vagina feels different. He didn't tell me until like when until we argued about him not having sex with me. I am a bit scared thinking he has given me some std's. I even tried to ask him if he had had unprotected sex. He will not answer. That makes it worse because i know him and the fact the did not answer says a lot. He had unprotected sex. We have been together for 3 yrs and we did trust each other till we had unprotected sex all the time. and for him to do this to me now is torture.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): See a doctor ASAP! If you are given a clear bill of health you will be in a better position to decide if it is worth continuing your relationship although forgiving and forgetting may be difficult. However, if you are diagnosed as having an infection, concentrate on your treatment, tell him to get treatment himself and give him his marching orders!
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reader, Chickita  +, writes (1 January 2011):
Hi
This is a serious one. A very serious matter. Not the cheating as such (no doubt that that is unacceptable), but cheating without protection. That's plain dangerous.
Im from South Africa, we have one of the highest HIV-AIDS infection rates in the world. This man is gambling with your life. Your life - can you comprehend the severity of that. He's cheating could result in your life coming to a dead end. Think about that. All your dreams, your family, you friends, everything coming to a standstill.
Yes men cheat and thats inexcusable, but cheating without protection. Now thats a deal breaker.
I've lost loved ones due to this, buried far too many - think about it. He didnt love you enough to protect you nor himself...if you're prepared to die for him then stay. thats where you're headed...if you stay.
Otherwise, please get tested and make sure you are in the clear - for all STD's, not just HIV.
Remember - silence is consent. He definitely had unprotected sex.
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