Dumped on New Year's Eve!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear cupid i just got dumped by my boyfriend on new years eve!!we would havee been together two years on the 8th.he broke up witth meh because he says i make no effort to see him..he lives in the next city over frm me and i just recently lost my car and have been going through finacial trouble which makes it hard to get around.he has a car an only comes over once a month! he trys to force me to take the bus to the next city and walk to his house.(which is so rude to say)and also gets upset when my friends and family wont drive me to see him.(but i cant force them to give me a lift because thats not my car).he says he could see me anytime but he chooses not to pick me up because he wants me to catch the bus.its not that i dont wanna see him its just things are temporarily hard for me right now.but he sees it as im using him and im high mateinance.but i dont catch the bus because he makes me feel as if im surrending to him if i do it... what do you think ???

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