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writes:My life is fucked up... What to do?I am 23 year old guy.For the past 1 year, things havent been going the way i wanted..or rather i should sayit never went. I am neither a sportsman nor a geek. I am lazy. First of all, Internet Pornography, i have been trying to put an end to it for a long time.But so far no luck. I hate it very very badly now, but still i am addicted to it. As a result i am hooked to Computer most of the time.Second, Got a rejected when I proposed a girl. According to her i am just a friend.Its nearly 4 months, i talked with her. But still i cant forget her. I am sureshe wont come back. Now i dont want her to come back. But i still cant forget her. She is in myhead 24x7. This is my second failure when i propesed a girl.I never had a girl friend throughout my life.Third, Failed terribly in my exams owing to the above two reasons.In the next two weeks i have exams coming up again. I havent started studying. I hope i pass them.Fourth. Being abroad, I dont have much contact to my good old friends.People up here, whom i called to be friends, havent called me via phone or even tried to contactme by email. Even much of my old friends, have forgotten me. Its always, i who call them via phone.They never call me nowadays.Fifth, Things which i want to do, is never done. Or rather i fail terribly in my planned activities.I really wished, things went according to what i want.Six, i am not financially well and i dont have any hobby. Lastly, i dont want to meet a doctor/psychiatrist. I feel like i am alone. I dont find a reason for my existense. Anyways i am not going to Suicide.I want to live but i dont know how to find a solution to the above problems.I wish for a new beginning. If anyone have any tips for me, kindly let me know.
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reader, cupid_1234  +, writes (2 January 2011):
 You should meet a doctor for sure. Get yourself checked up if everything is fine. One tip which always works is exercise and healthy diet. Join a gym and start lifting weights. This will help a lot in enhancing your mood. And always remember, "you are what you eat". It will solve most of your problems, from addiction to internet pornography to focusing on your studies. Find out why did the girl reject you and work on it. Many girls may reject but keep searching. You will find one for sure. All the best!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Well, you need to make a list of things that need to be done/improved and do it.The first is studying for your exam. Then work on your career. Friends come and go so don't worry about that one right now. Third, girlfriends can wait - work on your school and career. Fourth, go see a counselor to talk to (it'll help alot). Eventually, when you're settled in life you can focus on friendships and girlfriends, but for now you need to focus on yourself. Also, don't propose to any girl unless she is your girlfriend.
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