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female
age
30-35,
*acrosser
writes:I have had the same bf for about eight months now and recently he told me before he met me he slept with a girl in my grade and ignored her and they haven't talked since. Now I am unsure if he used me for the last eight months to try to get to that point. Part of me says no he actually loves you cause he is always there always near me but maybe its just cause he knows what to say... I don't want to end up to be just another girl.. what do you cupids think??xoxo thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 January 2011):
 I think your boyfriend told you this because he feels he can trust you, and because he wants to share some secrets of his with you. I don't think he told you this in order to get into your pants and use you... Because if all he wanted was sex he'd first off not tell you about this other girl, and second he'd have already made his moves on you and not waited for 8+ months.
I don't think you should be concerned at all.
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